What do you want people to do to fix your problem? Gather up new women for you. Move them to Durham and force them to work. LOL.
I get your frustration but yes. This is your issue. Spend more and get someone from Toronto where there is more options. The days of 100/hh with sexy spinner are lonnnnnngggggg gone. Time to face reality.
Thanks for your input. I obviously don’t know what it’s like on the other side. But this still doesn’t solve MY issue. Lol.
And I believe your suggestion about rounding people up has a very specific name, and by no means is that what I am advocating.
Maybe I don’t get the situation from a professional angle. Do women not travel to Durham as often? Is it seen as a bad place for them? Either $, or clientele? Or some other issue? When they do visit, and they not treated with respect?
It’s not that I don’t/won’t visit downtown. I do. I will spend the amount we agree upon. I don’t expect top tier service for pennies. I just find a distinct lack of options in who I prefer. And then even if I find someone, the interaction has been lacklustre on their end.
Or some other personal drama pops up. Had a great first meeting with someone. Second meeting was interrupted by non stop phone calls from her sister. Babysitting and wouldn’t leave her alone. Had to leave and drive her back.
Like I said, it just seems very hard to find someone who appeals to me, who is also reliable. Rant over.