Freestyling

[Valcazar]

Hmmm, how would you know she’s an SP and not just a Lady looking for company? Or does she tell you her profession?
And LC 18, which bar are you going to be in? Lol

There used to be a couple of hotel lobby bars here in Montreal that were pretty well known as hunting grounds for SPs.
Again, I think this goes to " how is the approach handled". I can't imagine a situation in a bar where I would ask if someone was an SP without them dropping major hints earlier in the conversation.
I would expect them to take the lead a bit here.

 

[escortsxxx]

There used to be a couple of hotel lobby bars here in Montreal that were pretty well known as hunting grounds for SPs.
Again, I think this goes to " how is the approach handled". I can't imagine a situation in a bar where I would ask if someone was an SP without them dropping major hints earlier in the conversation.
I would expect them to take the lead a bit here.

I would go further than that. In the new legal climate They would have to also provide legal cover And make it obvious what they're doing .

 

[Tashki]

I’m questioning everybody who voted “yes”. I’m not understanding the thought process. You guys are in a civilian environment. Why don’t you ask them out on a date instead?

 

[Sugarsweet905]

I’m questioning everybody who voted “yes”. I’m not understanding the thought process. You guys are in a civilian environment. Why don’t you ask them out on a date instead?

Sometimes you get a discount that when applied ends up being cheaper than a date or even booking through traditional methods. Say a girl is with an agency and working out of a hotel for $150/30min. After agency fees she most likely sees $90. I can offer her $100 on the side, she will most likely take it. She makes $10 more and I save $50. As well if I ask her on a date I would probably come in at over $100 for the date. Finally for most the sole intention, and excuse me for my crudeness is to "hit it and quit it".

I have had better luck in my younger days of asking dancers for a date. I would often be there til closing and a few girls I knew and would get dances from would be looking for someone to spend time with after work either eating with, or fucking, sometimes both. Note: this was back in the non-contact days, today's experience may not be the same.

 

[Valcazar]

I’m questioning everybody who voted “yes”. I’m not understanding the thought process. You guys are in a civilian environment. Why don’t you ask them out on a date instead?

You could.
But you will notice a lot of us have said it would depend on the approach.
If a SW points out she is one and makes an offer there in the moment, turning around and asking her on a date seems silly.
Or if you ask her on a date and then she counters with a price, that's already a thing.

It isn't "freestyling" if it is just people picking each other up in a bar.

 

[Knuckle Ball]

My answer is No. To me, I would automatically suspect some sorta scam was going on. I would shut it down immediately and make a mental note to avoid her in the future.

That’s me, tho. Other guys might respond positively. Everyone’s different.

 

[Ceiling Cat]

If an attractive SP approached you in a bar? Would you book her?

Sounds like a good way to get bonked on the head and wind up in your socks and shorts unconscious in an alley.

 

[Adriel]

I would not. I would only book ladies I reach out to after doing my research.

 

[hard dick tony]

I’m questioning everybody who voted “yes”. I’m not understanding the thought process. You guys are in a civilian environment. Why don’t you ask them out on a date instead?

You're missing the nuance here that the lady approaching you is giving clear hints she is a professional for hire and not looking for a civi date.

 

[Knuckle Ball]

 

[Tashki]

You're missing the nuance here that the lady approaching you is giving clear hints she is a professional for hire and not looking for a civi date.

In this scenario, I would have said “I have a better idea. How about I take you out for dinner?”

Unless if I came up to her first, I’m not going to accept her offer in booking a session with her meanwhile her boyfriend gets to spend time with her without him giving her money.

 

[Adriel]

In this scenario, I would said “I have better idea. How about I take you out for dinner?”

Unless if I came up to her first, I’m not going to accept her offer in booking a session with her meanwhile her boyfriend gets to spend time with her without him giving her money.

Kind of my attitude too. I reach out to providers not the other way around. If a girl walks up to me and asks me out its going to be off the clock and if not, good bye!

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Only twice have I been propositioned by a pro in a bar. Once was in Mexico. It was a hooker bar. I didn't know before I entered. And once in Tacoma at a regular bar on a happy hour Friday afternoon where $1.00 booze and free food were abundant, by an attractive black girl.
I declined both times. Just wasn't in the mood. Sorry 3 times. Once in Athens in a fucking clip joint. Ghastly mutton dressed as....mutton woman swarmed me. I told the bar tender to tell her to fuck off. I wasn't paying $15.00 for her fucking drink.

 

[LC18]

Hmmm, how would you know she’s an SP and not just a Lady looking for company? Or does she tell you her profession?
And LC 18, which bar are you going to be in? Lol

To be honest I wouldn't ask if I were a man, I'd be too scared to offend her if she's not. Maybe ask what she does for a living. Depending on the mood/chemistry, I either reply with my main occupation or that I'm a SP.

In this scenario, I would said “I have a better idea. How about I take you out for dinner?”

Unless if I came up to her first, I’m not going to accept her offer in booking a session with her meanwhile her boyfriend gets to spend time with her without him giving her money.

Then it's a "no". It's ok you can say no. I would say it's very unlikely that she will accept to go on a date with you unless of course you know each other.

 

[Tashki]

Then it's a "no". It's ok you can say no. I would say it's very unlikely that she will accept to go on a date with you unless of course you know each other.

If she’s my type then I would rather shoot my shot because rejection is better than regret.

 

[hard dick tony]

In this scenario, I would have said “I have a better idea. How about I take you out for dinner?”

Unless if I came up to her first, I’m not going to accept her offer in booking a session with her meanwhile her boyfriend gets to spend time with her without him giving her money.

Your reply makes no sense. You already see escorts that you book and their boyfriends don’t pay for dating them. There is nothing different here except the hypothetical situation is an escort approaching in person versus you looking at their website or reading about them on terb and choosing to book them.

 

[Tashki]

Your reply makes no sense. You already see escorts that you book and their boyfriends don’t pay for dating them.

I haven’t booked an escort in a long time. I’m slowly making a transition to develop genuine relationships with women one more time. If all fails, then seeing escorts will be my last resort again. I’m challenging myself to meet beautiful women without giving them money.

There is nothing different here except the hypothetical situation is an escort approaching in person versus you looking at their website or reading about them on terb and choosing to book them.

The disrespectful part about this situation is that the escort is going out of her way in a civilian environment to get you as a client. You know that’s not proper business etiquette. Because last time I checked, it’s unprofessional for escorts to contact their clients unless if the clients are trying to schedule an appointment.

Clients contact the escorts first. Not the other way around.

 

[LC18]

The disrespectful part about this situation is that the escort is going out of her way in a civilian environment to get you as a client. You know that’s not proper business etiquette. Because last time I checked, it’s unprofessional for escorts to contact their clients unless if the clients are trying to schedule an appointment.

Clients contact the escorts first. Not the other way around.

I am going to give you a little bit of context, I am in no way trying to convince you but I felt like you deserved a bit of clarification.


You are comfortably seated at the bar of an upscale lounge, enjoying your favorite drink. Casual conversation flows between you and the bartender, discussing about mundane things. Suddenly, a stunning woman enters the room with a captivating smile, taking a seat right beside you. Her alluring fragrance fills the air, complementing her impeccable appearance, and you can't help but feel drawn to her presence. The urge to engage in conversation becomes irresistible, and you gather the courage to ask for her phone number. She then tells you that she's for hire.


Would you take on the offer or walk away?



*Side note: she hasn't approached you directly, she was just minding her business and you happened to notice her.

 

[hard dick tony]

I haven’t booked an escort in a long time. I’m slowly making a transition to develop genuine relationships with women one more time. If all fails, then seeing escorts will be my last resort again. I’m challenging myself to meet beautiful women without giving them money.

Oh right, I remember your other discussions you started. You're the dude who posts about dating your type of lady that was previously escorts or strippers but suddenly now you think you have game/charm/ability to date one. Good luck with that.

The disrespectful part about this situation is that the escort is going out of her way in a civilian environment to get you as a client. You know that’s not proper business etiquette. Because last time I checked, it’s unprofessional for escorts to contact their clients unless if the clients are trying to schedule an appointment.

Clients contact the escorts first. Not the other way around.

#1 - What LC18 said above.

#2 - The only disrespectful part here is how naïve or simply clueless you are that escorts can conduct their business anyway they want and the 'rules' you speak of is only what you are comfortable with. Worse yet, you have written about your attempts to pursue converting a professional connection with a lady into a dating opportunity, oh the irony Tashki to see you of all people posting like this.

 

[Tashki]

I am going to give you a little bit of context, I am in no way trying to convince you but I felt like you deserved a bit of clarification.


You are comfortably seated at the bar of an upscale lounge, enjoying your favorite drink. Casual conversation flows between you and the bartender, discussing about mundane things. Suddenly, a stunning woman enters the room with a captivating smile, taking a seat right beside you. Her alluring fragrance fills the air, complementing her impeccable appearance, and you can't help but feel drawn to her presence. The urge to engage in conversation becomes irresistible, and you gather the courage to ask for her phone number. She then tells you that she's for hire.


Would you take on the offer or walk away?



*Side note: she hasn't approached you directly, she was just minding her business and you happened to notice her.

It’s a no for me.

Worse yet, you have written about your attempts to pursue converting a professional connection with a lady into a dating opportunity, oh the irony Tashki to see you of all people posting like this.

Can you send the link to the post where I exactly said this?