How attractive do you consider yourself?

Butler1000

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So 6'3" decent shape with some dad bod, mid fifties. No wrinkles still have the hair, easygoing demeanor.

I rate myself within my age demographic a solid 7. Put on a suit(I wear them rarely but really well) and I have been approached before. So that ups me I guess.
But women reach an age and desperation sets in so gotta factor that in.....
 

NotADcotor

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Amorphous Horrors recoil at the presence of my visage. Even if I lived in Arkham Mass. there would be no Soggoth on my roof.

My ex wanted a relationship but she had no physical interest in me. Had a ONS but she was a hard score sapiosexual with a thing for suffering. Everything I say and do is automatically wrong even when it's fine when the more attractive or even mundane of the male species do it. I had one girl laugh in my face after she was telling me how awesome I was and how she was going to miss me [last week of classes] and when I suggested we could hang out... again laughter.

People are nice to me, but I attribute that to either, it's their job or basic politeness.

I get along well with cats, and nerds though. Strippers seem to remember me [even though I only go 2 or 3 times a year] and seek me out, saying I respect limits but of course once I am done spending I become as invisible as the black friend I go to the club is.

I donno, I'm 6'2, I am a fat ass but I do hold it well and I don't have any sort of weirdness like moles, zits, tentacles* whatever. However as Gene Simmonds points out if people like it, it's good and vice versa.

*Pity, if I had tentacles I'd be very successful with Japanese women.
 

SQUAD51

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A solid 5.4, with potential to reach 6.0, if i wear a scarf, a hat, pull up the collar and wear LARGE dark sunglasses.
If I lose 40 lbs I might be a 6.4.
I have a ruggedly handsome face, some say best suited for radio and podcasts! (think of a blend of Rodney Dangerfield, Ernest Borgnine and Anthony Quinn, but with a less symmetrical features!)
Usually, I am the last guy to get any attention at the weekend dances at the CNIB.
Hair dressers call me sweetie.

I'm THAT handsome.
 

NotADcotor

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If you had testicles you would be very successful with White women. lol:)
I do and, no I am not. Oddly enough based on POF I clean up with 40 and 50 somethings who were born and raised in China. White chicks, not at all.

Also I am very outgoing, so what, are you suggesting I ignore issues of concent and revulsion and do the rape? No, not going to go there.
 

Robert Mugabe

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I do and, no I am not. Oddly enough based on POF I clean up with 40 and 50 somethings who were born and raised in China. White chicks, not at all.

Also I am very outgoing, so what, are you suggesting I ignore issues of concent and revulsion and do the rape? No, not going to go there.
I meant psychological ballz. but you knew that. Our dating options are similar. so we are both doing something wrong. Missing the boat in my case.
 

eddie kerr

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for my age I say a genourous 3.7 for me. But I do have a full time job and a reliable pickup truck, lol. Most dudes who think in their own mind they're 9/10 are fake, have no substance and will cheat on their SO's.
Way back in the day in my mid 20s, I felt that I was maybe a little better looking than average, however, I have been surprised a few times by comments from girls that I dated, one beautiful girlfriend told me "You are very sexy looking" another who I had dated briefly but lost contact with for over 2 years, bumped into each other and she actually said "Wow, you look beautiful". Then in my 60s at a pub I regularly went to, the group of barmaids gave nicknames to some of us and I was known as the PACKAGE. Lastly, a year ago at the age of 80, an MPA who I saw a few times, and was very attractive, during a body slide said "You have a beautiful face", I know, the lights were quite dim.LOL.
 
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Robert Mugabe

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Way back in the day in my mid 20s, I felt that I was maybe a little better looking than average, however, I have been surprised a few times by comments from girls that I dated, one beautiful girlfriend told me "You are very sexy looking" another who I had dated briefly but lost contact with for over 2 years, bumped into each other and she actually said "Wow, you look beautiful". Then in my 60s at a pub I regularly went to, the group of barmaids gave nicknames to some of us and I was known as the PACKAGE. Lastly, a year ago at the age of 80, an MPA who I saw a few times, and was very attractive, during a body slide said "You have a beautiful face", I know, the lights were quite dim.LOL.
Good for you for kickin it still.
 

y2kmark

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I actually appreciate everyone's honesty here. Not just a bunch of dude's calling themselves 9 or 10/10.

I did however forget to mention I have an 11.5" penis.
Of course you do 🤣 ...
 

RichardG2020

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I’ve never had an issue with female companionship pre-hobbying days, so I guess I’m at least moderately attractive.

Understandably, I’m not as physically attractive as I was in my prime - as I am not as fit looking, probably shrunk in height by an inch, and my skin doesn’t have that same youthful glow.

However, I dress well, drive a nice car, am successful in business, and have a different kind of confidence that comes through wisdom and lived experience.

I may not be pulling the college coeds anymore, but the ladies who are in their late 20’s and into their 30’s seem to like me more now versus me 10 - 15 years ago.
 
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