ELLEGANT ENIGMA-completely unhinged.

[Hughlongly]

Sooooooo, I really like women with large enhanced breasts, especially on slim bodies. Thus, when I saw this persons ad, I thought WOW! On her ad (or whomever ad it is, I have a gut feeling this isn't actually a provider), she has pictues of herself with MASSIVE man-made's. On her ad, she says she will not reply to text apps....and yet...she did. Ok. My good luck! I think. All went well, she provided me with a form to fill out, which I also thought was werid.... I replied to her questions. She provided a menu. I answered her questions. All was cordial until she asked for an e-transfer. Now, in her defense, she said 'I know your name will be attached to this, but for my safety, this has to happen' or words to that effect. I don't do deposits. Full Stop. I know some legitimate providers who ask for deposits and that's cool. That's their prerogative. It is also my prerogative to decline. I replied with 'I'm not comfortable with this, I understand this means we can't proceed, thank you for replying and explaining everything, have a good night'. So, most providers, when they receive a text like that, they reply; 'Ok, have a good night'. There was NOTHING but respect in my text. And this person WENT OFF! LOL. First she replied with 'I'm not going to some strangers house, this is my security' blah blah blah. Which, I'm thinking 'did this person NOT read my reply? I don't want to see them' She then admonished me for daring, DARING (her words) to contact a 'high class escort' like her. I then replied 'I do not wish to see you. Have a good night' and then the pin completely fell out of her head, the retard bomb went fully off and she laced into me COMPLETELY irrationally. If this person IS real, she's an asshole. I've never had any provider ever go off like this in 30 years of the hobby. My reply to this was an unceremonious EAT SHIT!. *sigh* ....not my proudest moment.

If she's real, she REALLY needs to work on her bedside manner. If not, well then it's a scam. I don't have any proof it's a scam but, as mentioned above, my gut tells me otherwise. I've included the link to her ad below. Again, she may in fact be a legitimate provider. Maybe she had a bad day. Maybe she's just really sick to guys cancelling. If that's the case, you know what?: find another employ. The world doesn't owe you shit. Like any service, when you treat your potential clients like crap, you get crappy reviews. As they say; play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If anyone HAS seen this provider, please feel free to comment, maybe I've gotten it all wrong. But my two cents; bullshit.

♡♡ELLEGANT ENIGMA♡ ♡HEIGHTEN YOUR SENSES ☆♡UNPARRALLELLED ♡ | Ottawa | South Eastern & Ottawa | Female Escorts | LeoList

 

[Smallguy]

I would never send, a emt as I don't want them to know my real name.

 

[sp free]

Congratulations on standing your ground. Deposits are a non starter for me too.

Take the power back

 

[Hotgirl fever]

Congratulations on standing your ground. Deposits are a non starter for me too.

Take the power back

Maybe moving forward, you and your friend should have sex with each others instead of wasting SPs who ask for deposits time ?

 

[tiberius6675]

Maybe moving forward, you and your friend should have sex with each others instead of wasting SPs who ask for deposits time ?

That is a better idea than seeing the low class, unhinged, stupid piece of shit provider described in the review.

 

[Hotgirl fever]

That is a better idea than seeing the low class, unhinged, stupid piece of shit provider described in the review.

Indeed , so why you don’t move forward doing it , then ? I don’t think asking for a deposit is a bad thing. They are doing it to avoid or weed out clients like you. It is their bodies and business so they do what they want with it !

 

[eastottawahobbyist]

Unless its a well reviewed provider with a reputation to lose, I will never send a deposit, I've played that game and it never works out, its always a scam.

 

[KittyCaterina]

I would never send, a emt as I don't want them to know my real name.

I've said this quite a few times...

If that is your only reason for not wanting to send a deposit, almost every single online bank allows you to change your name and email address to anything you want for a specific etransfer.

If I need to send a transfer to a client due to a cancelation on my behalf, I can change my name to Kitty Caterina and use my work email.
Then I change it back to my original credentials right after. Very simple.

I am not pushing deposits for those who are anti-deposit and I think you should always do your research before sending one, I'm just giving information to the clients who are afraid of deposits due to them giving out their real name.

 

[Boss Nass]

Indeed , so why you don’t move forward doing it , then ? I don’t think asking for a deposit is a bad thing. They are doing it to avoid or weed out clients like you. It is their bodies and business so they do what they want with it !

You missed the whole fucking point. He politely declined and then she took a dump on him. (Some guys might like a brown shower for free, but not all) She could have politely replied, or just stayed quiet, but decided to be rude. Very poor way to present yourself in a business that relies heavily on personal chemistry.

 

[massman]

Sooooooo, I really like women with large enhanced breasts, especially on slim bodies. Thus, when I saw this persons ad, I thought WOW! On her ad (or whomever ad it is, I have a gut feeling this isn't actually a provider), she has pictues of herself with MASSIVE man-made's. On her ad, she says she will not reply to text apps....and yet...she did. Ok. My good luck! I think. All went well, she provided me with a form to fill out, which I also thought was werid.... I replied to her questions. She provided a menu. I answered her questions. All was cordial until she asked for an e-transfer. Now, in her defense, she said 'I know your name will be attached to this, but for my safety, this has to happen' or words to that effect. I don't do deposits. Full Stop. I know some legitimate providers who ask for deposits and that's cool. That's their prerogative. It is also my prerogative to decline. I replied with 'I'm not comfortable with this, I understand this means we can't proceed, thank you for replying and explaining everything, have a good night'. So, most providers, when they receive a text like that, they reply; 'Ok, have a good night'. There was NOTHING but respect in my text. And this person WENT OFF! LOL. First she replied with 'I'm not going to some strangers house, this is my security' blah blah blah. Which, I'm thinking 'did this person NOT read my reply? I don't want to see them' She then admonished me for daring, DARING (her words) to contact a 'high class escort' like her. I then replied 'I do not wish to see you. Have a good night' and then the pin completely fell out of her head, the retard bomb went fully off and she laced into me COMPLETELY irrationally. If this person IS real, she's an asshole. I've never had any provider ever go off like this in 30 years of the hobby. My reply to this was an unceremonious EAT SHIT!. *sigh* ....not my proudest moment.

If she's real, she REALLY needs to work on her bedside manner. If not, well then it's a scam. I don't have any proof it's a scam but, as mentioned above, my gut tells me otherwise. I've included the link to her ad below. Again, she may in fact be a legitimate provider. Maybe she had a bad day. Maybe she's just really sick to guys cancelling. If that's the case, you know what?: find another employ. The world doesn't owe you shit. Like any service, when you treat your potential clients like crap, you get crappy reviews. As they say; play stupid games, win stupid prizes. If anyone HAS seen this provider, please feel free to comment, maybe I've gotten it all wrong. But my two cents; bullshit.

♡♡ELLEGANT ENIGMA♡ ♡HEIGHTEN YOUR SENSES ☆♡UNPARRALLELLED ♡ | Ottawa | South Eastern & Ottawa | Female Escorts | LeoList

Block and move on. If a provider can’t accept you politely saying you aren’t compatible,

 

[Hughlongly]

Indeed , so why you don’t move forward doing it , then ? I don’t think asking for a deposit is a bad thing. They are doing it to avoid or weed out clients like you. It is their bodies and business so they do what they want with it !

I did 'move forward'. I declined the service. And she went mental...much the way you're going mental now. So, perhaps take your own advice...and move on. As far as 'wasting her time', that's about as arrogant as it comes. Do you know how many people 'waste' car dealerships time? Do you know how many times people walk into, oh, any business in the world and 'waste their time'? What makes their 'time' any different than anyone else's in the world? Nothing. "It's their body, their business", sure it is, and god bless them. But it's OUR money. And my dear, at the end of the day, it's the consumer who decides NOT the seller.

 

[Hotgirl fever]

You missed the whole fucking point. He politely declined and then she took a dump on him. (Some guys might like a brown shower for free, but not all) She could have politely replied, or just stayed quiet, but decided to be rude. Very poor way to present yourself in a business that relies heavily on personal chemistry.

Well that’s was not a good thing to do from her part when he declined to send the deposit.
I personally ask for deposits because I don’t want anyone to waste my time. There are so many time wasters out there who are fantasy seekers . Deposit helps to weed them out quickly. I will never argue with anyone who doesn’t want to respect my policies. I will focus myself on the worthy clients.

 

[Hughlongly]

I've said this quite a few times...

If that is your only reason for not wanting to send a deposit, almost every single online bank allows you to change your name and email address to anything you want for a specific etransfer.

If I need to send a transfer to a client due to a cancelation on my behalf, I can change my name to Kitty Caterina and use my work email.
Then I change it back to my original credentials right after. Very simple.

I am not pushing deposits for those who are anti-deposit and I think you should always do your research before sending one, I'm just giving information to the clients who are afraid of deposits due to them giving out their real name.

That's fair. I didn't know that and truth be told, I don't think I could figure out how to do it. That being said, if it works for providers and clients, all the power to them. I don't like it. And I don't feel safe with it. That's just me.

 

[Boss Nass]

Well that’s was not a good thing to do from her part when he declined to send the deposit.
I personally ask for deposits because I don’t want anyone to waste my time. There are so many time wasters out there who are fantasy seekers . Deposit helps to weed them out quickly. I will never argue with anyone who doesn’t want to respect my policies. I will focus myself on the worthy clients.

Yeah, sure, okay, whatever...

 

[KittyCaterina]

Unless its a well reviewed provider with a reputation to lose, I will never send a deposit, I've played that game and it never works out, its always a scam.

This is a good point.

Well-established and reputable providers who have years of great reviews, a website and social media presence, and an entire business to lose, are not going to risk it all to steal one deposit.

I personally only request deposits for outcall, those using text apps or as one of my screening options when I travel.
Incall at my residence here in Kingston requires no deposit unless you are using an app.


My reasoning:

Outcall - I learned my lesson years ago when someone pranked me and I was out $60 in taxi fees. The deposit is to ensure my travel is prepaid.

Text App - 98% of no shows are text apps. I used to automatically block all text apps. I recently decided to give app users the option of prepayment via etransfer or gift card to ensure they are a serious client.

Travel - When touring in other cities, there are costs incurred that I don't have at home for incalls. I request a deposit, established review board username or multiple references to try and ensure that my bookings are with legitimate gentlemen.

My website and ads are very clear regarding my policies and if someone doesn't like it they can move on, hopefully respectfully.
Maybe my post can give you guys some insight, maybe not.

Comments about taking the power back are red flags to me though...

 

[Hotgirl fever]

I did 'move forward'. I declined the service. And she went mental...much the way you're going mental now. So, perhaps take your own advice...and move on. As far as 'wasting her time', that's about as arrogant as it comes. Do you know how many people 'waste' car dealerships time? Do you know how many times people walk into, oh, any business in the world and 'waste their time'? What makes their 'time' any different than anyone else's in the world? Nothing. "It's their body, their business", sure it is, and god bless them. But it's OUR money. And my dear, at the end of the day, it's the consumer who decides NOT the seller.

Darling it goes both ways . She has many suitors. An amazing client will respect her policy and be happy to have an incredible intimacy with her . This is SW . They are paying for advertising, selling their services and providing experiences and paying for other expenses. When you are talking about other businesses it is not the same . They are not opening their legs to feed themselves.
You think people who have businesses in the mall don’t have clients who waste their time ? They do have but they don’t get naked , so it doesn’t frustrate them . I was part of that, so I can understand both sides.

 

[Bigbigguy]

Well that’s was not a good thing to do from her part when he declined to send the deposit.
I personally ask for deposits because I don’t want anyone to waste my time. There are so many time wasters out there who are fantasy seekers . Deposit helps to weed them out quickly. I will never argue with anyone who doesn’t want to respect my policies. I will focus myself on the worthy clients.

SP’s have a right to ask for deposits. Clients have right to decline to send them. If the SP had a note in her ad stating a deposit was required the OP likely wouldn’t have contacted her - then NOBODY would get their time wasted….., maybe I was blinded by the large breast & everything pink & missed it, but I don’t believe she mentioned a deposit in her ad

 

[Boss Nass]

I don’t believe she mentioned a deposit in her ad

No mention at all.

 

[KittyCaterina]

SP’s have a right to ask for deposits. Clients have right to decline to send them. If the SP had a note in her ad stating a deposit was required the OP likely wouldn’t have contacted her - then NOBODY would get their time wasted….., maybe I was blinded by the large breast & everything pink & missed it, but I don’t believe she mentioned a deposit in her ad

If there is no mention of deposit requirements, then a potential client cannot be blamed for not knowing.

The issues begin when there IS a clear mention of policies and they are ignored, the client tries to slip through and/or the client tries to negotiate.

 

[Hotgirl fever]

SP’s have a right to ask for deposits. Clients have right to decline to send them. If the SP had a note in her ad stating a deposit was required the OP likely wouldn’t have contacted her - then NOBODY would get their time wasted….., maybe I was blinded by the large breast & everything pink & missed it, but I don’t believe she mentioned a deposit in her ad

That is also true about the fact that she doesn’t mention about her deposit policy . So that anyone won’t waste anyone time .