I see lots of mention about performing dato on the lady. Wondering how you broach the topic.
Do you ask before performing dato on the provider?
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I generally haven’t asked (but maybe I should
), instead relying on her response and body language as I work my way closer to the area. If I’m moving southward and she lifts her butt a bit to provide better access, pretty sure I’m good to go, if she moves away from any activity approaching the bootyhole, then I retreat, though this has rarely happened. Many girls enjoy it. Also take the same approach with anal digits. This is a little more complicated as some girls like external stimulation only and don’t want you inside, and some don’t like any. If she’s enjoyed some DATO, I might touch lightly outside and around, if that gets a positive response, I might place a finger/ thumb on the opening, without insertion and wait for her to encourage me verbally or by pushing herself down on my finger. For some women combined thumb in the bum and daty (or fucking for that matter) will send them over the top, while others hate any butt stuff at all.All of the above requires some experience in bed tho (ideally with the same partner where there is familiarity and trust) and confidence you can appropriately read signals during sex. In the end (pun intended) you can’t go wrong by asking for verbal consent which can be done in a polite, respectful and sexy way. (Keep in mind these are professionals who are used to discussing sex and boundaries). You could say “I love your ass / butt, mind if I have a taste?” Or even at the beginning of the session when you might be discussing likes/ dislikes.
I really enjoy providing anal stimulation with a girl who likes it, it seems to unlock an inner beast of lust, however for others it’s a complete turn off and can ruin the mood totally if you just suddenly rush in. (Sorry for the long post).
No first comes the sniff test , if she fails that what's the point of your question?
You guys are taking an awful chance putting your mouthes on certain places.
In the beginning ask if she's OK with it. I won't put a finger in unless SHE requests it. And, if she does, no dato after that. You can clean the outside well, but once you "break the plane of the goal line" you introduce many more of the wee beasties from the hard to clean inside to the outside.
No woman who enjoys/allows DATY will refuse DATO. They might not enjoy it and might even think you’ve got a screw loose, but the health risk is entirely on you and not her.
It’s not something I do often - heck I don’t even bother with DATY unless I really want to invest time and energy into the woman - but with a select few SPs it’s an occasional little electric charge.
You gotta remember most SPs are just counting the time and money until the shift is over.
If you want to spend the hour licking their belly button, they’ll let you, as long as the health risk to them is minimal.
It’s not something I do often - heck I don’t even bother with DATY unless I really want to invest time and energy into the woman - but with a select few SPs it’s an occasional little electric charge.
You gotta remember most SPs are just counting the time and money until the shift is over.
If you want to spend the hour licking their belly button, they’ll let you, as long as the health risk to them is minimal.
No, don't ask, don't do it, it's weird and nasty.
You could get worms in your mouth that might travel to your liver and create an abscess.
Amebiasis and Giardiasis are some of the risks of analingus.along with Hep A.
Once I tongued a nurse and she was not impressed at my lapse in judgment although she was a nympho.
It’s also on her if there’s kissing. Or spreading from back to front. Also this is how people get parasites and then wonder why they’re having stomach issues which can also lead to cancer. You also dont know when she last ate and could make some really uncomfortable things happen.
I was just writing this. People don’t realize that when doctors check for worms they have people do a tape test which is then used under a microscope to see them!
No woman ... not some .. not most but no woman. It only takes one to prove this false and I have met a few.
I take it the thought that there are those of us who would not ask should have at least merited a choice on this poll.
I allow Daty. I DO NOT allow DATO. I don’t enjoy it and therefore don’t want to do it. There is the odd exception to every rule of course but for 99% of clients , it’s a no.
I feel bad for you. You must be seeing some awful escorts if this is your overall opinion of all of us.
I’m floored by the “don’t ask - just do” selectors of the poll.
ALWAYS ASK FIRST. Anything other then an enthusiastic yes is a no.
ALWAYS ASK FIRST. Anything other then an enthusiastic yes is a no.
So true. I'm puzzled by the blanket statement that any lady who likes daty also likes dato. Just not true. Or
Like a bloke who once claimed any lady who likes dato likes Greek. Absolutely not.
Each lady is her own combination of treasures.
Even more confusing is some women like a certain thing at one time, but another time she won’t feel like it!!
