Thanks for sharing.BBBJ is such a huge risk, i just caught a non permanent STI with that, i guess im super unlucky i thought i choose pretty wisely since the SP i went to see was fresh into the industry, i ended up passing it on to someone a cared about and had to be upfront and honest. The guilt is terrible so i advise everyone to know the risks, BBBJ can give you herpes, hpv, chlamydia, gonnorhea, syphillis, and many of these go unnoticed and can lay dormant for months. so i advise monthly testing atleast since your body takes a bit long to build antibodies for the tests to detect, CBJ is fairly low risk and cfs, mainly just herpes, and hpv but those usually are asymptomatic. Nothing is ever safe 100%, you can only practice safer sex.
Honestly, I wouldn't even pursue this hobby if I were to avoid BBBJ. To each their own, but a CBJ kills the excitement completely for me, I cannot enjoy CFS or anything else in the session. I guess that's a risk we take, and yeah when I'm hobbying I wouldn't practice unsafe sex with SO or anyone I care about.
I do plan to get tested every month from now on