She’s a texter, she’s a clock watcher

[LC18]

What are your views on providers that use their phone during a session? Other than to set up a timer or music.

Do you tell her that it’s rude?

Do you just finish and never repeat?

Do you just don’t care at all?

I personally do not touch my phone at all, I set the music before you arrive so that you can have my full attention. I do have a subtle timer to make sure we do not exceed our time. I’m not a clock watcher either so often people ask me “how much time is left?” and I have no idea so that would be the only time I would allow myself to touch my phone during a booking.


As per usual, your answers are always helpful. Please note that I used she/her to simplify the text.

 

[thumper18474]

If she Picks up her phone during a session
I'm disengaging getting dressed and walking out..no conversation
No WTF
NO FU
and never seeing her again
I paid to have your 100% attention and if you can't be with me for 60 minutes..both physically and mentally?..then let me know before hand and I'll find someone who will.

 

[LC18]

If she Picks up her phone during a session
I'm disengaging getting dressed and walking out..no conversation
No WTF
NO FU
and never seeing her again
I paid to have your 100% attention and if you can't be with me for 60 minutes..both physically and mentally?..then let me know before hand and I'll find someone who will.

It‘s valid. Do you ask for your money back or it just becomes a loss?

 

[rhuarc29]

In pretty much any 1-on-1 interaction, be it a civvie dinner date or an SP romp, phone use is a big no-no in my books, other than to silence any incoming notifications. At the very least, a civvie should excuse themselves and beg pardon so they can respond quickly to a text. For an SP, even that is out-of-bounds, since the time spent is paid for. Thankfully, I've never seen an SP who actually used her phone like that during a session. Likely because I only see upstanding ladies.

 

[LC18]

In pretty much any 1-on-1 interaction, be it a civvie dinner date or an SP romp, phone use is a big no-no in my books, other than to silence any incoming notifications. At the very least, a civvie should excuse themselves and beg pardon so they can respond quickly to a text. For an SP, even that is out-of-bounds, since the time spent is paid for. Thankfully, I've never seen an SP who actually used her phone like that during a session. Likely because I only see upstanding ladies.

I made the same thread on Merb and someone said that they visited a provider that gave him a HJ while texting with her other hand.

 

[hockeyguy19]

I don't remember that ever happening with us but on a couple of occasions, it was the opposite. There has been a couple of times where, for work, I would need to check my phone if I was expecting something crucial. BUT, I would always warn her ahead of time that I may need to check my phone during the session.

Also, when my wife and I first starting hobbying, our kids were relatively young and we often had a sitter or the older one in charge for the evening so it was always a mother's instinct thing to check her phone for any issue regarding the kids. But it was never any kind of significant distraction and done very subtly.

 

[Jenesis]

I have had to answer my phone during an appointment.

If it is something related to my parent that I am the primary caregiver for - I have no choice. If it is them directly - I will often answer on my watch - which is on speaker and just quickly ask if it is an emergency and then say I will call them back because I’m in an appointment. The client hears it and it is two second because it is on my watch. I have never had a client mind at all. Because it is personally related and most clients are compassionate.

If it is a doctor or something, I answer and that usually takes a minute or two but I’m usually booking an appointment and that is why they are calling. The client hears this too so they know it is not escort related.

I have also had it where something was going on at my mainstream job and I was getting bugged. I have had to answer the phone and say I will call back in “x” amount of time and again clients are completely understanding.

I don’t take escort related calls or text during an appointment though and I’m not a clock watcher. It doesn’t happen often where I have to answer the phone at all but I have had to a couple of time and it has not been an issue. I believe the difference reason.

I’m not a clock watcher. Actually I had one time where I kicked a guy out early by the basic - get up and start dressing and changing the topic to “what are your plans for the day?” This is my go-to when guys are going over time. He finally left and when I counted the money - there was an hours amount, not the hh I thought it was. I was able to catch him before he left and had him come back to give him back some money. The appointment was already disrupted by that time so no point in getting all undressed a shit again. He probably won’t repeated with my unprofessional ass - LOL - but I feel better that I didn’t unintentionally rip him off. This is the first in only time but it just happened a few week ago. I don’t know why I thought hh on an hour. Total brain fart. LOL

 

[The Fox]

No biggie, although, a meteorite storm wouldn’t put me off.

 

[thumper18474]

It‘s valid. Do you ask for your money back or it just becomes a loss?

It's a loss
She blocked that time for me so IMO she gets to keep it...but she just killed the golden goose..cus I won't be back

 

[funstick]

It's a turnoff and I do not repeat if it happens during the core time of the encounter. I never say anything, I just don't come back. It's not a big deal when I am in the bathroom freshening/washing up or wrapping up and/or getting dressed. If she advises me ahead of time that she will have to check her phone if a specific ring tone chimes due to an emergency, I can accept that if she makes it up somehow. Independant providers have more flexibility to compensate with extra time, future discount etc. Has not happened often.

 

[LC18]

I have had to answer my phone during an appointment.

If it is something related to my parent that I am the primary caregiver for - I have no choice. If it is them directly - I will often answer on my watch - which is on speaker and just quickly ask if it is an emergency and then say I will call them back because I’m in an appointment. The client hears it and it is two second because it is on my watch. I have never had a client mind at all. Because it is personally related and most clients are compassionate.

If it is a doctor or something, I answer and that usually takes a minute or two but I’m usually booking an appointment and that is why they are calling. The client hears this too so they know it is not escort related.

I have also had it where something was going on at my mainstream job and I was getting bugged. I have had to answer the phone and say I will call back in “x” amount of time and again clients are completely understanding.

I don’t take escort related calls or text during an appointment though and I’m not a clock watcher. It doesn’t happen often where I have to answer the phone at all but I have had to a couple of time and it has not been an issue. I believe the difference reason.

I’m not a clock watcher. Actually I had one time where I kicked a guy out early by the basic - get up and start dressing and changing the topic to “what are your plans for the day?” This is my go-to when guys are going over time. He finally left and when I counted the money - there was an hours amount, not the hh I thought it was. I was able to catch him before he left and had him come back to give him back some money. The appointment was already disrupted by that time so no point in getting all undressed a shit again. He probably won’t repeated with my unprofessional ass - LOL - but I feel better that I didn’t unintentionally rip him off. This is the first in only time but it just happened a few week ago. I don’t know why I thought hh on an hour. Total brain fart. LOL

But they do not refer to you by your whole government name?

 

[tastingyou]

What are your views on providers that use their phone during a session? Other than to set up a timer or music.

Do you tell her that it’s rude?

Do you just finish and never repeat?

Do you just don’t care at all?

I personally do not touch my phone at all, I set the music before you arrive so that you can have my full attention. I do have a subtle timer to make sure we do not exceed our time. I’m not a clock watcher either so often people ask me “how much time is left?” and I have no idea so that would be the only time I would allow myself to touch my phone during a booki


As per usual, your answers are always helpful. Please note that I used she/her to simplify the text.

Obviously there are extenuating circumstances but they had better pertain to a family medical situation and not a client situation . And the provider had better subsequently explain the need to answer. Otherwise she has likely lost one of her most loyal frequently repeating clients that could easily represent .a very easy 3- 5 k per year.

As far as the rest of the title - clockwatcher - if you rush or make me feel rushed during my usual 45 minute booking - BYE, BYE.

The significant % of idiot providers that blacken the industry do not need to worry about this because they are incapable of developing a repeat customer base .

 

[Jenesis]

But they do not refer to you by your whole government name?

No. No.

I say “hello, hold on one second please” right away before anyone says anything if an office or something. And then get my phone and take the call directly.

With family I just say I’m in an appointment. They know what I do. So they just say call me back if it is not important. Or they say it’s important, get your phone. That happened once.

I get the call display so I know who is calling before I answer. If anyone else, I just send to voicemail through the watch

 

[glamphotographer]

I had an SP pick up her phone to film her giving me a BJ and me giving her a facial. I gave her free content for her onlyfans.

 

[wonderingeye]

Personally, I am ok to be off the air for the hour or so for the appointment. Normally if my phone rings and she says do you need to pick up, a quick glance and I am good.

I would offer the same courtesy to the lady. Emergencies and family situations pop up for everyone.

Zero tolerance for texts as it is not normally used for emergencies. One calls 911. Text is not for emergencies.

And if a lady doesn't understand this, she isn't for me. I just move on.

 

[kherg007]

If she's using it during the visit, without some warning (eg "just a heads up my mum's sick and i might need to attend so I'll have to check incoming calls"), then super bad form and likely last visit.
There have been times where at end of visit we keep chatting then decide to step out for a spot of lunch where she's not charging for her time (of course I shout her meal) but I will give her the greenlight to check her phone or whatever as we're not on the clock. If we were on the clock for a lunch date then yes would not be happy.

 

[Kracker]

Obviously it's not a "positive". But:

1) Like any business meeting, if it's accompanied with "sorry had to check that" or something it's understandable. People have stuff going on.

2) Like any romantic encounter, it's a buzzkill, and she has to dig herself out of that hole.

Fortunately I don't remember sh-t once my cock is in her mouth, so it's an easy hole to dig out of.

 

[Y_Diner]

Really depends.
If it’s consistent and she’s just texting friends or socials it’s a mood killer, I’ll , finish and not repeat.
The good sps imho apologize or at at least explain its work related. Even if it’s not the truth.
I have answered texts and emails during a session if it’s important, work or family, and realize that’s my time and I’m fine with that.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I had one text me to leave.

 

[massman]

Major turnoff. I usually will complete the session, but unless she was otherwise spectacular I won’t repeat. Fortunately this has been rare with well reviewed independent or agency girls. I have experienced it in the past with girls from LL, CL etc.