And Why do men have to make the first move?

[escortsxxx]

Not in my experience.

Given that the sex toy industry cares almost exclusively for women... Obviously have a very high sex drive. Dollars do not lie. Sex is a field that is dominated and controlled by women.

There are few places culturally where the rules are reversed. Strip clubs selling a dance for example. I suspect married men are appouched More than married woman but the data is weak. Are best i sight was the hack into the website that shall not be named.

As for the survey I'm a bit surprised that the number is so high. I suspect it's still rare It just happens once per person.

 

[Valcazar]

Given that the sex toy industry cares almost exclusively for women... Obviously have a very high sex drive. Dollars do not lie. Sex is a field that is dominated and controlled by women.

There are few places culturally where the rules are reversed. Strip clubs selling a dance for example. I suspect married men are appouched More than married woman but the data is weak. Are best i sight was the hack into the website that shall not be named.

As for the survey I'm a bit surprised that the number is so high. I suspect it's still rare It just happens once per person.

The higher sex industry use doesn't necessarily mean higher libido, though.
That's a question of social permission and likely risk.

 

[escortsxxx]

The higher sex industry use doesn't necessarily mean higher libido, though.
That's a question of social permission and likely risk.

No the motivation is money. Society is raised by mothers. A few mothers go against the sister if they have boys but most part It's designed for ease of young women. As you suggest let the men take the risks.
Feminism is Really a women battle, but generational one... Where young women No longer see advantage in the old.
Currently woman asking men out is bad for women. Some see this is an opportunity and do ask out.

 

[Valcazar]

No the motivation is money. Society is raised by mothers. A few mothers go against the sister if they have boys but most part It's designed for ease of young women. As you suggest let the men take the risks.
Feminism is Really a women battle, but generational one... Where young women No longer see advantage in the old.
Currently woman asking men out is bad for women. Some see this is an opportunity and do ask out.

Major societal issues controlling things.
Not inherent libido.
We agree.

 

[jeff2]

Major societal issues controlling things.
Not inherent libido.
We agree.

Libido no. This is inherent:

A study done by the University of Minnesota in 2017 found that females generally prefer dominant males as mates.[6] Research conducted throughout the world strongly supports the position that women prefer marriage with partners who are culturally successful or have high potential to become culturally successful. The most extensive of these studies included 10,000 people in 37 cultures across six continents and five islands. Women rated "good financial prospect" higher than men did in all cultures. In 29 samples, the "ambition and industriousness" of a prospective mate were more important for women than for men. Meta-analysis of research published from 1965 to 1986 revealed the same sex difference (Feingold, 1992). Across studies, 3 out of 4 women rated socioeconomic status as more important in a prospective marriage partner than did the average man.

 

[NotADcotor]

Not in my experience.

Which is why when a guy threatens to not have sex with his wife it's a joke, but when a woman threatens to cut off sex from a dude it's a serious threat.
Why if a guy says he isn't going to put out on a date, it's generally considered comedic fodder.
Why there are so many male escorts offering sex to women, because guys just are not putting out out there.

I guess that is like how they insist that women love to play D&D as much as guys but any time you see a D&D mass gathering it's all wall to wall cock. They are so good they managed to actually craft potions of invisibility.

 

[escortsxxx]

Which is why when a guy threatens to not have sex with his wife it's a joke, but when a woman threatens to cut off sex from a dude it's a serious threat.
Why if a guy says he isn't going to put out on a date, it's generally considered comedic fodder.
Why there are so many male escorts offering sex to women, because guys just are not putting out out there.

I guess that is like how they insist that women love to play D&D as much as guys but any time you see a D&D mass gathering it's all wall to wall cock. They are so good they managed to actually craft potions of invisibility.

lol Yes the main excuse Not just reading and video games and such is they do not feel welcome. Guess what Just like this female only sports they could do the same if they actually cared.

 

[IM469]

RE: I wish it was different but let's face it - men's sexual libido is much higher than a women's.

Not in my experience.

What is your experience ? Women are throwing themselves at you trying to get you to screw them or your balls were ripped off in a childhood accident ?

If it's your choice of cologne - please share it with us.

 

[xix]

Men need to make the first move in order to show that they are brave and confident (and rich) enough to approach a woman.....that's it....

Rich?????????????
if we don't spend money on them we may have something.

 

[Valcazar]

Libido no. This is inherent:

A study done by the University of Minnesota in 2017 found that females generally prefer dominant males as mates.[6] Research conducted throughout the world strongly supports the position that women prefer marriage with partners who are culturally successful or have high potential to become culturally successful. The most extensive of these studies included 10,000 people in 37 cultures across six continents and five islands. Women rated "good financial prospect" higher than men did in all cultures. In 29 samples, the "ambition and industriousness" of a prospective mate were more important for women than for men. Meta-analysis of research published from 1965 to 1986 revealed the same sex difference (Feingold, 1992). Across studies, 3 out of 4 women rated socioeconomic status as more important in a prospective marriage partner than did the average man.

Interesting that you just cut one study out of that whole page.
But yes, libido doesn't inherently different, like I said.

Note how carefully that paragraph is phrased though, only using "more important than", but studiously avoiding where that was ranked in importance.

 

[Valcazar]

Which is why when a guy threatens to not have sex with his wife it's a joke, but when a woman threatens to cut off sex from a dude it's a serious threat.
Why if a guy says he isn't going to put out on a date, it's generally considered comedic fodder.
Why there are so many male escorts offering sex to women, because guys just are not putting out out there.

I guess that is like how they insist that women love to play D&D as much as guys but any time you see a D&D mass gathering it's all wall to wall cock. They are so good they managed to actually craft potions of invisibility.

Looks over at his D&D group and apologizes to the women in it, especially the DM.

You do realize nothing in what you said contradicts my argument that this is social.

 

[Valcazar]

What is your experience ? Women are throwing themselves at you trying to get you to screw them or your balls were ripped off in a childhood accident ?

If it's your choice of cologne - please share it with us.

LOL.
Of course they aren't.
Men don't behave like that either.
That's hardly a reasonable measure of libido.