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JimKirk

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Hi,

Not sur so I'll ask here, can you ask about specific service a SP or MA is open to but get the response in DM ?

Like, "Looking for MA that offer xxx". Please reply in DM ?

Thanks
 

bruised

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You can ask all you want in a DM. You might not always get an answer if they are too busy, you have offended them, or not interested
 
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JimKirk

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You can ask all you want in a DM. You might not always get an answer if they are too busy, you have offended them, or not interested
I meant asking publicly but receiving reply in DM so there is no info on MA or SP about service in public.
 

bruised

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I meant asking publicly but receiving reply in DM so there is no info on MA or SP about service in public.
Not sure, good question. Although you won't be exposing an MA, it still might be against the rules. As for asking about SP services, it might be fair game, ask away and you might get responses in your DM or here in the forum.
 
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ShanOtt

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I meant asking publicly but receiving reply in DM so there is no info on MA or SP about service in public.
Why not just DM them and skip the part where you might publicly put your foot in your mouth and never get a response?

or simply say Hey I have a question about your service, can you please Dm me? Typically they prefer you Dm them first but if you can’t actually message them for whatever reason then post discreetly first.
 

MikeO

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Why not just DM them and skip the part where you might publicly put your foot in your mouth and never get a response?

or simply say Hey I have a question about your service, can you please Dm me? Typically they prefer you Dm them first but if you can’t actually message them for whatever reason then post discreetly first.
For many of the ladies, using TERB as a means of communication is not very favourable choice and may not get you timely responses. Some are too busy booking via text, email or other contact noted in their web site (if they have one) to check TERB frequently for DMs. They have more of a life than we do!
 

ShanOtt

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For many of the ladies, using TERB as a means of communication is not very favourable choice and may not get you timely responses. Some are too busy booking via text, email or other contact noted in their web site (if they have one) to check TERB frequently for DMs. They have more of a life than we do!
I was referring more towards Twitter DM. Never even thought about TERB DMs tbh unless msg other clients here.
Most if not all of the reputable SPs and MAs have a Twitter or even Instagram account. I prefer the former to the latter for direct contact though.
 
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Questions about questions about questions....


so what's the deal?

Let's be as abstract as possible, here fellas...come on let's go...
 

CuddleBuddy2

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I meant asking publicly but receiving reply in DM so there is no info on MA or SP about service in public.
I'm not sure about the rules but it's easier to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission, just saying 😁
 

JimKirk

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Why not just DM them and skip the part where you might publicly put your foot in your mouth and never get a response?

or simply say Hey I have a question about your service, can you please Dm me? Typically they prefer you Dm them first but if you can’t actually message them for whatever reason then post discreetly first.
I wanted an answer from the guys, not the MA or SP... I wanted to know if the MA or SP is more then just offering it but enjoy it too...
 

ShanOtt

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I wanted an answer from the guys, not the MA or SP... I wanted to know if the MA or SP is more then just offering it but enjoy it too...
You’re better off asking the MA or SP than getting second hand info that might not even be accurate from another client.
Every client’s experience is going to be different because not everyone has good chemistry etc. so keep that in mind and just speak with the lady directly.
 

JimKirk

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I know it is always "ymmv" but there is that "always" factor. Like some MA\SP will offer a service but it is always "mechanical" or you know what I mean.
But there is always, once in a while, the "Wow" factor where some MA\SP do enjoy it.

I almost always ask the MA\SP if what I like is an option but the "wow", they will always say yes if they offer it, but more often then not they are not really into it
and it shows big time...

On a side note, I did notice that when they upcharge, it usually not a good sign for the "enjoyment" factor...
 

ShanOtt

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I know it is always "ymmv" but there is that "always" factor. Like some MA\SP will offer a service but it is always "mechanical" or you know what I mean.
But there is always, once in a while, the "Wow" factor where some MA\SP do enjoy it.

I almost always ask the MA\SP if what I like is an option but the "wow", they will always say yes if they offer it, but more often then not they are not really into it
and it shows big time...

On a side note, I did notice that when they upcharge, it usually not a good sign for the "enjoyment" factor...
Bro, this is their JOB if you want to find a woman who won’t charge you extra and then lie about enjoying it…go get a girlfriend.
 
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