I find this response minutiae to obfuscate being honest. If we cut through all the words, your initial post derailed and otherwise positive thread about a provider by implying she was paranoid, boundary crossing, and had irrational last minute screening which led you to conclude, she likely has a bad attitude, even though you don’t know her, and you’ve never seen her. This is how it reads.
Even if we take your story on face value, it sounds like a you problem as your booking strategies were at least partially if not entirely the reason for your own disappointment and you behaved inappropriately by reaching out to someone who already told you they weren’t interested.
I don’t think this type of post is particularly useful to other potential clients and only causes harm because your story leaves more questions than answers. Personally, I think it should all be deleted.
