Yeah they can be, but not this level of stupid. If you think you're going to boink your underage daughters best friend and get away with it then that's just over the top stupid. 18 charges, 6 months later still in the slammer, now appealing his guilty verdict thinking the cards will be in his favour is another example of how dumb and delusional he is. They got a search warrant for his devices and have the proof. He's just delaying the inevitable and going to spend many years in jail. My daughters the one who found their messages when she went to use his iPad and then called me freaking out. So I told her to pack her shit and gtfo of that house. I drove down there to be with her but she doesn't want to come back to Canada she wants to stay in the states cuz that's where her friends school n life is so I've been having to travel there more times then I usually do, got a place there now so I've been back n forth. I might end up moving back to the states but for now I'm still here. Just don't know for much much longer. But yeah, stupid move on his part and a week before he was to open a restaurant he had renovated. All that money down the drain for a piece of tail that was 45 yrs younger then him. How stupid can he be not to mention disgusting. And yet he still calls me from jail hoping I'll go back to him when he gets out and open a salon with him cuz he's a barber too and then just ride off back into the Florida sunset together as if none of this ever happened.
Uh, I don't fucking think so!
One day he'll be out but not for years, and by then our daughter will be married, have kids of her own and he'll miss all those milestones bc he was thinking with his other head and getting away with it for a year or two. It's just indescribable the bs n stress this has brought into our lives. Totally disrupted my jobs, my work, my goals, her schooling, her friends, relationships, ect. I've never wanted to hit anyone with a frying pan before til now. Not in a bad way but thinking maybe it would knock some sense into him. So that's why I've been absent, AWOL, unable to follow through with appointments ECT bc this bs gets in the way with non stop phone calls from the states le, d.a, lawyers, jail calls, kid, his ex wife, his other sons, n other family members of his. That's why I say I'm done with all this now cuz it's gotten to be too much as his ex wife and son broke in to his house when they found out he was in jail and stole his check book, jewelry box, his safe that had thousands upon thousands of dollars in it, all the titles to his vehicles, motorcycle, his son sold 5 of his guns and brought them across state lines which now the FBI is involved, stole his check book and was forging checks in his name, putting a lien on his home for last child support payments (from 15 yrs ago) he claims is bs as he was living with him not her for all those years, but again it's a he said she said thing and they're putting me in the middle. What do I have to do with any of this? It's between those two not me so I did my duty and called the state police as he asked me to do and filed a report and told the police to contact him from now on, he's in jail but he's just down the road from the state police barracks.
That's why I said Ive now washed my hands of all of this, it's gotten to be too much, and it's affecting my business n my relationships too, so I'm just done. I've had it up to my eyeballs.
I tried to post a little bit about this on Leo list but whenever I try to write in the description box it's tells me I have forbidden words when there aren't any, and to edit it. So that's why I just leave it mostly blank, it's a pain in the arse to deal with that ish too.
Anyways, that's it in a nutshell.
I hope you guys understand now why Ive been MIA or not available or responsive bc Ive been having to deal with this ish. And just writing this message I've missed 3 calls from the states pertaining to this issue. But like I said, I'm done, I'm not answering anymore. I've done all I can do and it's none of my business from here on out.
All this stuff could literally be a Netflix series.
Some words of wisdom: If you want to keep your sanity and live a normal life, Stay away from dirty jersey people. Lol or you could take it one step further and just stay away from Americans in general. Lol nice place to visit but don't get in a relationship with anyone from the states lol that's 2 guys now that's I've been with from the states. Third time ain't ever going happen lol