Refractory Period is way too long

[bruised]

I'm 50. When I was younger, I enjoyed being able to get in MSOGs with an SP or SO during a session. (In my 20s and 30s, it was so way more!)

I have no issues getting stimulated for the first SOG, and I am grateful for that. However, as I've gotten older, my refractory period has gotten longer and longer, longer than one would hope in order to getting in a 2nd SOG with an SP during an hour session. Unfortunately, I may never have the luxury of booking a longer session.

The SPs I've been with are very attractive and amazing at what they do, and try and we might, I am not able to stay hard enough to really enjoy ourselves.

In every case, I've still enjoyed my time with the amazing SPs I've been with. They've always been good company and great cuddlers. I only wish that I could get it up a again so we can enjoy the session that much more.


How do you get it up again at our age, fellas?

 

[Carleton Place Gent]

I'm 50. When I was younger, I enjoyed being able to get in MSOGs with an SP or SO during a session. (In my 20s and 30s, it was so way more!)

I have no issues getting stimulated for the first SOG, and I am grateful for that. However, as I've gotten older, my refractory period has gotten longer and longer, longer than one would hope in order to getting in a 2nd SOG with an SP during an hour session. Unfortunately, I may never have the luxury of booking a longer session.

The SPs I've been with are very attractive and amazing at what they do, and try and we might, I am not able to stay hard enough to really enjoy ourselves.

In every case, I've still enjoyed my time with the amazing SPs I've been with. They've always been good company and great cuddlers. I only wish that I could get it up a again so we can enjoy the session that much more.


How do you get it up again at our age, fellas?

The struggle is real brother.

I have set my expectations to a SSOG now. I prefer a slower build up and methodical approach now. I do use cialis now and hydrate in the hour before. Staying away from caffeine and cigarettes in the same hour prior.

 

[MikeO]

I'm 50. When I was younger, I enjoyed being able to get in MSOGs with an SP or SO during a session. (In my 20s and 30s, it was so way more!)

I have no issues getting stimulated for the first SOG, and I am grateful for that. However, as I've gotten older, my refractory period has gotten longer and longer, longer than one would hope in order to getting in a 2nd SOG with an SP during an hour session. Unfortunately, I may never have the luxury of booking a longer session.

The SPs I've been with are very attractive and amazing at what they do, and try and we might, I am not able to stay hard enough to really enjoy ourselves.

In every case, I've still enjoyed my time with the amazing SPs I've been with. They've always been good company and great cuddlers. I only wish that I could get it up a again so we can enjoy the session that much more.


How do you get it up again at our age, fellas?

Now over 70 and my favourite lady is Alice. I love to 'see Alice'. I find she really helps, and does so for a couple of days.

 

[William St]

The struggle is real brother.

I have set my expectations to a SSOG now. I prefer a slower build up and methodical approach now. I do use cialis now and hydrate in the hour before. Staying away from caffeine and cigarettes in the same hour prior.

Definitely no cigarettes, ever. They will wreck your sex drive for life!!

 

[William St]

Definitely no cigarettes, ever. They will wreck your sex drive for life!!

I find Cialis does marvels. If you find the lady sexy, your equipment will definitely respond. It is, however, expensive and most drug plans (except maybe the Cadillac federal government plan) don't cover even a cent of it. If you want any pleasure, don't go to your drug insurance plan to get it.

 

[Man About Town]

Gentlemen, go to your urologist and get them to prescribe”Tri-Mix”. It is partially covered by most drug plans, is cheaper than the pills and works very well. Sometimes my erection last over 4 hours. You have to inject it directly into the penis. If you are not squeamish, I would highly recommend. Viagara and Cialis did not work for me. I am my early 60’s.

 

[FlorentinoAriza]

There is also Citruline

 

[SIRLOKI]

Instead of 2 shots , I start by giving lady a 15 to 20 minute massage , it is very arousing for all . Girl seems to appreciate it and creates a lot of good chemistry . Go for quality instead of quantity . It can be just as satisfying . I bring my own high end massage oil , low scent .

 

[bruised]

Thanks for the feedback. I'll look into Cialis, but shit, it's expensive. I'll consider the alternatives as well, but I am no injections for me, thanks. One cystoscopy was enough for me. I'm not giving up, but trying to relive my glory days is far out of reach, 3, 4 5x day....they were good days (@mav, took me forever to find that symbol, I don't know how you do it). In any case, I do make the most of my time, every time. Sometimes, a certain attraction and chemistry is enough for MSOG, but other times it's just not enough.

 

[massman]

Spend more time on the first SOG, no rush, enjoy the foreplay. I’ve found that over the years focusing on one great one is way better than trying to get maximal shots per hour (or $ depending on how you look at it).

 

[Carleton Place Gent]

Are you physically fit? I found it much easier to get more shots in shorter time frames and reduced my refractory period once I started going to the gym.

Very valid point. As we age obviously our metabolism grinds to a halt. But I agree fitness does have a direct impact on performance.

 

[HemingwaySE]

In addition to all of the above. Try Zinc pills. It can help.

 

[cck]

In addition to all of the above. Try Zinc pills. It can help.

Are you talking about a testosterone booster?

 

[BootyLoving]

I'm only in my mid 40's and I find even getting it up is a hit and miss. There seems to be a need to have some chemistry. She can be the hottest thing in the world, but she can still be a turn off if she starts clock watching or isn't interested.

But if we really hit it off, communicates well, and wants me to keep going and get her off, I can keep going and hit my second stride. It's rarer, but a 2nd and 3rd time can happen about once or twice a year.

Vïagra and Cïalis combo is a good aid as well. Take C first, then 4-6 hour later, top it off with V and you have a weekend plan.

Weight training and a heavy workout routine over time seems to also do miracles to the testosterone level and improves your cadence and stamina.

 

[HemingwaySE]

Are you talking about a testosterone booster?

No. Just plain old Zinc Supplements work just fine. It's not a miracle cure obviously, but it helps.

 

[Mr.Elrond]

Despite being younger and not having noticeable problems, I never really focus on finalizing it 2 times or more. I really like the foreplay and build up more then the actual ending. If ya know what I mean.
Maybe that's the way to go for you as well, you don't have to prove anything to anyone, so find a girl(s) that has the patience and, luckily, enjoys the build up rather than the ones who put all the effort to get you there quickly. It's intrinsic that a good service is the one that gets you at max level for the most of the duration, which is not necessarily true.

Also, I heard a specialist on TV once saying that the main cause of ED is psychological, meaning stress/preoccupation. So I hope this tips help you clearing the mind a bit.

Cheers!

 

[Pokemon301]

Despite being younger and not having noticeable problems, I never really focus on finalizing it 2 times or more. I really like the foreplay and build up more then the actual ending. If ya know what I mean.
Maybe that's the way to go for you as well, you don't have to prove anything to anyone, so find a girl(s) that has the patience and, luckily, enjoys the build up rather than the ones who put all the effort to get you there quickly. It's intrinsic that a good service is the one that gets you at max level for the most of the duration, which is not necessarily true.

Also, I heard a specialist on TV once saying that the main cause of ED is psychological, meaning stress/preoccupation. So I hope this tips help you clearing the mind a bit.

Cheers!

What he said, sex is like life, if you do it right once is enough.

 

[MP12345678]

I'm younger so I can still go 4-6 rounds in a day, but I don't even try to do MSOG in an hour.
I love cuddles, and other than going one round, I'm happy just cuddling a beautiful woman.

 

[bruised]

Some great feedback. Even at 50, I've had trouble over coming the psychological part. I'm still pretty nervous with every visit, even with SPs and MAs I've seen multiple times. This sometime leads to premature ejaculation, ya even at 50. When i sense this coming on, like many of you, I focus on the foreplay and make the most of the cuddling.

 

[Ace911]

Thanks for the feedback. I'll look into Cialis, but shit, it's expensive. I'll consider the alternatives as well, but I am no injections for me, thanks. One cystoscopy was enough for me. I'm not giving up, but trying to relive my glory days is far out of reach, 3, 4 5x day....they were good days (@mav, took me forever to find that symbol, I don't know how you do it). In any case, I do make the most of my time, every time. Sometimes, a certain attraction and chemistry is enough for MSOG, but other times it's just not enough.

Look up Phoenix.ca. They deliver the goods right to your door. I'm 45 and the package doesn't act like the 25 year old package that I wanted it to, until the blue pill came into my life. I went with the viagra version and it works awesome. You don't even need the whole pill, just break off a quarter of it, wait a half hour, then give er MSOG