If you find out your son is watching porn and seeing sp, how would you deal with it?

superman12

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I wouldn't be too considered with him just watching porn unless of course it's becoming an addiction and it's effecting his daily life and relationships with people. At the end of the day most boys are going to be curious and watch porn and masterbate at some point in their life. I wouldn't really address it unless it's changing his behavior in a negative way. If he is seeing sp's I would warn him of the financial burden that it can put him in because seeing escorts is a really hard addiction to break and of course always be safe and wear condoms
 

Samranchoi

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I was told just today that when my friend was in Tim Horton’s some guy was watching porn and jerking off. Hope it wasn’t the cook.
 
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Shaquille Oatmeal

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Porn is okay.
If he is seeing SPs at a young age, Id have a chat with him to pursue relationships.
If he is married, Id have a serious chat with him as he'd be cheating.
If he is older and unmarried, or grown up and unmarried, I'd be okay with it.
 
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massman

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Show me a young man that is not watching porn.

Wrt seeing escorts, I’d tell him it’s his life (assuming he’s >18, and self sufficient) but caution him that it’s a potentially addictive hobby that can drain your savings and compromise your future financial security and relationships. If you do it, do so for a bit of fun and escape every now and then. Don’t use it as a band-aid regularly to patch holes in your life. At the margins of this industry there are some risks, some serious, so always think with the big head, never the little one only.
 

bunfun2024

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Porn is okay.
If he is seeing SPs at a young age, Id have a chat with him to pursue relationships.
If he is married, Id have a serious chat with him as he'd be cheating.
If he is older and unmarried, or grown up and unmarried, I'd be okay with it.
Im kinda in this situation. Im in my 30s with no experience, I think my dad knows I will be seeing an SP at some point given the fact I haven't been having any success with dating anyone irl. He didn't say anything about it, other than that he said be safe and use protection.
 
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southpaw

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Im kinda in this situation. Im in my 30s with no experience, I think my dad knows I will be seeing an SP at some point given the fact I haven't been having any success with dating anyone irl. He didn't say anything about it, other than that he said be safe and use protection.
I forgot to add, don't blow all your money. Now go have some fun, son.
 

superstar_88

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be safe and use protection is sage advice regardless sp or not.
 

kherg007

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I remember this Pic and having his mum say "I found this on our son's phone!" and then having to decide on punishment yet...I remember this scene w Maserati and loved her so although i was very concerned as he was underaged, and we had to take away phone etc., way, way in the back of my mind i was thinking.."the boy picked a good scene."
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oil&gas

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be safe and use protection is sage advice regardless sp or not.
This advice is of utmost importance for one's teen daughter in
high school. I won't worry as much for the son banging some
girls in school without protection. I would just advise him
to be selective and avoid gals who open her legs indiscrimately.
It is up to the girl's parents to foot the abortion bill.
 
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