Unless you're brutally ugly (I doubt it) and from that she could instantly decide if you are a yes/no at first meeting, isn't sharing the meal/discussion with you supposed to help her decide if you two are in any way compatible beyond looks? Sounds like she did just that. Why do you see it as time wasting?
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you kinda have to be firm on insisting that first meet is only drinks or coffee. If they want dinner they should be okay with a video call prior to meet. My current position on this is: I am not sitting for an hour long dinner with a complete stranger just based on her filtered pics.
PS - I have been asked to bring $300 to dinner too
it was explained to me that this would be for the privilege to be seen with "a young lady" and "to make sure you are not wasting her time". You have to protect yourself and be able to establish boundaries much like women establish theirs.
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Yes, usually I do only have a drink or coffee. This instance was my bad.
I also get requests for $200 to meet for coffee. I don't know where these girls get that shit from. Girl deleted her profile a few days later .... I guess she was told to get lost by several men.
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I also get requests for $200 to meet for coffee. I don't know where these girls get that shit from. Girl deleted her profile a few days later .... I guess she was told to get lost by several men.
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I can’t believe how gullible some guys can be who think ladies always have the best intentions and there’s always something wrong with us guys,and I’m talking about you Mr. Wick. SA is a cesspool of time wasters, scammers, opportunists, entitled women and a few gems here and there. From Ukrainians who supposedly just arrived in town but she’s never available to meet,always sending you unsolicited pics, videos and all of a sudden there’s some emergency and she needs your help with money, to Asians or Russians who are jewellers from Toronto or lived in TO but currently are in NYC for a biz course or a convention and the first thing they asked you it’s your Telegram or WhatsApp numbers, to the girls who want deposits or Uber money bc they had so many time wasters, to the ones who want ppm,allowance and to be wined and dined just to get to know you and get comfortable to be intimate after a few dates,…… and most recently are the ones who just want free dinner and drinks and at the end of the dinner they realize that you’re not compatible or she’s not attracted to you which in reality she was there just for free dinner and drinks, I know that because it happened to me to. Recently when I called out a girl on her scam and blocked her she told me she had screenshotted my photos and she’s going to post my photos on Reddit as a child molester. So please be careful guys.
Having said all those things I have met a few gems albeit all on the expensive side that has kept me on SA for now.
If it’s tgtbt the chances are it is and take everything they tell you with a grain of salt.
When I hear those childish threats I can’t help but wonder if you were speaking with an adult.
This woman is no Sugar. Even the kitchen staff tried to make him pay for her kids meal. WTF is wrong with people like some kind of entitlement syndrome going around. I am going to blame the divorce courts on this or the Gov't.
Lots of scammers out there for sure but, at the same time, if you decide to engage in an SB relationship and commodify sex and interpersonal time then you can only expect some SBs to drive hard bargains for the price of their commodity. They’d be stupid not to. For some of them, they are not strategic and price themselves out of the market or, alternatively, they price high and wait until the biggest sucker ponies up. This is just capitalism 101. It is not charity.
re - scammers - 2 SBs - 2 messages in -"I don't usually use this platform to chat, so I can add a What's or Telegram number to facilitate contact"
Gotta pay attention to recent login ( below SB profile photo ) - Brazil . And I got a WhatsApp message from 323 a Los Angeles area code.
Gotta pay attention to recent login ( below SB profile photo ) - Brazil . And I got a WhatsApp message from 323 a Los Angeles area code.
Its a growing trend, they think they time is being wasted so to circumvent this, they ask for $ to weed the SD's out. You either accept it or move on to the next one.
If the SB is worth it to you.. then it shouldn't be a big deal, otherwise you are in the wrong area and should just still to the other side or the road (SP).
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If they don't have a local number to your area code, its block/delete and move on.
I travel a lot for work and if I here the SB also travels a lot, then the SB is on the wrong platform.
Been burned by this more than once, its a scam for easy money. Meet, cough up cash, and the date is over, goodbye
1. I have no idea what this SB is worth to me until I met her
2. this puts the SD in a vulnerable position since for all he knows ALL that that "SB" does is collecting money and free food. Maybe she does 20 meets a months at $200 a pop and she nets a healthy $4,000 tax free and a smaller grocery bill which is more than an average person makes working 8 hrs a day AND she gets to tell herself that she is not a whore or whatever.
Or she is a toe dipper, or whatever the fuck.
3. It presumes that my time is worth less than her time, which is incorrect and insulting.
4. It presumes that I benefit from a convo with a chick who I don't get to fuck because she is young or whatever, so it should not be free for me. In fact I would rather not meet a woman who I don't get to fuck because it's an obvious waste of time.
No forum for SB reviews. If you find a gem, you are not going to share.
If you come across scammers it might be helpful.
As far as actual reviews of dating and sexual experience it’s going to be a BIG YMMV. There are also privacy issues that would make such a forum very creepy.
At best pm’s with other active members might be interesting.
After reading this post I’m very interested in subscribing. Seeking is very expensive for a dating site, although I guess it’s not just any dating site lol.
The membership fee is the least expensive part of the whole experience.
We have a winner ! What I offered was far too low . From a cute , but not DDG, 28 yr old mommy - "My last SD gave me 4x $1250 advance for the month . "
Some tips I would like to share.
First check the background of pics posted.
- too many vacation pics or exotic locations move on
- look for local landmarks in pics ie: CN Tower, Streetcars/Buses, etc.
- Do google pic searches of posted pics, some will link to sites such as Linkedin, etc.
- Be aware of label whores, too many high end labels in pics...red flag
Look where she logs in from. Out of the country either looking for another SD while with another SD on a trip or a scammer.
On seeking.com check out her wish list what her are tastes like. Too many high end brands or asking for the world another red flag.
Also see how long they have been on the site. Longer on the site more likely a pro, on the other hand she may have been around the block and knows the game and is straight up. Use big head to determine.
Don't go for the dolled up bimbos they are usually pros, may not be full-time escorts but may be full-time SBs looking for a whale.
Look for GND and those that seem down to earth. It may cost you a dinner to find out what they are all about, but at least that dinner may be more enjoyable than spending a few hours with a total airhead.
Also if she says she is a student ask where and what she is studying, then research where on campus her classes would be and ask how she likes classes in building such and such. If she has no clue what you are talking about, she doesn't go there.
Also run away from any girl that posts pics from a stripclub lockerroom. Takeout prices with a premium is what she is looking for.
First check the background of pics posted.
- too many vacation pics or exotic locations move on
- look for local landmarks in pics ie: CN Tower, Streetcars/Buses, etc.
- Do google pic searches of posted pics, some will link to sites such as Linkedin, etc.
- Be aware of label whores, too many high end labels in pics...red flag
Look where she logs in from. Out of the country either looking for another SD while with another SD on a trip or a scammer.
On seeking.com check out her wish list what her are tastes like. Too many high end brands or asking for the world another red flag.
Also see how long they have been on the site. Longer on the site more likely a pro, on the other hand she may have been around the block and knows the game and is straight up. Use big head to determine.
Don't go for the dolled up bimbos they are usually pros, may not be full-time escorts but may be full-time SBs looking for a whale.
Look for GND and those that seem down to earth. It may cost you a dinner to find out what they are all about, but at least that dinner may be more enjoyable than spending a few hours with a total airhead.
Also if she says she is a student ask where and what she is studying, then research where on campus her classes would be and ask how she likes classes in building such and such. If she has no clue what you are talking about, she doesn't go there.
Also run away from any girl that posts pics from a stripclub lockerroom. Takeout prices with a premium is what she is looking for.
