Alpha Widow Explained

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I seen weird things in life, the worst is a bisexual guy left plenty of women with kids and some husbands have taken care of these kids. I have a feeling some of these adult kids have date by dating apps and have no idea they may have date their half sibling.

I spoke with a guy who believes he dated two half sisters and they are not aware about themselves but he is. It's a silly world.

 
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I didn't know that was a thing but it does make sense. As a man I think I do that a lot
 
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The family unit has broken down. I think it is much more common in the states than it is here in Canada, but it still happens. As far as women that give themselves to a multiple of dudes you might see this in younger women, but it can also happen in women that are divorced with kids. I saw a Youtube channel of this guy that travels around visiting small towns all over the U.S.A., these places are drying up. There are no jobs, and nothing for the kids to do. Many of these small towns the people are very poorly educated and there are horrendous drug problems. Very often there may be 2-3-4000 people left in the town and everyone knows everyone. The young guys will hook up with a woman and make several kids, then he will move on to another women and make several more kids. The dad may later up and leave to the big city. These kids grow up and do not know that they are hooking up with a half brother, sister, cousin, aunt or uncle. If the dad returns to the town after 15-20 years he might even hook up with his daughter without knowing it..
 
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It's like the card game of hearts - zero is the best score, both for the planet and your own finances...
 

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The family unit has broken down. I think it is much more common in the states than it is here in Canada, but it still happens. As far as women that give themselves to a multiple of dudes you might see this in younger women, but it can also happen in women that are divorced with kids. I saw a Youtube channel of this guy that travels around visiting small towns all over the U.S.A., these places are drying up. There are no jobs, and nothing for the kids to do. Many of these small towns the people are very poorly educated and there are horrendous drug problems. Very often there may be 2-3-4000 people left in the town and everyone knows everyone. The young guys will hook up with a woman and make several kids, then he will move on to another women and make several more kids. The dad may later up and leave to the big city. These kids grow up and do not know that they are hooking up with a half brother, sister, cousin, aunt or uncle. If the dad returns to the town after 15-20 years he might even hook up with his daughter without knowing it..
Certainly explains the Maga base
 

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It's like the card game of hearts - zero is the best score, both for the planet and your own finances...
All kings and men of influence/power had harems, flocks of women, and plenty of offspring.

This guy is keeping tradition alive:

Not having kids or sticking to one woman is a modern invention.

Men of little influence that had no children left no legacy or even a trace of their own existence.
 

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All kings and men of influence/power had harems, flocks of women, and plenty of offspring.

This guy is keeping tradition alive:

Not having kids or sticking to one woman is a modern invention.

Men of little influence that had no children left no legacy or even a trace of their own existence.
Egocentric view if I ever heard one...
 
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I completely disagree with the first video.

For every person who can't "pair bond" because they miss their ex,
there's a person who can only fully bond with their current partner because of the lessons they learned from their ex, or from multiple exes.

And let's go even further:
For every person who says they can't pair bond with their current partner because their ex gave them something they don't get from their current partner, that person needs to work on honesty and communication in their relationship. If you can't talk to your partner about your needs, that's not "Oh, fucking around when I was younger ruined me." That's "I should learn how to communicate my needs better."
 
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Funny that the whole "Alpha Widow" concept is built upon the flawed idea of an "Alpha Male"

Too many guys think the Alpha Male concept is something to emulate when it's most certainly not. The whole concept was based on a flawed study of wolves. When scientists looked back and tried to replicate the study, they showed that dominating, controlling, "alpha male" behavior was only true for wolves that were were captured and forced into groups with no family ties. It's threatened prison yard behavior. It's terrified, desperate, survivalist behavior. Not natural mating ritual behavior.

True leaders protect their pack. True leaders provide for their pack. True leaders look out for and lift up the weaker in their pack. They don't attack "beta" wolves. They protect and provide for the entire pack.

As an analogy, in software an alpha build is something that unsuitable for use. It's too early and immature. Then the beta build comes along and it's likely useable but can't be guaranteed. Then production code is ready and that's desireable by the market. Don't be an alpha 😂

 

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Funny that the whole "Alpha Widow" concept is built upon the flawed idea of an "Alpha Male"

Too many guys think the Alpha Male concept is something to emulate when it's most certainly not. The whole concept was based on a flawed study of wolves. When scientists looked back and tried to replicate the study, they showed that dominating, controlling, "alpha male" behavior was only true for wolves that were were captured and forced into groups with no family ties. It's threatened prison yard behavior. It's terrified, desperate, survivalist behavior. Not natural mating ritual behavior.

True leaders protect their pack. True leaders provide for their pack. True leaders look out for and lift up the weaker in their pack. They don't attack "beta" wolves. They protect and provide for the entire pack.


As an analogy, in software an alpha build is something that unsuitable for use. It's too early and immature. Then the beta build comes along and it's likely useable but can't be guaranteed. Then production code is ready and that's desireable by the market. Don't be an alpha 😂

True but when you have a partner that doesn't want to communicate properly at all, or is a super liar ,and still has those desires, what do you then?

Yeah you have to be a psychic to see what the future holds and walk away before it is to late. Women don't want to be controlled. No body seems to know what Submit and Surrender means.

Also some people dream big when that is the limit to their destiny.

The study, remember grade school, the pretty people were the popular ones.
 

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I seen weird things in life, the worst is a bisexual guy left plenty of women with kids and some husbands have taken care of these kids. I have a feeling some of these adult kids have date by dating apps and have no idea they may have date their half sibling.

I spoke with a guy who believes he dated two half sisters and they are not aware about themselves but he is. It's a silly world.

Listening to her talk and I'm thinkin' Stormy Daniels! She's had the all time best ever (think he tweeted that once) and now she's spoiled for other men. She's going to do a movie...
 
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