to all married guys, do you partake BBBJ with sp's?
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I have been sticking with 3 regulars who are good to great. I see them as my trusted family of sp's. I was thinking about trying a new one who sounds like the Asian porn star milf of my dreams, but I am cancelling because I don't want to put my 3 regulars at risk. damnit. Which is kind of illogical seeing as they see other customers. It's just that they trust me not to bring a new disease into the fold. So I will play it safe. If that's not a contradiction in terms so to speak.
That’s very interesting.. if your three regulars are seeing 20 guys in between your visits, then essentially you are exposing yourself to those guys via the girl as well. Sounds like your regs trust you to pay them regularly rather than “not bring a new disease into the fold” lol
Agreed. Illogical. Just that the one I want to see sounds like a petri dish. Knowing my luck. I would be the one to blame if one of my regs caught something. In my own conscience.
Just found this old topic... Just curious how many of the 60% partaking BBBJ got an STD... Hope none!
While talking to girls, they say almost noone asks for cbj this days, married or not. bbbj became a default.
Russian roulette game. Even the chances are 1 to 200.
While talking to girls, they say almost noone asks for cbj this days, married or not. bbbj became a default.
Russian roulette game. Even the chances are 1 to 200.
62.4% partake in BBBJs. That's a good enough reason to go for CBJs only.
I don't see SPs and only go to one MP these days. They only provide a HJ finish. Once in a while they'll have a new MPA that will offer a BJ, but I'd only get a CBJ if oral was offered.
I don't see SPs and only go to one MP these days. They only provide a HJ finish. Once in a while they'll have a new MPA that will offer a BJ, but I'd only get a CBJ if oral was offered.
63% of married + 20% occasionally. single probably 99%.
I will assume almost all of MP offer bj, depends how much you offer. What I've heard from sp girls 95% guys ask for bbbj this days...
Almost every guy say here, they will stop if only cbj will be offered. Pretty sure they will not, everyone will just get used to new reality. Now new reality is bbbj is a default in Canada but in lots countries when you see escort dfk, bbbj is not default at all, and all this girls have lines of guys willing to see them anyway.
I'm not talking about how often BBBJs are offered. All I'm saying is if you're married and don't want to catch an STD and pass it onto your partner, you might want to opt for a CBJ. Simply based on the number of guys and SPs who receive/give BBBJs. Personally, I wouldn't want to be the guy who's #15 in line for a BBBJ that day.
But that's the best number to be... Every John knows that by the time you're #15, any STD the SP may have has been drained out of her by the previous 14 dudes. Simple math, right?!
(PS - I'm not a doctor, but I do like BBBJs a lot. They are the reason I keep going in life).
On a serious note... You'd think an anonymous QR-Code system would have been developed by now... You scan each others' phones and the data pops on your screen as to when that person was last screened, what they were screened for and what the results were.
It wouldn't be perfect, but it would surely help.
Bonus use: Perhaps it could serve as a record that two be consensually agreed to bone?
It wouldn't be perfect, but it would surely help.
Bonus use: Perhaps it could serve as a record that two be consensually agreed to bone?
Especially when you have threads on here with guys talking about DoxyPEP for BBBJ (typically targeted at gay men who have a bare anal oops, or people who have risky anal / BBFS oopses), harsh antimicrobial soaps, and dousing their dick in sanitizer. At what point do you opt for the CBJ? I would argue that point should be if you have a SO you still have sex with and who wouldn't tolerate the surprise, or if you're doing some combination of the above.
Please do pee and wash your junk with warm (mild or regular) soapy water after sexual contact. Please get regular STI / STD testing. If you think you have something by all means refrain from sex, wait the time minimum for testing, and get tested... But yeah, some guys should be on the CBJ wagon....
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I'm in the camp of only having sex with my wife <5 times per year. After each time, I'll try to go on an SP flurry as there will be a big gap to get tested, etc. I think we might hit 4 times this year.
For me, in my youth, after anal BB'ing a stripper, I used rubbing alcohol. I learned my lesson. I stopped using rubbing alcohol.
Touché. But God, every time I go to a doctor and have blood work done, if I even mention anything more than utter monogamy, they test me for all of the common things, lol. They must think I'm more popular, or degenerate, than I am.
Yes. That's an actual responsible plan. (Really.) I know guys in that boat... Or a worse one. Though many of them love their wives, just not the lack of sex.
Highly unlikely an SP has had 15 guys as a client in one day. Most SPs on this board will laugh at that. Most see 2-3 max on a day they're working (if they're working that day)
Going from hundreds of times per year to <5 warps your brain. I have to go to SPs just to remember what to do.
