I knew this chick at university, never asked her out because she was extremely shy and quiet and her English wasn't very good. I never knew if she just didn't like me much or if again quiet.
Once I suggested going to the campus bar during the day which ironically enough was the quietest place to hang out because you didn't have 100's of cattle trying to talk over each other while grazing and they didn't turn on the music. I had to push a little bit but I figured fuck it, not as if I was asking her for anal, just showing her a good place to hang. She did go, but I figured after that, that she probably wasn't interested but we still spoke often. Never saw her with another guy the whole time.
25 years later I track her down on the facebook. Although she was married a few years after grad and deeply religious [I didn't know about the jebus thing back in the day] she was slagging on her husband for being boring, and when I told her I had a thing for her, I find out she likes fat guys [which her husband wasn't] and well... I definitely got the impression if I pushed hard I could have snaked her away from hubby, but I lived 4 hours away and I had prospects much closer to home [both of them Chinese, they love me as much as white chicks are grossed out by me]. Hell at one point I told her if she ever came home to find her hubby with another girl to call me and instead of getting upset she started addressing the logistics of it like needing prenups. Alas afterwords she never responded to my message the next day and changed my status so I only saw her public posts.I sent another message a while later and it said she wasn't accepting messages so I unfriended her. I suspect I might have fucked up for reasons I won't go into.
Pity she was even hotter than Kate Micucci, kinda looked like a Chinese version of her actually but better.
I really wish I could go back in time and have a do over on that one. Forget investing in gold in 1980ish and Microsoft she was the winning lotto ticket that got away.
