I just got into it about 6 months ago, and I really got into, but I’m a bit bored. Seems like it gets mechanical even for me.
Any advice? Or may as well take a break?
Any advice? Or may as well take a break?
Does hobbying get boring?
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Variety is the spice life, are you repeating with same girls ? also are you just seeing sp's you can also hit the mp's(massage parlour) or sc's(strip club) scene as well. I will never get bored just lack of funds 
the world is your oyster get out there and enjoy yourself.
the world is your oyster get out there and enjoy yourself.Personally, to make it interesting, I had to vary my choices (various styles, body shapes, ethnic backgrounds, personalities). As an example, I would book a hot looking DDG female with reserved demeanor one week, then 5 weeks later I would go for an average looking gal but who is wild/outgoing/extremely sexual. I am lucky to love all types of women (conservative Vs fresh looking, shy Vs outgoing, bbw Vs slim, tall Vs petite, black/brown/white, short hair Vs long hair, shaved Vs hairy, Blonde Vs Brunette Vs Red hair, etc), therefore I am never bored as I continuously alternate between totally different women. I also alternate between SPs, MPS and SCs (for eg, 1 MP or 2,3 SCs for every 5-7 SPs), between incalls and outcalls (sometimes I love receiving, sometimes I love being received, so that variation in host vs traveler mindset is one of the many ways I found to escape boredom). Sometimes I insert a dinner date (or any other social activity) before or after the main event. I also have outfit requests/specific themes I propose to the SPs (the beach babe theme, the Hawaiian dancer, the Judge, etc). Also: I book 1 lady every 5 weeks on average, and that helps a lot (even though I tend to vary my choices, seeing many varied ladies in a shorter period -- i.e. meeting a SW every 1 or 2 weeks -- may eventually turn boring).
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Or follow the wild style of @Rocco. But, there is a catch: you will never be able to enjoy vanilla sex again.
I find if you do it too often, it does tend to become repetitive. You need some time in between to miss it a bit to get the most of your experiences, plus what the others have said above.
Haven’t repeated yet but had been thinking of doing that. I’ve mostly seen agency women, and just one independent. Maybe the higher cost is worth it?Variety is the spice life, are you repeating with same girls ? also are you just seeing sp's you can also hit the mp's(massage parlour) or sc's(strip club) scene as well. I will never get bored just lack of funds
I actually was wondering the same thing. Is it me or is it them? Been repeating with the same two for years which is a nice comfort level. I tried a couple of new ones over the last couple of months and was somewhat weirded out by paying for sex with strangers. The two I see aren't strangers.
Maybe time caught up with me. Last Sunday I didn't go and pay for sex. First Sunday in years. Like the movie "Any given Sunday" Didn't want to. Didn't miss it. Maybe I am done.
Maybe time caught up with me. Last Sunday I didn't go and pay for sex. First Sunday in years. Like the movie "Any given Sunday" Didn't want to. Didn't miss it. Maybe I am done.
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Time for you to step up to ORGIES!!!!!
Doing one on one with SP will get boring at some point. It happened to me. It's not about cost or agency versus indy.
It's the fact that enjoying something all by yourself without the possibility to share anything about it does gets boring.
A few years ago I hooked up on montreal Merb to start doing little parties. We would get 2, 3 or 4 guy that we vouch and book 1 or a few girl. That was fun...
It lead me to do quite a lot of planned event like gangbang or swinger event. Some really wild.
I realized I was a voyeur as much as a doer
Anyhow I am back to only an occasional sp, about 2 per year, which will be enough until I stop.
It's the fact that enjoying something all by yourself without the possibility to share anything about it does gets boring.
A few years ago I hooked up on montreal Merb to start doing little parties. We would get 2, 3 or 4 guy that we vouch and book 1 or a few girl. That was fun...
It lead me to do quite a lot of planned event like gangbang or swinger event. Some really wild.
I realized I was a voyeur as much as a doer
Anyhow I am back to only an occasional sp, about 2 per year, which will be enough until I stop.
You're not alone in this.
Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you're gonna get. That's the fun part about hobbying.
However, you don't have to eat till you puke. Indulge only when cravings get loud.
I can see how things can get mechanical and all the sessions might just start feeling the same after a while. Some things you can do is try to see a different girl everything you go see an sp. Try to have a different type of sp experience rather just a regular incall experience. It might cost more and you moght have to book longer appointmemt but try doing an activity outdoors with her before heading to a hotel. When it comes to sex try to find sp's who are into different things like some might be ok with edging you for the entire session, others might allow Greek, some are really into a good ff etc. All of these things combined helps to keep things spicy and less boring. If nothing works take a break from hobbying for 4-6 months and then resume again if you feel the urge too. If you don't then that's fine too look at the bright side- you will be saving a lot of money lol
Doing it with the same woman gets boring even if she is a 10/10 in all departments. I was seeing a 10/10 Russian blonde years ago and couldn't believe I was getting bored with her. Same with my Polish SB in 2017..good looking blonde girl, excellent value....I craved variety of seeing at least 2-3 different ladies. I've had moments when I've only seen 1 SP due to the lack of quality in the market place but I would have preferred a variety of hot ladies
Just like any other addiction, your brain gets used to the dopamine rush after a while. You can chase that feeling with either more volume, or depravity. (Or both)
This is the best part of hobbying over marriage. Things get boring - just move on.
Or the wrong crowd...
I always prefer "normal" LS encounters over SPs...
No time limit, never boring, always learn something ... And the best thing is, you know you are in session with somebody who is genuinely in to you ... Nothing beats that...
OP might just need to do two chicks at the same time, man
