Travelling with a SP?
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This includes knowing the address where you are staying. Requirement for the U.S.; not sure of other locales. No idea how this gets used/checked.
Personally, never done it....but i can invision so many things going really bad really fast with deep regrets and pain later... I have done solo trips/boys trips and enjoyed heaps of fun with local working gals... with great value and talent..plus your not stuck with any one person (of course if you hit off with someone why not repeat or hang out a bit more)....I do understand the lure of bringing an SP with you on a trip...but again a big chance this could flop badly and cause lots of issues/pain for you ...just my 2 pesos...
Cut your losses. Too high a potential for all kinds of back-home fallout. If you do throw caution to the wind, thorough detailed brutally honest negotiation/discussions strongly advised. You'd be surprised by having a look at some lifestyle swingers or BDSM negotiation checklists. A good source for boundaries/limits issues you may not of thought of. (WOW, seems like I haven't posted since forever.)
He probably expected to have sex with her while she slept and take videos or something. Or tried to have sex in public and she got uncomfortable.
not sure if either of them drank but this could add extra messiness.
I have done it on several occasions, both long distance and sometimes in town overnight "staycations" at a nice hotel. Generally speaking they have been successful but there are a lot of pitfalls to this. The most important thing is that you really know the provider you are travelling with. You are about to drop some serious coin and you don't want to be experimenting in case it goes terribly wrong. Both you and the provider should have a familiarity with each other and have your expectations laid out ahead of time. Know that if you are going out of the country you are probably going to have to share information that is normally kept quiet, (real names, addresses etc)
Looking at some of the providers websites and looking at their restrictions and requirements you would have to have pretty deep pockets to do this with a stranger. And some of the requirements are not conducive to a shared travel experience. I think GFE should apply to more than just what goes on between the sheets.
All in all it might be better to travel on your own and then hire local if you feel the need to "clean the pipes". Not that it is 100% a bad idea to travel with a provider, and I have had success, but you should know what you are getting into.
Looking at some of the providers websites and looking at their restrictions and requirements you would have to have pretty deep pockets to do this with a stranger. And some of the requirements are not conducive to a shared travel experience. I think GFE should apply to more than just what goes on between the sheets.
All in all it might be better to travel on your own and then hire local if you feel the need to "clean the pipes". Not that it is 100% a bad idea to travel with a provider, and I have had success, but you should know what you are getting into.
It would probably depend on the lady. Some might expect hourly rate, some a flat fee, some might require more than hourly and some might just be fine with an all paid vacation and shopping.
I've gone on dinner dates with SPs and didn't pay anything extra. One even wanted to pay her own bill but I never let her (Oh I miss that Angel
). Although I did tip all of them quite well after sessions. I guess it was just the perks of being a regular good client. One time I offered to pay an amazing lady to hang out outside for the day and she said I didn't have to. But this is rare and not the norm. So it really depends on the lady as well as your connection with her.
Id say this is extremely unlikely if you’re hiring an experienced and reputable lady. She’s going to have a set rate for social dates, extended dates and travel dates.It would probably depend on the lady. Some might expect hourly rate, some a flat fee, some might require more than hourly and some might just be fine with an all paid vacation and shopping.
I've gone on dinner dates with SPs and didn't pay anything extra. One even wanted to pay her own bill but I never let her (Oh I miss that Angel
One time I offered to pay an amazing lady to hang out outside for the day and she said I didn't have to. But this is rare and not the norm. So it really depends on the lady as well as your connection with her.
Maybe an MA wouldn’t be experienced enough to know better/charge for their time but I definitely wouldn’t go into this with the expectation that the lady would be fine with an all expenses paid trip + shopping.
These providers aren’t sugar babies. Their running a business.
The only provider I’ve travelled with had a set rate for 3 days + set rate for additional days.
The pricing was incentivized to book longer (ex 1 week) instead of just a few days. But I’m sure every lady has their own system for pricing these longer bookings out.
Anyways, my point is don’t expect not to have to pay her rate if hiring a SP. In my experience, it was just under 7k for this lady’s rate. And that didn’t include the flights, resort or incidentals.
It really wasn’t as difficult as some here are making it out to be. She booked her own flight (same flight as mine) arrived at the airport separately, went through security separately. We did coordinate over the phone so our seats would be together on the plane and booked out tickets simultaneously. But you get the point. It’s more planning involved. Just make sure the SP is reliable and someone you genuinely enjoy spending time with.
Good questions. I dont have a real concern sharing my real identity with the person but I can see why that should be a concern for many. However, I doubt that a provider would feel safe travelling with someone that they did not have this information for. I dont know if they would be willing to do this for me ad I have yet to even decide if I was going to ask someone to join me yet. I do have an appointment scheduled for this weekend with someone whom I want to see what they think about all of this so maybe that will change!
Update for anyone that was curious. Spoke with a couple of ladies with whom I had great chemistry and had seen a number of times. One lady was interested but travelling out of country was a challenge at the time. The other lady had concerns similar to those mentioned. I ended up canceling the trip and I spent some time with an SP on a much shorter yet quaint retreat at her recommendation. We spent 4 days and nights skiing, soaking in hot tubs, and even some dancing. It was fantastic. I covered all expenses (flights, resort etc) and no extra fees were charged. Of course, I made sure that any wants or needs on our trip were taken care of as well. That was about as close to a "business" feel that the trip had. It was exactly what I needed and I believe that my companion enjoyed their experience as well. We got together for a "normal" session on Monday about week after we returned and it was our best session yet. Lots of preparation went into making this work as well as it did but it was well worth it.
Great to hear and good for you. Sounds like a good time had by all. Clearly she could ski, which mountain and better yet who outcarved who?
Whistler. She definitely out carved me. Lol!
Interesting thread.
I did travel with some of my clients
Paris , Italy , Jamaica , Germany
The thing is I knew those clients and were feeling safe with them. Sometimes you share a special connection with someone and wish to spend more time with them.
All of my trips were absolutely unforgettable and I would do it again without any hesitation, but only with a client I feel safe with.
Kisses
Ali
I did travel with some of my clients
Paris , Italy , Jamaica , Germany
The thing is I knew those clients and were feeling safe with them. Sometimes you share a special connection with someone and wish to spend more time with them.
All of my trips were absolutely unforgettable and I would do it again without any hesitation, but only with a client I feel safe with.
Kisses
Ali
So......ShanOtt.....how was the trip? Did you enjoy it? Do you recommend doing it? What happened that you expect or didn't expect? Also are you still seeing that SP at all? Inquiring Mind Wants to Know!!
HB69......was here?!?!!?!!?
Hi HB69, the trip I went on was just over 4 yrs ago now. Just before the pandemic actually. Unfortunately the SP retired in 2022 so I have not seen her since, and her reviews (including mine) have all been removed from Terb. We did see each other after the trip but Covid did make that more difficult as she was caring for her elderly parents at the time and didn’t want to risk their health. So it was far and few in between
It was a wonderful trip and will be seared into my memory forever.
Nothing happened that was unexpected as we both meticulously planned out the details in advance and had an itinerary for our activities and meals.
A separate room was offered for her to use, however she ended up spending each night with me. But did appreciate having the room so she could get ready in private or have a little space for herself to make some phone calls etc.
I also planned this around a work trip so we did return separately as I stayed for a work convention and she returned home the morning of the 4th day.
I’d say the only unexpected thing was not knowing how difficult or stressful it can be for SPs to travel to the US. I was completely naive to the risks involved for them. So be prepared for an SP to refuse if the destination is in the US or even if there’s a layover in the US. OR be prepared to pay a lot more if that’s what is going to make it worth the risk. Boarder security has really gotten even tighter over the last 4 years apparently.
If I were to do this again, I probably would pick a different destination. Maybe a resort in Cuba or Mexico. Just waiting for my next bonus and considering my options for who to bring on the next adventure!
The only this I forgot to mention:
Having access to TWO bathrooms was in my opinion a huge bonus. I’m sure many of you here would agree, some bodily functions should remain private
and I am forever going to book suites that have two bathrooms in the future. Or two separate rooms for this exact reason.Thanks for sharing......The only this I forgot to mention:
Having access to TWO bathrooms was in my opinion a huge bonus. I’m sure many of you here would agree, some bodily functions should remain private
HB69.....was here?!?!?
