Sugar Dating Experience

John Wick

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Yeah...based on the totality of your posts, no one believes you.
LOL! These are almost on par with 'shack-level' bombastic improbable and largely unbelievable claims!
 
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IMBob

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I'm in PEI for the summer . Seeking Arr - one month only and didn't renew. Tinder Gold , pof , bumble , swinging Heaven, have all been duds here . A few conversations only with ladies on SugarDaddyMeet and Secret Benefits. One lady via SDM replied- "1K and I'm there " ..... next . Having more luck with Hinge ; a civilian dating site . I met a 22 yr old ebony via Hinge. I'm lots older. Dates and dinners , but no compensation otherwise . Has anyone found similar on Hinge in the GTA ?
 
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art van dele

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Don’t get your hopes high there’s a good chance of her cancelling, not showing up or simply stop replying but you never know. The best approach is to keep the expectations low( not talking about quality or your standards) when it comes to them actually showing up.
One of the ways to mitigate ghosting is to keep the time between messaging and actual date as short as possible.
 

Massivo

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So much good info in this thread. Been using SA the last couple of weeks with moderate success. I've been able to have a couple of successful meet ups but the girls have been very normal and not what I would consider model types that have been mentioned here. The experience itself is very different than with an SP, it's much more genuine and real. It was actually very enjoyable and a nice change of pace from seeing SP.

For those who've had success with the 9/10 model types on the website what's the secret there? Is it just a higher ppm amount? The ones I've talked to have asked for 700-1000 per meet which to me is really high. Max I've done is 400 per meet. I'm not sure if theres a standard rate so maybe I'm just being a cheapass.

I saw someone else get chirped earlier in the thread but I actually wouldn't mind some tips haha.
I agree... A big thank you to all those who contributed... I've signed up and have something set up for next week outside TO...To all the experienced guys out there...Is it a really bad idea to bring her over to my house after we initially meet and decide on the terms?...I'm single but don't want to be stuck with a crazy lady knowing where I live lol
 

LTO_3

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I agree... A big thank you to all those who contributed... I've signed up and have something set up for next week outside TO...To all the experienced guys out there...Is it a really bad idea to bring her over to my house after we initially meet and decide on the terms?...I'm single but don't want to be stuck with a crazy lady knowing where I live lol
May not be the best to go back to your place unless you're so sure it's the real deal and worth the risk. Better to stay safe than feel sorry afterwards. Think with big head not the little one until you've seen her a few time. That's my 2 cents.

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FunInToronto2023

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Yeah...based on the totality of your posts, no one believes you.
I actually hope that as long as other guys keep themselves in great shape, good looking with a great smile, have extra funds and above all are nice and treat girls nicely, that everyone has as much luck as I’ve had. I really feel fortunate for being able to hook up with so many girls but the double edged sword has been that I’m married and it’s far more of an addiction than anything. Really the biggest first world problem a guy could have. And no, I haven’t embellished anything, when I self-reflect I’m surprised at my horrible behaviour and not much goes into a spank bank anymore, you just want to go out and get your next “fix”. And it’s 💯 readily available.
 
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GeeBee

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I agree... A big thank you to all those who contributed... I've signed up and have something set up for next week outside TO...To all the experienced guys out there...Is it a really bad idea to bring her over to my house after we initially meet and decide on the terms?...I'm single but don't want to be stuck with a crazy lady knowing where I live lol
I’d never take a girl to my place, just my paranoia. If you do, wait until you’ve seen her a few times. Her place is cool if she offers, but hotels to start is always my game plan.
 

shack

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LOL! These are almost on par with 'shack-level' bombastic improbable and largely unbelievable claims!
Nice to see that I'm living in your head.

I guess It's hard for a guy with your level of being obnoxious to see that guys who are polite, gentlemanly and humorously charming can get away with getting more and paying less.

You should try being a nice guy once in a while.
 

sneakypete

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So much good info in this thread. Been using SA the last couple of weeks with moderate success. I've been able to have a couple of successful meet ups but the girls have been very normal and not what I would consider model types that have been mentioned here. The experience itself is very different than with an SP, it's much more genuine and real. It was actually very enjoyable and a nice change of pace from seeing SP.

For those who've had success with the 9/10 model types on the website what's the secret there? Is it just a higher ppm amount? The ones I've talked to have asked for 700-1000 per meet which to me is really high. Max I've done is 400 per meet. I'm not sure if theres a standard rate so maybe I'm just being a cheapass.

I saw someone else get chirped earlier in the thread but I actually wouldn't mind some tips haha.
400-500 is standard for a normal girl. If you're after the 9s and 10s, I think you gotta go to the next tier, unless you get lucky.

I don't have any public photos, but I do send a detailed intro message. Anyone who tells you that it's hard to get responses on there needs to revisit what messages they're sending. If you're just saying hello, you're going to get ignored. These girls show me how many messages they get (one girl had 500+ messages after being on the website for 24h).

You need to do something stand out, either with $ or personality. Kinda like real life.
 

Asharad

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So reading through this thread I decided to try for myself. So I joined sugardaddy.ca a few days ago. Is this the wrong site because I’m not getting what most of you are talking about.
Each day a few more girls message me, most send a couple messages then don’t respond.
Out of all the ones I talked to, only a handful have actually gotten serious about meeting and they either aren’t really what I’m looking for or the compensation is kinda crazy
 

indigo_27

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So reading through this thread I decided to try for myself. So I joined sugardaddy.ca a few days ago. Is this the wrong site because I’m not getting what most of you are talking about.
Each day a few more girls message me, most send a couple messages then don’t respond.
Out of all the ones I talked to, only a handful have actually gotten serious about meeting and they either aren’t really what I’m looking for or the compensation is kinda crazy
That website is a scam. It has the SBs messages setup to send automatic messsges to SDs. I found out after some research and checking with a few SBs, after spending a lot on the subscription but not getting many responses. Most SBs have no idea that their accounts are setup that way. I would say seeking is a better one.
 
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Asharad

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That website is a scam. It has the SBs messages setup to send automatic messsges to SDs. I found out after some research and checking with a few SBs, after spending a lot on the subscription but not getting many responses. Most SBs have no idea that their accounts are setup that way. I would say seeking is a better one.
Appreciate the info.
Glad to know I basically wasted money buying credits.

Guess I’ll switch over to Seeking
 

FunInToronto2023

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So reading through this thread I decided to try for myself. So I joined sugardaddy.ca a few days ago. Is this the wrong site because I’m not getting what most of you are talking about.
Each day a few more girls message me, most send a couple messages then don’t respond.
Out of all the ones I talked to, only a handful have actually gotten serious about meeting and they either aren’t really what I’m looking for or the compensation is kinda crazy
yeah that site is ridiculous when I tried it I burned through credits I think that’s the one that requires credits for every message and extra to reveal photos etc
 

John Wick

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Nice to see that I'm living in your head.

I guess It's hard for a guy with your level of being obnoxious to see that guys who are polite, gentlemanly and humorously charming can get away with getting more and paying less.

You should try being a nice guy once in a while.
I'm a nice guy all the time, shack. It just bugs the shit out of you that I hold you accountable when you start telling tall tales. Kinda the way you self-appointed yourself to hold Darts accountable on every little thing he posts. I figure if it's ok for you, it's ok for me too. So keep them whopper lies coming old timer. You've almost got surferboy beat! Well...almost...:ROFLMAO:
 
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Meaning

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I'm done with this site lol. I cancelled my date that I got out of pure luck - I actually learned that I don't like the ambiguous nature of these setup/relationships. Why do I want to audition/impress/court & there being a chance of failure? This is an acceptable outcome for me out in the real world, but not in one where I'll be paying. That aside, the pure amount of time needed on this app to find anyone moderately above a low/mid range sp is ridiculous.
 
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