Hiring a surrogate to carry your biological child.

simp2000

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Has anyone had any experience hiring a surrogate to sire your child as a single man?

What was your experience? What was the procedure like?

Did you choose a domestic surrogate here in Canada, or did you go abroad to find a surrogate?

How much did it cost? And what sort of legal loopholes did you have to jump through as a single man?

I would also like for the lawyers practicing family law on this forum to chime in if they have any tips in order to make this as seamless as possible.
 
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John Wick

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As a simp, shouldn't you be carrying her child? 😉
 

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As a horny young man, it begs the question - I wonder if I have surrogates that carried any of my offspring. :unsure:
 
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If you do surrogacy outside Canada
9/10 outta 10 you will be paying the surrogate monthly I believe

In Canada you cannot legally pay a surrogate. They can get reimbursed but that's about it

Next if one wants surrogate another options is going through the route of asking friends or family to carry a child .


Another thought I have is would you be going through anonymous egg donation as well ? Because that would be another aspect to think about
 
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I used to post casual encounter ads on Craigslist and one of the responses I received was from someone who claimed that she and her husband were looking to start a family but were having issues due to his low fertility so they were seeking someone to donate sperm ... as nature intended.

A quick reverse image revealed that they were "borrowing" images from a couple who produce amateur cuckold porn, Google "Milf Becca". They're also on Reddit as u/youngtexascouple. I have to admit, considering what they were proposing, stealing images of people who produce that type of content was a nice touch and they were using more creativity than the usual assortment of spammers/scammers, pic collectors, time wasters and predatory gays I typically received responses from.

Something else that set off my bullshit alarm was their claim that they live in Vaughan. If you can afford a house there, you can afford even barebones fertility treatments. And if buying a house has left you so broke that you have to turn to "alternative" methods to get pregnant, then maybe you should get your savings built up a little more before you start a family.

I also realize that if they had been a real couple and I had gone through with it, I would have likely been thoroughly screened, tested and had to met them a couple times before the wife and I spent naked fun times together. But, starting a family is a huge step for a married couple and I have a hard time believing that they would ask some random stranger they met online, on Craigslist no less, to father their children. Yes, I would basically just be a sperm donor, it would just be taking a more ... direct approach but at the same time, why not turn to someone they knew if it wouldn't make things too awkward.

I also get that there may have been an element of cuckoldry involved, more on that in a minute. Maybe the husband wanted the shame and humiliation of knowing that he would be raising another man's children, someone his wife hooked-up with via a site as sketchy as CL no less. But, again, why not turn to someone they knew, one of the wife's boyfriends or, and I know this term is frowned on, their "bull" if they had one. Hell, the husband could have been on hand for the children's conception. This also threw up a lot of red flags since they would have been making their children a part of their kink. If I had gotten even a whiff of that had it been a real offer and not an attempt to get me to sign up for a Adult Friend Finder clone or get a pic of my dick, not only would I have said no, I also would have alerted CPS, "They don't have kids yet but you might want to keep an eye on these two!"

And before I went through with something like this, I would need an iron-clad, legally binding agreement, and I would have to actually meet the lawyer who signed off on it, where the husband acknowledged that this was happening with his knowledge, approval and enthusiastic consent. Because if they got divorced and it got messy, he could just say, "The kids aren't mine and I can prove it!" And as the bio-dad, guess who's on the hook for child support?

It also could have been a long game con but for something like that, they would have to count on the person being really naïve and not questioning anything because if that's me, I'm asking for actual proof that they're getting divorced and the husband is claiming that the kids aren't his. Hence why I would ask for a legally-binding document wherein the husband acknowledged that he was aware of what was happening, it was happening with his consent and I was just a sperm donor.
 

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My coworker did this for her brother and his wife. It blew my mind. I also think it caused her marital problems...
I'm dead serious I know of a similar situation in which the brother and his wife had their embryo carried by the sister. I wonder if it's the same people? I don't think this is common at all. From what my mom told me the brother was so grateful he basically kisses his sister's ass now. My mom didn't state it that way because she's older and that term doesn't really exist in our culture but that's what it sounded like to me. The guy probably isn't whipped but from what I was told it definitely brought the brother and sister closer together.


If you do surrogacy outside Canada

9/10 outta 10 you will be paying the surrogate monthly I believe

Another thought I have is would you be going through anonymous egg donation as well ? Because that would be another aspect to think about
I was corresponding with a fertility doctor from India and he told me that I could have an egg donor from a European woman that would be fertilized with my sperm and that an Indian surrogate would carry the fetus to term. That sort of fell through because India started cracking down on the surrogate industry. That was the route I was going but I really didn't have the finances to bankroll the procedure at the time, but now that I have the resources India seems to be more strict about it. My other concern would be if the child is born in India then how would they obtain Canadian citizenship? A law passed around ten years ago no longer lets Canadians pass down citizenship if their child is born abroad unless they - the parents - were born here. I'm surprised that a lot of citizens born abroad don't know this and they are completely shocked to learn this when their child is born in a foreign country.


I used to post casual encounter ads on Craigslist and one of the responses I received was from someone who claimed that she and her husband were looking to start a family but were having issues due to his low fertility so they were seeking someone to donate sperm ... as nature intended.
I have also looked into this, there are a lot of groups on social media for people looking for "sperm donors" so that they don't have to pay huge amounts of money. Like you stated one of my main concerns would be legal action and then having some stranger taking legal action for child support. But in this case, it's not about having random offspring with strangers, I would like to have a child to raise and hopefully leave the assets I have accumulated to someone that is close to me. I wouldn't want to leave everything so that the government can take it for itself. I considered leaving my assets to my nieces and nephews but they're already spoiled.
 
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Seriously? This is one step removed from "incels" and MGTOW's "artificial wombs" bullshit.
 

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Why are people desperate to have kids? If you can't have any, then just don't! Chill and enjoy a low cost life. There's a reason mother nature doesn't want you having kids. Don't fight mother nature! Evolution doesn't want either yours or your partner's genes being passed on. Stop trying. Go on a vacation.
 

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I'm adding an edit here. The first five comments were positive and understanding, if you don't have anything positive to say or to contribute to having a child through surrogacy please do not reply.

Seriously? This is one step removed from "incels" and MGTOW's "artificial wombs" bullshit.
I don't know what those acronyms mean but I'm sure if I was a blonde chick with a huge rack trying to have a baby you would not be disparaging me.

Why are people desperate to have kids? If you can't have any, then just don't! Chill and enjoy a low-cost life. There's a reason mother nature doesn't want you to having kids. Don't fight mother nature! Evolution doesn't want either yours or your partner's genes being passed on. Stop trying. Go on a vacation.
I am not desperate to have a kid, and I"m pretty sure I can, as a matter of fact, most escorts tell me that I have a huge load after I cum on their face. I am six feet tall, I make over six figures, and I measured my cock and it's slightly over six inches. If I wanted to I could easily knock up some 304, not to mention if I went to some third-world country I could bless a whole town. If you took the time to read between the lines you would realize that I want my assets to go to my children, not to bankroll your retirement.

I can easily go back to the fatherland and sire multiple children if I want to.
 
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You can spend your money on yourself and retire early. Lol or on SPs. Or vacations. Or whatever you wanna do for fun. Passing on assets isn't the reason people should be having kids. If I had enough assets and no kids , I'd retire and spend all day Banging chicks.
 
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You can spend your money on yourself and retire early. Lol or on SPs. Or vacations. Or whatever you wanna do for fun. Passing on assets isn't the reason people should be having kids. If I had enough assets and no kids , I'd retire and spend all day Banging chicks.
I guess it depends on how many assets you have. Regardless you will probably have something left over before you croak, I'd rather leave it to my next of kin instead of some beaurocrat.
 
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This is western thinking, to be honest, no other culture is actively trying to eliminate itself. This is going off the rails, I only wanted pragmatic advice on how to hire a surrogate. I think I will ask these questions in a homosexual forum.
 
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You can spend your money on yourself and retire early. Lol or on SPs. Or vacations. Or whatever you wanna do for fun. Passing on assets isn't the reason people should be having kids. If I had enough assets and no kids , I'd retire and spend all day Banging chicks.
I will give you credit, more guys should put their own happiness as a priority instead of someone else.
 
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This is western thinking, to be honest, no other culture is actively trying to eliminate itself. This is going off the rails, I only wanted pragmatic advice on how to hire a surrogate. I think I will ask these questions in a homosexual forum.
Turkey baster.
 
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Akila Besos

Another thought I was having regarding your desire for a child

Since you were looking into having an Indian gestational surrogate, couldn't you fly that women over for atleast the last 2-3 months ? So that way the baby would be born on Canadian soil. Which would allow it Canadian citizenship

I have personally known of alot of individuals who have gone that route
 

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I like to hire a woman to carry my child if only
I can tell in advance how likely I will succeed
in one shot to impregnate her.
 

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Another thought I was having regarding your desire for a child

Since you were looking into having an Indian gestational surrogate, couldn't you fly that women over for atleast the last 2-3 months ? So that way the baby would be born on Canadian soil. Which would allow it Canadian citizenship

I have personally known of alot of individuals who have gone that route
I thought about that but she could easily change her mind once she gets here and then I would get stuck paying child support and possibly alimony. So no.
 
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Please tell me you're a troll and this is just a bait post.

This drivel almost feels like it could become the new "US Marine sniper with over 300 confirmed kills" copy pasta.

I am not desperate to have a kid, and I"m pretty sure I can, as a matter of fact, most escorts tell me that I have a huge load after I cum on their face. I am six feet tall, I make over six figures, and I measured my cock and it's slightly over six inches. If I wanted to I could easily knock up some 304, not to mention if I went to some third-world country I could bless a whole town. If you took the time to read between the lines you would realize that I want my assets to go to my children, not to bankroll your retirement.

I can easily go back to the fatherland and sire multiple children if I want to.
Add the "MuH wEsTeRn SoCiEtY!!!" nonsense to it and you wonder why you come across as sounding like an "incel". Oh, and you don't know what that and "MGTOW" means? Let me tell you about a little something called "Google", it's what's called a 'search engine" that people use to look things up, like words and acronyms. But, you're a TERB member, doing something like running a simple search is likely beyond your limited grasp.
 
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