If this kid's parents were abusive and beat the crap out of them for whatever reason, how could they ever find help if the student counsellor had to report their meetings to the parents?
If the parents are abusive that has to be dealt with first and foremost.
You can use that as an excuse for anything the child wants to keep from his parents.
Doesn't give you the right to exclude all parents from important issues in the kid's life.
I know that it's not perfect, but your solution is insane. Nothing is perfect, parents aren't perfect, kids aren't perfect.
Most kids don't even know how their parents will react, they fear the worst, I get it's really uncomfortable to deal with, so are a lot of other things, so the default position is to kick the parents out?
The parents have a right to know, they are responsible for everything about that kid. That trump's the kid's right to keep it from his parents.
It amazes me you can only see it from the kid's view, I'm not saying this to offend you, but that is so immature.