Man up in what way? You're the only one here that needs to be more manly cupcake.Moody? I'm in a great mood!
But I think I figured out why you're so miserable and have such low self esteem. It's your inability to please a woman. Your 'D' game is absolute trash and because of that you are cranky, crabby and a miserable little cupcake. I mean it's great that you see escorts instead of disappointing your poor wife but wouldn't it be better if you just improved your sexual performance? You know they have clinics and physical therapists, all you have to do is make the effort. But I suspect you're too over weight and lazy to do that right?