Is offering a BNG service mean the provider is “low-end”?

[Jenesis]

So I’m just curious. The question is easy, the poll is anonymous.

My personal take - it is not. I never looked down on it before when I wouldn’t offer it and I don’t look down on it now that I do offer it.

I’m just curious because a guy I declined for a visit for a previous no-show tried to use this to insult me. Was I suppose to be insulted here? I mean it is a low rate service but that doesn’t mean “low-end” does it? So is it consider a low-end service and if so, please explain?

EDIT :
So I guess my real question and the right question is:

How does offering a lower rate service somehow make the escort a subpar provider and person?

As in “low-end” service means cheap, dirty, etc? Not just a service that is at a lower price?

 

[LTO_3]

A BnG is just that because the guy doesn't have time for FS. In fact, I know some guys get off on this type of service more so than FS. Not low end at all but just another service option.

LTO_3

 

[superman12]

I would think that it's considered low end because I don't see many sp's who adverstise themselves as "high end" or "luxurious" promoting or providing that type of service. That said I'm glad it's out there as an option for clients because sometimes us guys are just looking for a quick nut so we can move on with our day. BnG is perfect for those scenarios.

 

[Jenesis]

I would think that it's considered low end because I don't see many sp's who adverstise themselves as "high end" or "luxurious" promoting or providing that type of service. That said I'm glad it's out there as an option for clients because sometimes us guys are just looking for a quick nut so we can move on with our day. BnG is perfect for those scenarios.

So I’m lower and less than a girl because she has higher rates? Thats what now apparently makes me low-end? I don’t get that.

I don’t even think in terms of high/low end. I see streetwalkers as survival workers and others as possible free choice workers like me.

I’m just a little floored that I am now a lower valued woman because 2 months ago I was higher value. Simply because I added a highly requested service to my menu.

Wow. I need some more opinions on this.

Edit - sorry to be clear, I’m not dismissing your opinion and I thank you for it. Just a little shocked and would like more input.

 

[Josephine]

I think any session lenght are valid and I am a bit tired of this "high end" pressure that look down on providers that doesn't do like them. Bng are $, Hh are $, and guess what, the $ are adding up at the end. So if this is something you can do at your place (can't at mine) do it and don't listen to the noise that doesn't pay your bills.

My answer to your poll is : Who cares really?

 

[thumper18474]

Absolutely Not..It's an icebreaker...or a sampler if you will...if he's happy with just your oral game...maybe he wants to come back again for a longer visit..
As previously mentioned...some guys just need a release...and if you can accommodate then why not?
Just because 1 guy is a dick doesn't mean you can't explore other revenue streams...
And if you.."the SP" enjoy it then that's even better
FYI..Jenesis has 1 of the best headgames out there..so those who partake...won't be disappointed!!!

 

[Jenesis]

I think any session lenght are valid and I am a bit tired of this "high end" pressure that look down on providers that doesn't do like them. Bng are $, Hh are $, and guess what, the $ are adding up at the end. So if this is something you can do at your place (can't at mine) do it and don't listen to the noise that doesn't pay your bills.

My answer to your poll is : Who cares really?

Great response. Thank you.

I was just a little thrown because normally when I decline a guy I get the typical name calling, fat, old, whore blah blah blah but then was the first time someone threw being “low-end” to me. He was looking for a BNG. So it just me go . I have never believed in low-end or even High-end because like you, we are all people and rates don’t determine a persons value.

In the beginning of this month, I took out all longer dates over 2 hours. All dinner dates, sexting packages, social time, all of it. I’m not interested in those types of session anymore. I added the BNG because why not??? It is a quick break in the day and I make a bit of cash for my trouble. I’m basically retired so this is why all my packages and shit changed. It accommodates me and what I want.

Anyways, it was just odd to me that because I offered one specific service, I’m being told me value is now lower. In a month. LOL.

 

[xix]

Here is another take on the matter

https://perb.cc/xenforo/threads/what-is-the-difference-between-a-bng-and-a-quickie.247095/

 

[escortsxxx]

It marketing and association. Catfish was the dog of the fish world and I used to eat it because it was good and cheap, then it got rebranded as a luxury fish and bam I was't going to pay X dollars for that anymore. Same fish, different marketing.

Association : being tanned was associated with having to work in the fields. It meant you where low class as you had to work. Now, since we work inside, only the rich can suntan or at least those with free time. Pale is the sigh of the office worker. So now tan is a sign of wealth and beauty. Ie. Association which caused a total flip flop on beauty standards.
As fake tits become cheaper they will lower there value as a sign of beauty and already have. There was a time when no one even discussed fake or real which was better. It was bigger or smaller which is better.

 

[Jenesis]

Yes, it is low end.

Low end, high end are based on service and experience delivered.

You could eat a sandwich at a food truck, or a gourmet sandwich at a nice restaurant. One is a low end experience, the other is a high end experience. The high end experience does not necessarily have to taste better than the low end experience, but it is objectively high end.

So a BnG naturally is a low end experience, where you usually meet in a cheap place, and its a quick 15 to 20 min quickie. Provider hygiene etc may also be suspect.

As opposed to a FS hour or two hour long date at a hotel or a nice condo.

So because I provide a low rate fast service I offer a cheap place and my hygiene might be suspect????? Really????

I provide a location that is nicer than most hotel rooms, even a “high end” hotel and I dare to find someone who has tasted me and felt that hygiene was an issue. This is such an absurd assumption.

I just don’t understand how charging a low rate for a quick service becomes cheap place and suspect hygiene, devaluing me and anyone else who offers this service as a person.

I have heard and seen ladies charging $400+ an hour and using baby wipes to clean up before the next client. The rate charge does not equal a certain hygiene level.

You come from a place with a caste system though don’t you? I can see why you would think in terms of a persons value in this way if that is the case.

 

[InToTheVoid]

What was the point of starting this thread and asking this question if you are going to proceed to attack anyone who has the opinion that blow and go is a low end service?

 

[stinkynuts]

In my personal opinion, there is a hiearchy among sps, just like in any another profession.

However, the services provided are not directly correlated. For example, some sps may look down on those who offer bbbj or cim/cof, and look down on them. They will only do cbj, or everything protected. However, there are many stunning women who are very high class who do bbbjcim, swallow, facials, etc.

As for bng, that is a service not typically associated with higher-end service providers. However, offering those services in and of itself does not mean that that sp is low end. It's a service that offers convenience, and many wealthy individuals utilize this service. Many higher-end sps also will put something in their ads saying that they are not low-end providers, and will not offer car dates, bng, etc. The implication is that these services are low-end because they are less expensive.

 

[Jenesis]

What was the point of starting this thread and asking this question if you are going to proceed to attack anyone who has the opinion that blow and go is a low end service?

How is discussion and debate all of a sudden attacks? I’m trying to understand. How is questioning now called attacking?

 

[stinkynuts]

To me, high-end is not about how much money she charges. It's about the quality of the girl, and the services she provides.

High end:

Gorgeous face
Beautiful body
Great hygiene (mouth, body)
Clean condo/room
Dresses sexy
Greets me warmly at the door
Is personable/sincere
Treats me with respect
Makes me feel that she enjoys my company
Wants to please me
Is receptive
Offers great bbbj, sex, and has few restrictions
Closes the session making me feel happy and wanting to come back again
Makes me so happy that |I want to tip her $50 or more

There are girls that match these criteria at every price level. I've had some really bad experiences with "high-end" escorts with bad attitudes. I've had really great experiences with girls who don't realize that they're in a totally different class because of how gorgeous they are inside and out.

 

[Jenesis]

In my personal opinion, there is a hiearchy among sps, just like in any another profession.

However, the services provided are not directly correlated. For example, some sps may look down on those who offer bbbj or cim/cof, and look down on them. They will only do cbj, or everything protected. However, there are many stunning women who are very high class who do bbbjcim, swallow, facials, etc.

As for bng, that is a service not typically associated with higher-end service providers. However, offering those services in and of itself does not mean that that sp is low end. It's a service that offers convenience, and many wealthy individuals utilize this service. Many higher-end sps also will put something in their ads saying that they are not low-end providers, and will not offer car dates, bng, etc. The implication is that these services are low-end because they are less expensive.

I guess I could be called trailer trash too since I spend most of my spring, summer and fall at my trailer. But my idea of trailer trash is what a person acts like. Not where a person lives.

My brain just doesn’t really work that way. Not when things are service related. I don’t devalue the human based on the pricing of their service.

I just found it really odd that adding one small convenient high requested service only a month ago and I have been downgrade to some sub level of hooker who apparently offers a cheap place and suspect hygiene. LOL.

For the record I don’t personally care. I don’t take it to heart. Call me fat, old, trailer trash, a bitch, a cunt and now low-end. It’s all good. It doesn’t phase me. I just like trying to get into the minds of people who think differently and have a bit of a debate on it.

 

[Jenesis]

To me, high-end is not about how much money she charges. It's about the quality of the girl, and the services she provides.

High end:

Gorgeous face
Beautiful body
Great hygiene (mouth, body)
Clean condo/room
Dresses sexy
Greets me warmly at the door
Is personable/sincere
Treats me with respect
Makes me feel that she enjoys my company
Wants to please me
Is receptive
Offers great bbbj, sex, and has few restrictions
Closes the session making me feel happy and wanting to come back again
Makes me so happy that |I want to tip her $50 or more

There are girls that match these criteria at every price level. I've had some really bad experiences with "high-end" escorts with bad attitudes. I've had really great experiences with girls who don't realize that they're in a totally different class because of how gorgeous they are inside and out.

This is it. This is my thinking as well.

High-end and low-end to me are not rate based but service based.

A mechanical rushed experience in a room with the mattress on the floor, upselling and denying already agreed upon services, no bathroom and only wet wipes to clean yourself with is a low-end experience and even then, I’m not saying that to devalue to working girl, I don’t know her struggle so I won’t say a thing about her as a person at all but I offer what you list (looks and body attractiveness are subjective of course) and so therefore I was offering a high-end quality experience.

And now because I added one service to the menu, I have been downgrade to a low-end provider??? And for some reason low-end means I am also devalued as a human.

I use me as an example because a) it just happened and b) that is the easiest. I don’t personally feel devalued but that is what is implied and escorts who don’t have the confidence and secure sense of self like I do, would be hit pretty hard by these kinds of things. So I say them out loud for the girls in the back that can’t.

 

[Jenesis]

I have edited my OP. I think there is some confusion.

So I guess my real question and the right question is:

How does offering a lower rate service somehow make the escort a subpar provider and person?

 

[Alloy123]

Guys, Guys , quit debating about a sex workers bng option low end or high end service. Come on, if you are horny , pay the cash and fuck a sp , maybe leave a very short review here after for others and move on. Jesus, I wonder how much time are you guys spending on this website for talking about just only sex. There more important things in your life. Fuck sake

 

[JuanGoodman]

How does offering a lower rate service somehow make the escort a subpar provider and person?

it doesn't

how did you get that idea?

 

[Jenesis]

I was not talking about you, your rates or your service. That is not my impression of you at all. I see why you thought I was talking about you. I did not even read that last line in your first post. Just the title. Were you referencing the caste system to insult me, because you thought I was insulting you?

Anyway, generally talking about BnG my general impression when I see BnG is - seedy motel, poor hygiene and poor service. Sort of, you get what you pay for type of deal. I could be wrong, but this is the impression that it creates in my mind. Again this is speaking generally and nothing to do with you. If a provider I knew offered 20 min dates I wouldn't think this about her.

No I wasn’t referencing to insult you. Not at all. I admit I’m somewhat ignorant on the subject but my basic understanding is it is a class system and those rated lower class are seen as less then. If this is what you believe personally, which is your right, I can see how low rate service could mean low end person to you. Does that make sense? I hope it makes sense. Because I mean from a place of understanding. Not criticism.

I have edited my OP because I think I have confused myself and therefore confused others as well.