What to do?...ok. So, on this board and others, we often hear the side of providers; that they have the right to refuse service for any reason they choose. I agree %100. However, there is a flip side to that equation; the client ALSO has the right to refuse to be serviced for any reason at ALL. It really is as simple as that. Now, that being said, social mathematics works great in a vacuum. Let it out into the atmosphere and all kinds of scenarios may and often do happen. If it were a provider and not an MA, some really unfortunate things can go down if you walk, depending on where you are, depending on who else is close at hand, people pop out of rooms next door with nothing but carnage on their minds. Things can get hairy very quickly. As it is an MA, you have every right to get up and walk out. Simple as that. Now, could the club ban you? Sure. It's a private establishment. If you made a reservation by phone, they could black-list you and if the club has other clubs, you theoretically could be banned from them as well. It could happen. Would it happen and what does it look like if it does? Odds are it won't happen. Full stop. Customers walking happens all the time. So you get banned from one club, and? You go to a different club. Provided you aren't excessively rude, or abusive, most clubs don't care one way or the other. The provider is an independent contractor, they rent the rooms from the club. Sometimes they have duties to perform for the maintenance of the room, but they aren't employees as such of the club. Furthermore, club owners WANT punters, errr, clients, to come back. If clients start walking out, the easiest thing is to dump the worker, not the client. And believe me, bad press runs rampant in this world. Something ugly goes down in a club and it will be known everywhere, even other MA's will avoid the place. Nobody needs the heat. If you wanted to be a nice guy, you could give her some coin for her time. A gentleman would do that because she is out what she would have made with you and potentially, she might have let another client go to take you in. There is that.
Be a gentleman. Be upfront. Tell her, I'm just not comfortable, here's some cash to make up for your loss. She'll appreciate it. You leave, and everyone is happy. You can walk out with your head held high, she isn't put out completely, and you don't have to worry about being labeled a skid mark.
