Why do you continue seeing sp if you are happy with your marriage and sex life?

[coolmanfever]

For married men here. Why do you continue seeing sp if you are happy with your marriage and sex life?

For me it is more for variety and excitment of meeting someone new and different every session ad fantasy. I know every session will not last.

 

[jalimon]

Is there such thing as a men perfectly happy in marriage and sex life?

I mean yes first few years are great. After that hum...

You go to vacation down south every year and you see all these 20 year old girl showing their ass on the beach and suddenly think... Hum why not? I could put my dick in such cutie as well for fuck sake. We live only once

 

[MrMessi]

Is there such thing as a men perfectly happy in marriage and sex life?

I mean yes first few years are great. After that hum...

You go to vacation down south every year and you see all these 20 year old girl showing their ass on the beach and suddenly think... Hum why not? I could put my dick in such cutie as well for fuck sake. We live only once

Yes but you should be ok with your SO getting dicked down by Alpha males with large kebobs, it’s only fair!!

 

[Mcginn193]

Is there such thing as a men perfectly happy in marriage and sex life?

I mean yes first few years are great. After that hum...

You go to vacation down south every year and you see all these 20 year old girl showing their ass on the beach and suddenly think... Hum why not? I could put my dick in such cutie as well for fuck sake. We live only once

And that about sums it up folks! Winner winner chicken dinner

 

[krealtarron]

One of my friends from abroad is happily married with 3 kids. Loves his family. Came down to Canada and asked me to go to a strip club and enjoyed a fuck there.

When I asked him why he goes "That is marriage. This is sex.".

 

[Mcginn193]

One of my friends from abroad is happily married with 3 kids. Loves his family. Came down to Canada and asked me to go to a strip club and enjoyed a fuck there.

When I asked him why he goes "That is marriage. This is sex.".

Im just curious. You say he came down to Canada. Where'd he come down from? The North Pole? Space?

I do agree with him though. The older I get the more I realize how insane a concept manogamy is. Forever is a looooooong time. We all deserve a vacation once in a while.

 

[krealtarron]

Im just curious. You say he came down to Canada. Where'd he come down from? The North Pole? Space?

I do agree with him though. The older I get the more I realize how insane a concept manogamy is. Forever is a looooooong time. We all deserve a vacation once in a while.

Came down from 35,000ft. He was on a plane!

 

[jalimon]

Yes but you should be ok with your SO getting dicked down by Alpha males with large kebobs, it’s only fair!!

Ho no worries I really wanted my ex (with whom I have 2 kids) to go open sex relation. Did not work. Although she would have never did it with alpha male. She had class.

 

[Mcginn193]

Came down from 35,000ft. He was on a plane!

Touchee

 

[Mrboobs]

It’s not my SO, it’s me

 

[explorerzip]

You answered your own question. You can boil it down to wanting something new or exciting. Even if you have the "perfect" relationship it won't stay that way. That's why you have men with super model wives: Liz Hurley, Emily Rata, etc. and yet they still see other girls.

 

[John_Jacob]

For married men here. Why do you continue seeing sp if you are happy with your marriage and sex life?

For me it is more for variety and excitment of meeting someone new and different every session ad fantasy. I know every session will not last.

VERY VERY good question and one I'm continually asking myself the older I get.

I'm happily married, great relationship, and if she found out I was with MPs I'd be divorced, my 3 kids wouldn't talk with me ever again and I doubt many of my friends & family would choose to talk with me either. I'm vaguely curious - and really hoping I never find out - what would be more upsetting to her, the trust that I've shattered or the amount of money I've spent on, essentially, transitory nothingness.

I'd die alone like some on this site possibly will. Great....thanks little brain.

It's not, "but my wife won't do this" stuff as I'm fairly standard in what I want to do.

My thoughts are; Habits (SC & MP since 20s), addiction, poor short term versus long term thinking, the fun of figuring out someone new & what makes them tick, new conversations (as surface as they are), having someone pretend that they think I'm funny, even the smell of different pussy (even WITH their panties on) is intoxicating as I rediscovered yesterday.

 

[MrMessi]

Being single is the way to go if you know your going to cheat but i would say living a godless life and not having god consciousness is a big factor!

 

[dirtyharry555]

Men are only as faithful as their options. If you were rich and famous would you have married your current wife? Most likely not, since you would have had more options at your disposal.

 

[hockeyguy19]

I'm very happy with my sex life and marriage and because of a very healthy sex life, my wife and I decided to enhance it further and hobby together. No cheating as the other is always there and a part of it. The majority of the time its with a female SP or MP where we both indulge. On occasion, I would sit and watch her with another male which to me, is incredibly hot. Sometimes you need to give a little to take a lot.

 

[MrMessi]

I'm very happy with my sex life and marriage and because of a very healthy sex life, my wife and I decided to enhance it further and hobby together. No cheating as the other is always there and a part of it. The majority of the time its with a female SP or MP where we both indulge. On occasion, I would sit and watch her with another male which to me, is incredibly hot. Sometimes you need to give a little to take a lot.

This is the solution if you don’t want to get Divorced or wanting to live a secret life

 

[hockeyguy19]

This is the solution if you don’t want to get Divorced or wanting to live a secret life

Exactly. I don't have to hide anything. I have saved bookmarks of SP websites on mine and her computers. I've called SP's right in front of my wife. Everything is all out in the open.

 

[curr3n_c1000]

For married men here. Why do you continue seeing sp if you are happy with your marriage and sex life?

For me it is more for variety and excitment of meeting someone new and different every session ad fantasy. I know every session will not last.

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[xix]

One of my friends from abroad is happily married with 3 kids. Loves his family. Came down to Canada and asked me to go to a strip club and enjoyed a fuck there.
When I asked him why he goes "That is marriage. This is sex.".

Im just curious. You say he came down to Canada. Where'd he come down from? The North Pole? Space?

I do agree with him though. The older I get the more I realize how insane a concept manogamy is. Forever is a looooooong time. We all deserve a vacation once in a while.

Okay now I am really curious to where he came from? If it is Europe or Asia and they have it legalized there , then it is the men.

 

[xix]

You answered your own question. You can boil it down to wanting something new or exciting. Even if you have the "perfect" relationship it won't stay that way. That's why you have men with super model wives: Liz Hurley, Emily Rata, etc. and yet they still see other girls.

That is because these women don't know how to have sex, and they don't laugh or cry which might create lines or wrinkles on their skin and they can't have that. Also they are told not to wrinkle or they will be out on the street.