If you’re white, and live in North America you’ll never feel it or get it.
That’s it!
An ex coworker of mine, defines waspyness, white privlege, deep pockets. He married a Canadian born polish woman.
One of his best friends is black.
Black bff was also a groomsman.
Before the reception, I heard a white man from the brides side say “hey who’s that
Black dude?” as the groomsman rushed by, looked
Like he was busy doing groomsman tasks. Brides side white mans face was Serious, tone as well, but slight smile afterwards.
When I asked my co worker about that knowing the black groomsman and he are like bffs, he said his wife’s relative was just joking, relax.
Point is, it’s not really a joke.
Again, if you’re white, you’ll never understand that this happens often. And it’s not a joke. Even if the joke maker says it’s a joke, the fact that he thinks like that, is racist.