Hobbyists and providers for longer sessions
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Never had a problem with my 2 hour sessions......always tons to talk about.....inbetween rounds or anticipated rounds. The person i am with is an individual i dont know.....the question and conversations could be endless. I stay away from religion and politics. Everything else is go with the flow.....and i never...ever ask.....do you enjoy what you do? NEVER!!
HB69.....was here?!?!?
I have a semi-regular encounter with a provider who although younger, has a very active & inquisitive mind. We typically spend 3-4 hours, a fair portion of which we spend discussing many different things from my work to her civvie job to family & world events, etc, etc.
the physical encounter is great. The conversation adds much to the encounter for me & I believe her as well. Seems like we both enjoy the “relationship” without being in a typical relationship.
For me this hobby is not just about sex & release…… perhaps I am different.
the physical encounter is great. The conversation adds much to the encounter for me & I believe her as well. Seems like we both enjoy the “relationship” without being in a typical relationship.
For me this hobby is not just about sex & release…… perhaps I am different.
I KNOW (not simply believe) that the important factor is the type of lady you select for your extended session. There are gents here who seek out ladies who have a reputation for not only good service, but ability to engage in conversation in an interesting and meaningful way. Yes, some of them are the more mature ladies, but I've enjoyed time with younger ones ranging up from 23 year who have no problem entertaining me both in and out of bed. Yes, the price for that may be premium. There are a few of them whose company I have enjoyed a number of times as part of a rotation that I had, notably before Covid shutdowns following which rates climbed significantly. As well, I happen to prefer affectionate MA sessions and several of the ladies I was seeing on a weekly rotation basis for these have migrated from MA to FS at rates that have risen from around $175/hr MA pre-Covid to minimum 1.5 - 2 hrs FS @ $800/hr now. If still participating weekly, this would have raised my cost from This raised about $10k / yr to around $35k!
That said, we are individuals with personalities and even with very reputable and well reviewed ladies, there may simply be no chemistry, in which case it's difficult to get past the transaction stage. That has been the case a few times in which case I simply don't repeat.
I just want to say i agree wholeheartedly with everything said. Thats exactly what ive been looking for.
My point of view :
As a provider , I can relate to this thread.
Longer sessions are my favorites.
I think the ones that met me here , knows that I often go over my time
The connection is everything.
Once you click with someone , time disappears and it goes so fast.
First you talk about everything and the “naughty” part is different in a longer sessions. Every movement and touch can take longer. It’s like you both are in a bubble of sensuality & passion.
You also get to know the other person not only intimately, but genuinely.
It’s an other game…
I like 60min , but they go by way too fast..
90min is a bit better …
2h is starting to be more like a real connection
3-4-5 h + makes me feel like I have a secret boyfriend with whom I share a part of me. Very exciting
Anyways … I have some of my Munchkins in mind when I am talking about long sessions.
I am meeting one this morning.
Can’t wait
Kisses
Ali
As a provider , I can relate to this thread.
Longer sessions are my favorites.
I think the ones that met me here , knows that I often go over my time
The connection is everything.
Once you click with someone , time disappears and it goes so fast.
First you talk about everything and the “naughty” part is different in a longer sessions. Every movement and touch can take longer. It’s like you both are in a bubble of sensuality & passion.
You also get to know the other person not only intimately, but genuinely.
It’s an other game…
I like 60min , but they go by way too fast..
90min is a bit better …
2h is starting to be more like a real connection
3-4-5 h + makes me feel like I have a secret boyfriend with whom I share a part of me. Very exciting
Anyways … I have some of my Munchkins in mind when I am talking about long sessions.
I am meeting one this morning.
Can’t wait
Kisses
Ali
I have never seen an SP for less than an hour as there would be so little connection. While the sex is terrific I really enjoy just chatting with my regular SP and sharing some wine but as prices have risen I have to limit the 90 minute sessions to special occasions: her birthday, my birthday, Christmas...Christmas! Looking forward to this soon! 
I won’t be able to articulate why this came across so amusing but using the term munchkin was hilarious. The enjoyment and anticipation certainly came across.My point of view :
As a provider , I can relate to this thread.
Longer sessions are my favorites.
I think the ones that met me here , knows that I often go over my time
The connection is everything.
Once you click with someone , time disappears and it goes so fast.
First you talk about everything and the “naughty” part is different in a longer sessions. Every movement and touch can take longer. It’s like you both are in a bubble of sensuality & passion.
You also get to know the other person not only intimately, but genuinely.
It’s an other game…
I like 60min , but they go by way too fast..
90min is a bit better …
2h is starting to be more like a real connection
3-4-5 h + makes me feel like I have a secret boyfriend with whom I share a part of me. Very exciting
Anyways … I have some of my Munchkins in mind when I am talking about long sessions.
I am meeting one this morning.
Can’t wait
Kisses
Ali
In my experience I’ve typically not booked longer than the HR but have found these to be extended by the lady herself when conversation is pleasant and engaging. I know I’ve had instances where I’m clock watching and have been told it’s ok. A reminder that these lovely ladies are human too and value their own stimulation. I can recall having a good chat to start a session, enjoy the session, and then proceed for both of us to be sat at the end of the bed still naked just chatting about life and travel. Those are fun.
Yes ,
It’s now well known that I call my regulars Munchkins..
I don’t like the term client. It’s cold and transactional.
My regulars means more than just a transaction to me so Munchkins came up naturally. It’s an endearment .. It’s like a hug
They told me they like it. It makes them feel special. They are
Kisses
Ali
Honestly, once you find a provider that you connect with and have good chemistry with, it's pretty easy to fill up the time. There's a couple providers that I like doing longer sessions with because we can chat at the beginning, have some extended foreplay before jumping into action, and then enjoy cuddling up and caressing each other before starting another round.
If I'm attracted to someone and I like spending time with them, of course I'm gonna want to know more about them, their interests, dreams, goals, plans etc. In my experience, a lot of providers have led interesting lives and followed unconventional paths and I'm always interested in learning a bit more about things that I haven't experienced and that are new to me.
Plus sometimes my or the provider's availability might have limited overlap so when a window of opportunity exists for a booking, I like to maximize it.
If I'm attracted to someone and I like spending time with them, of course I'm gonna want to know more about them, their interests, dreams, goals, plans etc. In my experience, a lot of providers have led interesting lives and followed unconventional paths and I'm always interested in learning a bit more about things that I haven't experienced and that are new to me.
Plus sometimes my or the provider's availability might have limited overlap so when a window of opportunity exists for a booking, I like to maximize it.
I had my first long appointment a few months ago. We went 10-3. Booked a day use hotel. Got my first shot out of the way pretty quick. We hung out afterwards, went for lunch came back and had second shot. I was hoping to get in 3 but I am old so I only had 2 in me. It was someone I had seen many times over a more than 10 year period. Nice to not feel like I had to rush. It was truly a GFE experience. I wish I could find the time to do it again.
I typically do mostly HH and on a few occasions done the HR. I've never had More than a HR appointment. Maybe I'll look into possibly doing More than an hour appointment next year
You need to do your research, read some stuff people have posted on here. Find a provider who sounds like you would want to talk with and not just crush hips with. We are all just normal people doing something that is very normal......if you want you could PM me if ya have questions.
HB69...was here?!??!
I always go for one hour.
It happened, maybe one time or two, that I went less than that. I like connections, I don't feel much connections in a 30 min session.
Longer sessions, only once in my hobby life, and it was with one of my long time regulars. More than that, I feel like I would be better serve with a real girlfriend.
But still, it happened a few times (and one very recently), that the girl and I, we were in a great conversation, and we went way pass the hour, on her call. I appreciated it, but I don't like to abuse of provider's generosity.
It happened, maybe one time or two, that I went less than that. I like connections, I don't feel much connections in a 30 min session.
Longer sessions, only once in my hobby life, and it was with one of my long time regulars. More than that, I feel like I would be better serve with a real girlfriend.
But still, it happened a few times (and one very recently), that the girl and I, we were in a great conversation, and we went way pass the hour, on her call. I appreciated it, but I don't like to abuse of provider's generosity.
