Oh, your delusion is quite concrete. The only way to break it is to go searching to try to find any posts of mine that actually back up your distorted recollections. I haven't deleted any of my posts (my recent review of the Oppenheimer movie was deleted by Mods, but I don't think that would help you anyway).
Spiderman was a fairly grounded individual, having been raised by his aunt and uncle, but he wasn't too good with the ladies. He got his powers through blind luck, and his good deeds are never universally appreciated, as J. Jonah Jamieson demonstrates. He's kind of a loser in the world of superheroes. In the Avengers, the other heroes kind of treat him like a dufus.
Superman is also a strange hero. He's un-super except for the accident of his transport to Earth. He's also pretty bad with the ladies, and so unremarkable that no-one even recognizes him when he simply puts on a pair of glasses! However, anyone with a green rock can easily defeat him. Maybe I should change the colour of my avatar to a green crock pot?
Batman has issues. Serious issues. Even though a billionaire, he chooses to hang out in a dank cave, with a teenage friend of dorothy in tights and an old geezer. He drives a pretty cool car, but it's unclear who actually built it. He responds to lights in the sky, and is regularly captured. Everyone he defeats ends up in the local asylum, but it really seems that he needs just as much psychiatric treatment.
You need better role models.