You have found the perfect SP/MP now what?

[LC18]

After reading a few reviews, after booking and meeting a few people without any spark or chemistry, you have finally met and spent time with the perfect SP/MP for you. You’d like to see her on a regular basis but how can you make sure she will want to see you often?

1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.

2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.

3. Show her appreciation, that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).

4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.

5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.

 

[Jenesis]

The privacy questions is what sometimes bothers me. And I’m a pretty open person. There are a few clients who know personal details about me. I have even shared a lot about myself, my likes and dislikes and even a few of my traumas on this board.

I had one client want to have a talk one day. We had an “arrangement”. He said he felt that I was getting too close and wanted to actually be his GF and that he wanted me to know he would not leave his wife. I explained he paid for this treatment. LOL.

Then in the same conversation he said we have been seeing each other for a year now, can I know your real name? I explained that was too personal and I never give my real name to anyone. He was offended.

It made no sense to me. The whole conversation. You pay for a mistress style relationship and worry I’m getting too close and then get pissed off when I explain this is what you paid me for and I’m not giving my real name.

I’m glad I didn’t. He knew parts of my other professional and after his divorce, (where he left his email account open and his wife read all our emails and then he showed his wife my site and reviews!), he proceeded to show his GF my escort site and asked me to preform services for them from my mainstream job. Thankfully he only knew the field and not the name of my company or anything. I felt like I was slightly outted twice. Once to his wife and once to his GF. Who TF shares their hookers info with their wife and then GF. What else would he have shared???

Just because we are good at our job, don’t get the relationship twisted.

 

[LC18]

Yikes @Jenesis sorry this happened to you. You were totally right in protecting yourself by not sharing too much. Hopefully you have more luck with the next arrangement

 

[Lifeis2Short]

Yikes @Jenesis sorry this happened to you. You were totally right in protecting yourself by not sharing too much. Hopefully you have more luck with the next arrangement

I have read that this happens to therapists as well. Many clients fall in love with their therapists because they are providing life altering help and advice. Many clients see their therapist as a GF/BF, because they misinterpret as "love."
I honestly believe companionship is a variation of therapy, so I can see how this can happen. Companionship is (obviously) a very intimate encounter, and many men seek out companionship because they are tired of their current relationship (for whatever reason).
That makes the companion even more desirable.

When you have a beautiful woman willing to fulfil (almost) all your sexual desires, it can short circuit a man's brain.

I think this one of the reasons why screening is becoming more popular.

Stay safe out there ladies!

 

[Robert Mugabe]

After reading a few reviews, after booking and meeting a few people without any spark or chemistry, you have finally met and spent time with the perfect SP/MP for you. You’d like to see her on a regular basis but how can you make sure she will want to see you often?

1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.

2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.

3. Show her appreciation, that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).

4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.

5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.

Always bring flowers and write poems to them.

 

[kunji]

Simple way to retain client

1. Stop lecturing in twitter / terb about client behavior
2. Provide decent service

Thats all.

 

[LC18]

Simple way to retain client

1. Stop lecturing in twitter / terb about client behavior
2. Provide decent service

Thats all.

That was not the point of my thread.

The point was if you wish for her to see you again not “what to do to keep a client”. I wouldn’t be posting that here it’s useless…

 

[boomboom]

Holy mother
WTF
sad to hear this happened
I've gotten close to a couple SPs in the past, but never to that level.

 

[Jenesis]

Simple way to retain client

1. Stop lecturing in twitter / terb about client behavior
2. Provide decent service

Thats all.

1. Where do you see “bitching” in this thread?
2. Since this is a thread about providers, why did you feel the need to bring up clients?

 

[Tashki]

To answer your question that’s titled in the thread:

I have the met the perfect SPs plenty of times. I would have done some partial self-reflection on the amount of money I spent on them and find ways to manifest in finding a woman like them in my personal dating life

 

[dirkd101]

Over the years, I've met a few that I got close with, knowing and sharing intimate details of each other's lives, like real names and family stuff. I've been messaged to come over to satiate a horny SP, and been to their residences as a client and the only client for the day. I've been to the Cuba, I paid and no other money exchanged too. So, yes, I've met the perfect SP/SPs.

 

[megatron661]

lol

 

[Oliverleo]

After reading a few reviews, after booking and meeting a few people without any spark or chemistry, you have finally met and spent time with the perfect SP/MP for you. You’d like to see her on a regular basis but how can you make sure she will want to see you often?

1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.

2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.

3. Show her appreciation, that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).

4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.

5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.

Establishing mutual respect and maintaining boundaries really does make a difference in building a positive, ongoing connection. I’d also add that it’s helpful to be understanding if she needs to reschedule or has certain limits during a session. It shows you respect her professionalism and helps build that trust over time. Thanks for sharing these points; they’re a good reminder for anyone looking to keep things respectful and enjoyable.