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Most people DON'T WANT RELATIONSHIPS: understanding the decline in romantic relationships..... thoughts?

Jenesis

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Did not watch the video but I have no desire to be in a relationship.

I have friends for dinners, movies, travel, fishing, etc.

I don’t need a man for his money, car, house, etc. I don’t want someone who needs my money, car, house, etc.

I’m not looking to have anymore children. I don’t want to deal with someone else’s kids and I don’t really want someone else dealing with mine. Even if an adult themselves.

I get sex on a regular.

I just don’t see what a relationship would bring me other than having to share, having to think about someone else, care for them, be concerned for them, cook and clean and entertain. Not mention dealing with bullshit fights and drama. No thanks.
 

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Did not watch the video but I have no desire to be in a relationship.

I get sex on a regular.
I been wondering about this for long time so here is my Q. If you are not an SP/SW where would you get your satisfaction from?
Dating apps?
FWB? I can't see this anymore because it would defeat your idea of drama and communication.
Yearly Weekend stand ? I see it with neighbour
Once a month stand? I seen it with a female co-worker.

I think society has collapse internally in their minds (mentally) because everything is on their palms. Communication is gone it has become "yeah , oh please". Because everything is done by the CELLS. Yes a woman can easily get it but not guys.

I believe the lack of verbal communications is making us zombies.
 
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everytime i go out i see couples.
I went to see a movie last week Sunday night Elemental, I like Pixar - there were 2 couples about 20-25 years old the rest of the 8 people were single like me.
 
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A dildo…..
Yes I noticed that seem to be the case with my co-worker when she turned 55. She also moved locations - houses - so she won't have any memories of her fun times.
 

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Yes I noticed that seem to be the case with my co-worker when she turned 55. She also moved locations - houses - so she won't have any memories of her fun times.
It was a joke more than anything.

I can’t answer your question. I don’t know what I would do and I don’t have to think about it, but I do know I don’t need a relationship to get laid.

Taking 30 seconds to think …. I will be able to escort well into my older years. I’m not here to make millions so even if I got as slow as one or two a month - I would still get sex. I think whenever I stop wanting sex is when I will stop working.
 

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I don't know I'd like to have someone casual to go out with, attend functions that kind of thing but nothing where I have to account for my time or feel I have to lie. Not fair to her or me
 

Y_Diner

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Everyone cheats these days, so much distrust between men and women, sex or just meeting someone new and different at few clicks away.
Social media is a killer too.
 
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I went to see a movie last week Sunday night Elemental, I like Pixar - there were 2 couples about 20-25 years old the rest of the 8 people were single like me.
I am surprised the holiday/travel industry has so little for singles.
 

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I am surprised the holiday/travel industry has so little for singles.
I wouldn't be surprise if a Resort in Cuba or Cancun advertise saying Straight Men only for the third week of October and no Women allowed it would fill up quickly. The same would happen if it was for Women in November.
 
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I wouldn't be surprise if a Resort in Cuba or Cancun advertise saying Straight Men only for the third week of October and no Women allowed it would fill up quickly. The same would happen if it was for Women in November.
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Single/attached Men are going away to find and fuck single/attached women. A straight, attached, single man won’t go to a beach resort to just hang with other men. I wouldn’t anyways.
 

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Single/attached Men are going away to find and fuck single/attached women. A straight, attached, single man won’t go to a beach resort to just hang with other men. I wouldn’t anyways.
I agree with you but some Sigma men want to get away from all the noise, bitching, "validation" and complaining. I work with women, I take or attend meditation classes, or other activities the majority of people are Women. Most of the time I am the only guy there, it doesn't bother me. But I need some quiet time.

Besides at the resort you can take day trips which is mixed with other resorts and women will be there. You can then hook up if you want and not worry about her following you to your room finding the maid waiting for you. ;)

Some times I have seen women over 35> having their boyfriends waiting for them (local) outside the resort and not talk to anyone else but her female friend. I seen a herd of female at resort and after 2 days, bitching about lack of men and yet their interactions skills is below par.

I met a guy who met his wife at a resort. But if you see the full video by the OP, you know what I mean. I like to enjoy a resort atmosphere with out the noise.
 
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Y_Diner

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It’s a lot of work too.
Easier to be selfish than share your life with someone.
If you’re a traditionally unattractive poor, or not rich or powerful man, or at least not doing “okay”,
much harder for him to get action than his female counterpart.
But ya I get you, the peace and quiet and no nagging.
That’s why falling for someone, these days especially takes away from your own personal growth.
 

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Did not watch the video but I have no desire to be in a relationship.

I have friends for dinners, movies, travel, fishing, etc.

I don’t need a man for his money, car, house, etc. I don’t want someone who needs my money, car, house, etc.

I’m not looking to have anymore children. I don’t want to deal with someone else’s kids and I don’t really want someone else dealing with mine. Even if an adult themselves.

I get sex on a regular.

I just don’t see what a relationship would bring me other than having to share, having to think about someone else, care for them, be concerned for them, cook and clean and entertain. Not mention dealing with bullshit fights and drama. No thanks.
I'm with you 100%. Also, every time you enter a relationship, the odds are highly stacked against you from the get-go that it's going to work out, no matter how good the intentions of both people are or how invested they are into making the relationship work.

You are, more or less, setting yourself up for heartbreak or breaking someone's heart from Day 1.
 
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