Anyone with experience with sugar dating in Ottawa? Are there any legit platforms that particularly cater to audience looking for such an arrangement? Doesn’t necessarily need to be an escort. Thanks in advance.
Sugar dating in Ottawa
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So In my experience as a SB, I used to use seeking arrangements but it’s honestly HORRIBLE
the best arrangements I have had are from clients who meet me a couple times and make sure we have a good connection
the best arrangements I have had are from clients who meet me a couple times and make sure we have a good connection
I think SB means something else in Ottawa.
I have friends that are SB in other cities and they all have great arrangements that permit them to live a comfortable life. They are spoiled and they don’t pay rents or bills.
Here in Ottawa , I haven’t had any serious inquiries.. Most of them are pretended rich guys wanting to chat for free ..
I simply stop entertaining those requests.
I have friends that are SB in other cities and they all have great arrangements that permit them to live a comfortable life. They are spoiled and they don’t pay rents or bills.
Here in Ottawa , I haven’t had any serious inquiries.. Most of them are pretended rich guys wanting to chat for free ..
I simply stop entertaining those requests.
Huh so many wannabes . I thought I was alone I have some men who want to chat for free too . There are some who even ask me to film etc . The list goes on. I don’t provide filming sessions. I live a very private life that I like to keep it that way . I respect the ones who do . It is just not my thing .
They pretend a lot . If some of them could be good like the great ones , the world would be perfect.
Ohh I forgot, the ones who pretend they want to marry you # captain save a hoe … so they can access to you for free !
I don’t entertain anymore too .
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I feel you.
It’s sad because of those stupid ass , I don’t take any of them seriously. I could be missing on someone I could really care for and have a wonderful arrangement that makes me & him happy , but it’s way too much weeding out and time consuming that I just gave up on that idea.
I’m good with my regulars that makes me feel precious. They also are precious to me
I too don’t take it seriously ! Especially when some of them want to fuck my day ! I’m like dude there is no way . You better find someone else or leave me alone so I enjoy with people who understand me and gravitate towards my energy.I feel you.
It’s sad because of those stupid ass , I don’t take any of them seriously. I could be missing on someone I could really care for and have a wonderful arrangement that makes me & him happy , but it’s way too much weeding out and time consuming that I just gave up on that idea.
I’m good with my regulars that makes me feel precious. They also are precious to me
Yeah it is a big chore to weed out the weirdos.
That’s good that you have ones that make you feel precious !
There are some wonderful men too , very rare but …… I just wish the ones who are good to me the best . The other ones I wish them to find the ones who fit them .
Thank you for sharing your experience.
Maybe my understanding of sugar dating is wrong or I’m thinking of something else. Please tell me if I’m wrong.
I don’t think the guy has to be super crazy rich, just enough to come to an arrangement with someone where both can mutually benefit. Something like covering rent or school fees/loans etc. I would imagine there would be girls out there who would be interested in this because it allows them to earn without having to have sex with a different guy every day/week/month, have a stable and predictable schedule, they won’t have to be hunting clients all the time, all while having fun and building intimacy with someone. Not to say it would be safer as well.
And yes I’m very well aware that this is not a typical husband/wife relationship.
I feel like full time escorts are maybe not the right fit because they’ll always know that they can make more if they see more people. I guess?
So is there any platform where you can possibly find such an arrangement or am I daydreaming?
Maybe my understanding of sugar dating is wrong or I’m thinking of something else. Please tell me if I’m wrong.
I don’t think the guy has to be super crazy rich, just enough to come to an arrangement with someone where both can mutually benefit. Something like covering rent or school fees/loans etc. I would imagine there would be girls out there who would be interested in this because it allows them to earn without having to have sex with a different guy every day/week/month, have a stable and predictable schedule, they won’t have to be hunting clients all the time, all while having fun and building intimacy with someone. Not to say it would be safer as well.
And yes I’m very well aware that this is not a typical husband/wife relationship.
I feel like full time escorts are maybe not the right fit because they’ll always know that they can make more if they see more people. I guess?
So is there any platform where you can possibly find such an arrangement or am I daydreaming?
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It doesn’t work in Ottawa. I’ve tried twice and gave up. It’s not just the guys who are disappointing. Almost all the women are scammers from another country. The rest are scammers hoping to get quick cash with no intention of mutually beneficial relationships.
“Platonic” sugar baby? No thanks.
“Platonic” sugar baby? No thanks.
Well
I personally have a hierarchy of needs.
On the bottom of my needs there are ( rent + groceries + saving for grade school).
Helping to pay someone ´s bills like rent+ groceries are great and would have a big impact on their lives.
There are so many girls who are in this industry who advertise about looking for money to buy textbooks etc . Of course everyone needs are different but the basic needs like food and rent are mostly the needs that everyone would find beneficial to get a stress free from .
The average cost of living for a single person in Ottawa gravitate towards 3300$ per month !
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You likely already know about them, but there are websites where you can create a profile similar to a dating site to meet potential ‘sugar babies’.
www.sugardaddymeet.com/ca
www.seeking.com
www.sugardaddymeet.com/ca
www.seeking.com
From what I was reading online about these websites that they are mostly scams. Which is why I was hoping to learn from someone’s firsthand experience.
So in the past, I tried the SA website (not any longer) and I actually met some nice women after matching and messaging. My criticism of it was that it’s a time intensive process- lots of messaging, trying to meet up, some ghosting, etc. Plus you need to align yourself and your expectations. Eg. Some women would only be comfortable with companionship (so platonic) so if you’re looking for a physical/intimate part, then you wouldn’t be a match. Also the compensation expectations vary a bit requiring lots of discussion. So all to say, not scammers on there as you can meet some great women, it just takes time to find and make those connections.
If I may ,
What you just described is most of my regulars.
It is not really SB , but simply developing a bond with your provider:
I love that.
Sometimes , I feel like I am more a spoiled mistress than a provider
If you wish to make me your spoiled mistress too , let me know
kisses
Ali
PM me if you want me to share my experiences with you. It's all depends what you are looking for...
I am curious about people’s understanding and/or definition of sugar babies ……and the difference from escorts…
I have read that sugar babies are the modern day equivalent of a courtesan… and my understanding of that is a paid companion.
I understand there is an arrangement between consenting adults for some time - platonic or intimate - in exchange for something material be it gifts or jewellery or paying bills BUT how does this differ from being a regular client of an MA or SP???
Would enjoy reading people’s opinions on what the difference is tbh
I have read that sugar babies are the modern day equivalent of a courtesan… and my understanding of that is a paid companion.
I understand there is an arrangement between consenting adults for some time - platonic or intimate - in exchange for something material be it gifts or jewellery or paying bills BUT how does this differ from being a regular client of an MA or SP???
Would enjoy reading people’s opinions on what the difference is tbh
I said it in other threads but the best Sugar dating times are over. SA used to be filled with tons hot girls until 2021 and now it’s just 90% average or below average girls. Most of the other 10% want an allowance, plus rent, plus shopping, plus car payments, plus plus plus. Too much of a headache.
Only Fans has killed the SB scene cause most of all the hot ones don’t have to put out anymore and desperate guys will pay just to look at them on that site.
Only Fans has killed the SB scene cause most of all the hot ones don’t have to put out anymore and desperate guys will pay just to look at them on that site.
To be fair, the cost of rent & groceries together , is like buying Prada in this economy…
SD : What would you like baby ? (In a soft voice)
SB : Grapes & eggs please (In a naughty voice)
Spoiling has a total different ring to it in 2025
My experience is very similar to what Nadia mentioned above. I saw mine as a SP for 2- 3 years, and then we just decided to make it exclusive. We enjoy playing sports like tennis, squash and badminton. So we agree to do one sport activity and one fun time per week, and I pay her for these two dates. It's been over 7 years since.the best arrangements I have had are from clients who meet me a couple times and make sure we have a good connection
I was able to get into an arrangement with a SW and it was going great, but unfortunately we ran into something that was none of ours fault but our relationship wasn’t mature enough to navigate the miscommunication. It was going so well, much better than seeing a provider on a per appointment basis.
I guess I’ll try SA now. Not sure what SB is because all the links shared above keep on taking me to AM’s website.
I guess I’ll try SA now. Not sure what SB is because all the links shared above keep on taking me to AM’s website.
Can you share, if you choose, if that was a monthly stipend in exchange for predetermined scheduled company? Mind you I am guessing that is what a SB is?
