this is wrong, we shouldn’t do this

[star003]

Nervousness, tension, attraction, fear of uncertainty, romantic mood, fast heartbeat, soft touch of the lips and then….
then comes the most hated 3 words for any men “This isn’t right”, “we should stop”, “we can’t do this”, “I should go”

Who can relate to this situation and How many times in your life have you encountered this situation and what happened next?

This is such a narrow road to drive that a minute error in judgement can lead to big accident. if you apply immediate brakes, you can be a looser for lifetime and if you accelerate, you can be called devil. How to deal with it then…let’s hear from some experienced drivers.

 

[xmontrealer]

I haven't dated a civilian in a zillion years, so that doesn't happen to me.

However, when I did date, I refused to play the old "No means Yes" game.

If a girl/woman showed any reluctance to go past what we were doing I immediately stopped, and without any anger on my part.

 

[massman]

Nervousness, tension, attraction, fear of uncertainty, romantic mood, fast heartbeat, soft touch of the lips and then….
then comes the most hated 3 words for any men “This isn’t right”, “we should stop”, “we can’t do this”, “I should go”

Who can relate to this situation and How many times in your life have you encountered this situation and what happened next?

This is such a narrow road to drive that a minute error in judgement can lead to big accident. if you apply immediate brakes, you can be a looser for lifetime and if you accelerate, you can be called devil. How to deal with it then…let’s hear from some experienced drivers.

“Please stop” you stop. Pretty simple.

 

[thumper18474]

I fucking hear it all the time..so far She's bought a black velvet Elvis Picture
2 puppies
China cabinet and countless orders of chiptruck fries!!
Now I just ignore it and drive on
Oh..wait
WTF is the topic????

 

[eddie kerr]

I haven't dated a civilian in a zillion years, so that doesn't happen to me.

However, when I did date, I refused to play the old "No means Yes" game.

If a girl/woman showed any reluctance to go past what we were doing I immediately stopped, and without any anger on my part.

My motto was, there is always another one next week. NO, DON'T, DON'T DON'T, DON'T STOP, DON'T STOP.

 

[sohappy]

Nervousness, tension, attraction, fear of uncertainty, romantic mood, fast heartbeat, soft touch of the lips and then….
then comes the most hated 3 words for any men “This isn’t right”, “we should stop”, “we can’t do this”, “I should go”

Who can relate to this situation and How many times in your life have you encountered this situation and what happened next?

This is such a narrow road to drive that a minute error in judgement can lead to big accident. if you apply immediate brakes, you can be a looser for lifetime and if you accelerate, you can be called devil. How to deal with it then…let’s hear from some experienced drivers.

I asked for my $100 back and left.

 

[wigglee]

Of course some women have a rape fantasy or an attack of Christian guilt, so say stop but they don't mean it. But these days, it's risky to persist.

 

[oil&gas]

“Please stop” you stop. Pretty simple.

Just stop and make her give you head instead.

 

[Valcazar]

if you apply immediate brakes, you can be a looser for lifetime

What?
That makes no sense at all.

 

[star003]

What?
That makes no sense at all.

you hv clearly not been in this situation then. this is not hobbying scenario.

 

[Jenesis]

Nervousness, tension, attraction, fear of uncertainty, romantic mood, fast heartbeat, soft touch of the lips and then….
then comes the most hated 3 words for any men “This isn’t right”, “we should stop”, “we can’t do this”, “I should go”

Who can relate to this situation and How many times in your life have you encountered this situation and what happened next?

This is such a narrow road to drive that a minute error in judgement can lead to big accident. if you apply immediate brakes, you can be a looser for lifetime and if you accelerate, you can be called devil. How to deal with it then…let’s hear from some experienced drivers.

No. If you accelerate - you would be a rapist.

Anything other then an enthusiastic yes - is a no. Respect it.

Your “looser-hood” is nothing in comparison to sexually assaulting someone.

I can’t believe this is an actual topic

 

[xyzhunt1990]

Nervousness, tension, attraction, fear of uncertainty, romantic mood, fast heartbeat, soft touch of the lips and then….
then comes the most hated 3 words for any men “This isn’t right”, “we should stop”, “we can’t do this”, “I should go”

Who can relate to this situation and How many times in your life have you encountered this situation and what happened next?

This is such a narrow road to drive that a minute error in judgement can lead to big accident. if you apply immediate brakes, you can be a looser for lifetime and if you accelerate, you can be called devil. How to deal with it then…let’s hear from some experienced drivers.

Get rid of them, find another one, and if no luck go to escorts.

 

[Jenesis]

Get rid of them, find another one, and if no luck go to escorts.

Exactly. Why do some guys focus so hard on trying to convince for “yes” when they can just find an escort?

 

[richaceg]

When seeing civvies....I just make the sign of the cross that everything will be alright....

 

[Dcoat]

If you accelerate - you would be a rapist.

Nope.

Your “looser-hood” is nothing in comparison to sexually assaulting someone.

Thats better.

I can’t believe this is an actual topic

Thats is likely because if you, as a woman, were criminally charged with anything like sexual assault, you'd be out on bail in 1 day, likely not tried, likely not found guilty, likely not to serve more than a few months on probation if all of the preceding actually happened.

For men accused of sexual assault, this is a real question, knowing what the world of real relationship dynamics is. Women say repeatedly say no, dump guys who listen, then hook up with the macho, direct guys who are persuaded by a vigorous no rather than a vigorous yes. BTW, every woman knows how to say both no in a way to game and a way to mean it quite well.

 

[Jenesis]

Nope.



Thats better.



Thats is likely because if you, as a woman, were criminally charged with anything like sexual assault, you'd be out on bail in 1 day, likely not tried, likely not found guilty, likely not to serve more than a few months on probation if all of the preceding actually happened.

For men accused of sexual assault, this is a real question, knowing what the world of real relationship dynamics is. Women say repeatedly say no, dump guys who listen, then hook up with the macho, direct guys who are persuaded by a vigorous no rather than a vigorous yes. BTW, every woman knows how to say both no in a way to game and a way to mean it quite well.

I wouldn’t be charged though. I have respect for the people I am sexually involved with. Hell I even make sure with clients. When I’m about to go down I ask “I assume you are oK if I start here?” I ask if the want BLS. “Can I start with these?”

There are ways to get consent that are actually respectful and sexy at the same time.

and yes - when a woman says no and you keep going, that is sexual assault. There is no - NOPE - to be had.

Also - if you knew anything about me. I don’t support the double standard of women and sentencing regarding sexual assault. I am also a support charging the women for lying about sexual assault.

Sexual assault is not a game. Period. End of discussion. Go directly to jail. Do not pass go. Do not collect $200. There is nothing else to say.

 

[GameBoy27]

I can’t believe this is an actual topic

I can't believe you think it isn't an actual topic, especially since you've already replied 3 times. As I woman, you've probably never been riding a guy when he says stop. (Not talking about your pay-for-sex customers.) For no other reason than he's about to cum and wants to last longer.

Obviously the right thing to do is stop.

 

[Jenesis]

I can't believe you think it isn't an actual topic, especially since you've already replied 3 times. As I woman, you've probably never been riding a guy when he says stop. (Not talking about your pay-for-sex customers.) For no other reason than he's about to cum and wants to last longer.

Obviously the right thing to do is stop.

When I say I can’t believe it is a topic I mean I can’t believe that in 2023 some men are still talking about “no meaning yes”. Have men learned nothing in the last decade or so with all the attention brought to sexual assault?

and I have had to stop in middle with paying clients and before in my civie sex life. Either he doesn’t want to cum, one guy felt bad he was cheating on his girlfriend which I only found out he had while he was on top of me. It may not happen as much with women but it happens.

And again - I just asked how I ask for consent even with P4P sex.

 

[xmontrealer]

When seeing civvies....I just make the sign of the cross that everything will be alright....

Nice gif!

 

[GameBoy27]

When I say I can’t believe it is a topic I mean I can’t believe that in 2023 some men are still talking about “no meaning yes”. Have men learned nothing in the last decade or so with all the attention brought to sexual assault?

Considering there's men who assault and kill women on a regular basis, it's hard not to imagine there's lots of others who won't stop when a woman says no.

and I have had to stop in middle with paying clients and before in my civie sex life. Either he doesn’t want to cum, one guy felt bad he was cheating on his girlfriend which I only found out he had while he was on top of me. It may not happen as much with women but it happens.

And again - I just asked how I ask for consent even with P4P sex.

Fair enough.