Anxiety of meeting a provider?

[juytor]

I wanted to ask if anyone else feel anxiety or even fear of seeing a sex worker?
I always worry that it's a sting operation and i'll be arrested or some bs, is this common?

How does one know if someone is legit vs some kind of scam / police?



I haven't seen a lot of providers, so I'm new to the whole thing.

Cheers!

 

[Hipjdog]

Hi there,

This question/concern has been raised before, so you're by no means an outlier.

Basically, you have nothing to worry about. The police are well aware that there are thousands of
escorts working in Toronto everyday. They have much better things to worry about than consenting adults
having agreed-upon fun with an envelope exchanged. With all the well-reviewed agencies and independents,
you'll be just fine. Just be discreet.

The only situation where you could get yourself into trouble is if underage girls were working or some other terrible
situation where women were being unfairly treated and the police were notified. Fortunately, I've never heard of such a thing
in Toronto, in particular among the reputable agencies/indys. If you somehow find yourself in a situation where something
doesn't feel right then leave immediately.

 

[juytor]

i do worry about sex trafficking as i would never want to participate in such a thing, never realized there was a possibility of underaged women... or kids, that's really disturbing.
So are most agencies within this forum respectable and safe? i have seen the site leolist but its seems a bit off, no idea why.

Anyhoo, sorry for asking a question / concern that has been raised before, i'll try to search better next time.

 

[Hipjdog]

It's ok, nothing wrong with asking questions.

Yes, the agencies and indys on this board are respectable and safe. The ladies are doing it voluntarily and make a good
living. Treat them with respect and you'll have a great time.

 

[Paprika]

https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/getting-over-cold-feet-in-meeting-someone-or-escorting.839486/#post-8340418

Deja vu?

 

[Jenesis]

Read read read. Everything you can on this board. All the stickies with tips and tricks, read reviews, search for ladies you like and then search the reviews

Once you get good at the board, you can search for additional reviews by the reviewers themselves and you will find the guys you have things in common with. If you are a big tit guy, you can find all the other guys who like big tits. It will make find your type of companion easier.


But for any girl you are interested in, even on LL as there is a section here for it, do your research and find reviews of the girl.

I would personally start in the agency section, looking for a girl who is best for a first timer. Someone who will take it slow with you, and give you a good introduction on what level of customer service you expect from a provider. All providers offer different menu services but customer service itself is important too.

The guys here will help you out. Just head to the agency review section. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and just ignore the trolls. Good luck!

 

[Cbr20152012]

Read read read. Everything you can on this board. All the stickies with tips and tricks, read reviews, search for ladies you like and then search the reviews

Once you get good at the board, you can search for additional reviews by the reviewers themselves and you will find the guys you have things in common with. If you are a big tit guy, you can find all the other guys who like big tits. It will make find your type of companion easier.


But for any girl you are interested in, even on LL as there is a section here for it, do your research and find reviews of the girl.

I would personally start in the agency section, looking for a girl who is best for a first timer. Someone who will take it slow with you, and give you a good introduction on what level of customer service you expect from a provider. All providers offer different menu services but customer service itself is important too.

The guys here will help you out. Just head to the agency review section. Don’t be afraid to ask questions and just ignore the trolls. Good luck!

OP, this is good solid experienced advice.

 

[Shlomo_Dew]

Measure twice, cut once.

Like Jenesis said, read read read. I was late to the hobby party too, but the knowledge shared here has allowed me to have some fantastic experiences. I spent the better part of 3 months educating myself before really diving into the hobby. Look to 'the code' sticky note for 13 rules to hobby by, from there you can decide what you want to achieve through the hobby then, research as much as you can, and then some more.
I was terrified the first few times going out originally, but learned to use that energy to my benefit over time.
Be a good client & find good SP's, you won't have to worry.

 

[explorerzip]

Try to pick an agency or indy that works in an area that you're familiar with and can get to with minimal directions. You can usually get the major intersections for their incall. There's nothing worse than fighting traffic, finding parking, or getting lost when trying to get to her. That's just extra stress.

If you want to visit an unfamiliar area, then use Google Maps Street View to look for ATMs, parking lots, transit stops, coffee shops and stores where you can hang out if needed.

Obviously, you want to give yourself lots of extra time in case of any traffic, parking or other issues. Shit will always happen if you're in a rush.

 

[GeeBee]

Measure twice, cut once.

Like Jenesis said, read read read. I was late to the hobby party too, but the knowledge shared here has allowed me to have some fantastic experiences. I spent the better part of 3 months educating myself before really diving into the hobby. Look to 'the code' sticky note for 13 rules to hobby by, from there you can decide what you want to achieve through the hobby then, research as much as you can, and then some more.
I was terrified the first few times going out originally, but learned to use that energy to my benefit over time.
Be a good client & find good SP's, you won't have to worry.

Ditto for me

The information and advice on the ERB’s (particularly from the providers on here like Jenesis) is the reason I’m comfortable seeing SP’s

 

[basketcase]

I generally tend towards the anxious and over-plan in my head but after letting my rational mind make the decision, I find the remaining anxiety makes the trip more exciting.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Maybe stick to sites that don't have scam ads like this one and tryst until you develop better spidey senses.

While none of this is 100% some possible indicators that someone is being trafficked or managed in an unethical way are ads that say available 24/7, and beside the obvious of it being racist "no black gents" can indicate a black "manager" who is trying to prevent other "managers" from booking that provider and trying to get her to switch teams.

 

[massman]

Everyone gets a little bit of anxiety/ trepidation when meeting a SP. But keep in mind, they are pros at this. As for police involvement, as others have said, your risk here is low unless you are getting involved in a situation where they’re underage or trafficked girls. Most police forces have chosen not to go after clients, however, they can if they want. The police in London Ontario are pretty notorious for setting up stings. Best advice like others have said, stick to legit sites, and/ or well reviewed providers here.