Why I don’t give out money to panhandlers

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Was downtown Toronto; I passed a panhandler sporting a Canada Goose jacket. The full length style, thrones that cost north of $1,000. Hmmm I’m sure there is more to the story but I walked right past this person.

I thought about taking a photo but given all the violence thought better.
 

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Was downtown Toronto; I passed a panhandler sporting a Canada Goose jacket. The full length style, thrones that cost north of $1,000. Hmmm I’m sure there is more to the story but I walked right past this person.

I thought about taking a photo but given all the violence thought better.
I worked for a company that would give away these jackets because of slight production flaws. Usually donating to men and women shelters.
 

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Was downtown Toronto; I passed a panhandler sporting a Canada Goose jacket. The full length style, thrones that cost north of $1,000. Hmmm I’m sure there is more to the story but I walked right past this person.

I thought about taking a photo but given all the violence thought better.

This is an age old debate. If someone chooses not to give to pan handlers, that is fine and their decision.

Do people who make that decision not to give to pan handlers choose to give to charities that support people living on the street?

If you do neither, then I would suggest that the decision is that more based on a belief that people living on the street deserve where they are based on life decisions.

I agree that there is more to the story, but the story is more involved than a single Canada Goose jacket.

Cheers
 

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My rule…

I don’t give money to panhandlers… But I do make a donation to the shelters each year.
 

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A friend tried giving a homeless guy a McDonald's coffee card that's good for a free hot drink. Homeless guy yelled at my friend so he no longer gives anything.
Ya i used to buy lunch for them till they gave me hell. costs them money to break for lunch. my free lunch costs them 50 bucks in begging time. see the shacky lady and her condo in the sun! google it.
 
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I give money to single parents, charities, etc. I give food, clothing, toiletries to homeless. I don’t give to panhandlers.

Most panhandlers are simply beggin for money as a form of a full time job. That is it. A job. Instead actually going out to get one. If you can stand out on a street corner for 8 hrs in the rain for a dollar, you can work at Tim Hortons for $15
 

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Year ago (Late 90's) I was hiring for a plant in Etobicoke and we saw this panhandler with a sign that said unemployed need help - my coworker went up to him and offered him an interview on the spot for a full time job... he ask how much it paid and then said it wasn't enough as he makes more on EI.
 

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Year ago (Late 90's) I was hiring for a plant in Etobicoke and we saw this panhandler with a sign that said unemployed need help - my coworker went up to him and offered him an interview on the spot for a full time job... he ask how much it paid and then said it wasn't enough as he makes more on EI.
That is often it too. They are already on some type of government assistance so working would need to be claimed. They can make free money on top of cheque they already get.
 
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I try to give as much as I can - you get some bad apples who don't appreciate but that shouldn't ruin it for the rest who do appreciate what we give. You get the good, the bad and the ugly in anything and in life. I feel bad tbh - to see the journey of a person for them to get to where they are - I can't even imagine being in their shoes. What must've happen for them - that moment where it all went in another direction.
 

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Year ago (Late 90's) I was hiring for a plant in Etobicoke and we saw this panhandler with a sign that said unemployed need help - my coworker went up to him and offered him an interview on the spot for a full time job... he ask how much it paid and then said it wasn't enough as he makes more on EI.
To Claim EI, you need to have been working. So pan handling would not qualify. EI is limited to only part of a year, so the gravy train will end unless you go back to a job with a paycheck. There is a maximum for EI, which means you would have been earning about $100,00) at work to qualify for the max EI payout. Curious to know who goes from making $100,000 a year to pan handling?

Welfare is poverty living. Disability support is poverty living. Especially in the GTHA.

I don't give to pan handlers. But one story about one guy on the street who turns down an interview does not make the rule.

My opinion is, no one wants to be living on the street. Yes I made the connection between pan handling and living on the street. My opinion, again, is that most people pan handling are in trouble and need help. I choose to give to charities that support these people in the hope that the money is put to better use for more people.
 

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That is often it too. They are already on some type of government assistance so working would need to be claimed. They can make free money on top of cheque they already get.
I have seen a panhandler make $300 - $400 per day.
 

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If you do neither, then I would suggest that the decision is that more based on a belief that people living on the street deserve where they are based on life decisions.
Exactly I am sure if you don't donate for the fight against childhood cancer it's because you think the little shits deserve it.
DO you donate to senility research... yeah fuck old people.
How about every third world famine, nope, what are you racist.
What about the Society for the Prevention of Birds?

There are a million causes out there and many legitimate reasons not to give to some or even all of them.

Not my monkey, not my circus. It has nothing to do with who is deserving of their life outcomes or not.
 

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Anyone remember the “Shaky Lady”? Her son would pick her up in an expensive car at end of day and drive home to their mansion they lived in.
 
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I pick who i give to...if you're an able bodied person and some youth in you....you can obviously help yourself...if it's an elderly...I'd hand out some cash i have. I was lined up at a small Tims by Sickkids hospital a few years ago and i felt a tap on my shoulder....this guy was middle age, asking for some spare change....i told him to pick from the screen and I will buy him a full meal and he refused it told me, 5 bucks is cheaper than a full meal so why not give him that...I told him i don't have cash and will pay by card...he still refused it....checkmate...
 
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