this is wrong, we shouldn’t do this
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I get that men do that. I do. But to have an open discussion on a public forums on wanting to disregard when a women says no???? Just hits me different I guess because I am woman who has been disrespected in this regard.
But then we have a poster here who went into detail About how you can rape a women and still avoid going to jail so I guess nothing should surprise me.
I didn't actually take it as a thread about men wanting to disregard women when they say no.
Because from a small age we are brainwashed, from our parents to Hollywood to Government to our teachers, to do certain things and if we don't do them, then we're losers. If you dont do this, its wrong, if you dont have that, you are not doing it right etc..As if we have to have a girlfriend to be complete. Same with women, we seek their approval because that's what everyone else is doing, and if we dont get the results we want we are somehow flawed. Lol..
I'ts only later in life that people learn that it makes abosolutely no difference what some whiny broad thinks of you, considering there literally thousands of flesh walking around and they are basically all the same. Of course you hjave the 5-7% of the population that truly understands all of this and use it to their advantage.
The rest stay as sheep, which is good for businesses atleast. Restaurants, Banquet Halls, anywhere where you can take a date really.
No. You are being dramatic. A woman’s motives for moving forward or stopping something have zero to do with your, Valcazars, or my self worth. Not every hottie is into me. Some are, and I enjoy those ones.
Fuck, I remember an old school
Friends ex called me out of the blue one night. Had just gotten back from Scotland, (and I mean I had not even taken my shoes off when the phone was ringing, lol). We met up for some drinks, and I took her down by the falls. Went for a walk out at Duff…. Things got hot and heavy, I slid her panties off from under her dress…. No wait…. She took them off to pee. lol. And while making out, my dick slid in without any guidance from my hand. She said stop immediately…. And I stopped. She was not ready for that on the first date. And was super surprised I could aim and hit the mark. Her ex needed to guide it every time I guess.
I got head on the next date and moved on because she was mostly annoying.
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Any kind of reluctance is a NO! Stop move on!
Except we went through a whole #metoo movement in educating people about sexual harassment and assault.
This is not like the 50s. We are in 2023.
Some of the stupidest people I know are educated. So if we were educated, expect it to get worse lol.
Of course I've been in this situation.
But "Uh oh, she is having second thoughts, if I don't convince her to fuck me anyway then I am a loser for a lifetime" is just ridiculous.
What the fuck kind of mind set is that?
Someone not wanting to fuck you at a given moment doesn't make you a loser.
Tell you what, though, the thought that you have to fuck her now, despite her not being sure, that's gonna lead to you becoming something a lot worse than a "loser", though.
When the OP is asking / what do you do after she says no? What else is he asking???? How to respect her answer???? Doesn’t seem like that. Seems like he wants stories of how guys didn’t stop. Which would be disregarding the “no”
If I’m wrong / that is cool. What is the OP asking then?
I got it, message received, you want me! But, you said you're not coming back to London and I'm never in your area so I guess different plans have to be made.
So I was thinking about this thread, and a distant memory came back to me. True story:
Back in my 30's, between marriages, I had a relationship with a hot woman in her late 20's I was really in to. However we fought so much (really unlike me, but I think she just liked to pick fights), that we kept breaking up and making up.
After our last break-up, which lasted longer than any before, she phoned me and said she wanted to come over to my place just to talk.
Anyways, she came over, dressed to kill, and after a little while started coming on to me obviously hoping to entice me into having sex and getting back together.
So in this case I was the one protesting and kept saying "No we shouldn't", cuz as much as I was into having sex with her again I didn't want to make up and get back together, to just keep the make up/break-up cycle going.
Anyways we kept making out and and despite all my protestations I lost my self-control. When I put my hand up her skirt her "love juices" were already running down the inside of her thighs.
She was wetter than she had ever been just prior to me touching her vagina ever before.
So in this case it seems that "No means yes" was a huge turn-on for her. I guess something that females are not generally used to...
Long story short, even though we did have sex and got back together for a couple of weeks, shortly after we broke up for good.
Back in my 30's, between marriages, I had a relationship with a hot woman in her late 20's I was really in to. However we fought so much (really unlike me, but I think she just liked to pick fights), that we kept breaking up and making up.
After our last break-up, which lasted longer than any before, she phoned me and said she wanted to come over to my place just to talk.
Anyways, she came over, dressed to kill, and after a little while started coming on to me obviously hoping to entice me into having sex and getting back together.
So in this case I was the one protesting and kept saying "No we shouldn't", cuz as much as I was into having sex with her again I didn't want to make up and get back together, to just keep the make up/break-up cycle going.
Anyways we kept making out and and despite all my protestations I lost my self-control. When I put my hand up her skirt her "love juices" were already running down the inside of her thighs.
She was wetter than she had ever been just prior to me touching her vagina ever before.
So in this case it seems that "No means yes" was a huge turn-on for her. I guess something that females are not generally used to...
Long story short, even though we did have sex and got back together for a couple of weeks, shortly after we broke up for good.
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She read’s your nervous tension and it turns her right off. If you could find a way to turn it off and channel it into a I don’t give a shit, I just want to fuck you vibe.Nervousness, tension, attraction, fear of uncertainty, romantic mood, fast heartbeat, soft touch of the lips and then….
then comes the most hated 3 words for any men “This isn’t right”, “we should stop”, “we can’t do this”, “I should go”
Who can relate to this situation and How many times in your life have you encountered this situation and what happened next?
This is such a narrow road to drive that a minute error in judgement can lead to big accident. if you apply immediate brakes, you can be a looser for lifetime and if you accelerate, you can be called devil. How to deal with it then…let’s hear from some experienced drivers.
i don’t pretend to have all the answers either.
One of the most horribly-memorable experiences of my late teens life…
Finally on a date with a chick who made my dick pump with blood. Everything went great… The night culminated with her denim clad legs spread with my pussy-rubbing jeans punched-out as if Mike Tyson himself was holding my dick. Then came her words: “We should hold off”… I was gentlemen and backed off…
The day after the ridicule started… She told everyone. Apparently, I should have fucked her. This was in the 90s without social media, but man was I made fun of (everyone knew!). I was so confused… I didn’t want to rape someone… I ended up ditching my high school friend group and restarting my life as it was so bad.
To this day, I love forthright women.
Finally on a date with a chick who made my dick pump with blood. Everything went great… The night culminated with her denim clad legs spread with my pussy-rubbing jeans punched-out as if Mike Tyson himself was holding my dick. Then came her words: “We should hold off”… I was gentlemen and backed off…
The day after the ridicule started… She told everyone. Apparently, I should have fucked her. This was in the 90s without social media, but man was I made fun of (everyone knew!). I was so confused… I didn’t want to rape someone… I ended up ditching my high school friend group and restarting my life as it was so bad.
To this day, I love forthright women.
When I was teenager dating didn’t know anything about sex. Was trying to get get first 1st base with kissing and petting She allow it and then when it came time for panties to come off, I was too nervous She got visibility upset that I didn’t want to go all the way and told me to stop touching her if I wasn’t serious That got me so angry and I begrudgingly fucked her. She enjoyed it more than me
if you have not heard these words till now in your life from someone who is breathing heavy while saying it, yoo have definitely missed a lot in this life.
for those who have experienced this, do you still remember the time? how was it? did you stop or it got even more intense from there on? how many such instances can you recall?
lets see if there are common situations in everyone’s life or as they say “i am not like your other Ex’s. I am different”..LOL
for those who have experienced this, do you still remember the time? how was it? did you stop or it got even more intense from there on? how many such instances can you recall?
lets see if there are common situations in everyone’s life or as they say “i am not like your other Ex’s. I am different”..LOL
