I’d give myself a 6 or 7 for my age. Decent shape and active, I try to eat fairly healthy and stay away from the fast food and crap, but not always successful and a bit of Dad Bod has crept in since my mid 50’s. I always stay well groomed which to me makes a huge difference in self confidence and attractiveness. I’ll always get decent hair cut while I’m lucky enough to still have some, and keep the beard trimmed and soft.
I know it’s cliche and some guys won’t believe it, but unless you’re some kind of ogre your personality has way more influence on the ladies.
The ladies I’ve asked all tell me the following is true: The best rule with women, as with life in general, is Don‘t Be A Dick! Be nice, be considerate and be a good listener and you’re more attractive in the long run than the gym bro who’s a complete asshole.
He’s likely got a tiny dick anyway
