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Hello
This is a no joke post , so please spare me from sarcasm if possible

a little bg on what got me into hobbying: then wife , ex now cheated , tried to work it out for almost 2 years , within a year i ws hobbying . plus i see this is convenient for a need based urgency , rather than spending time in meaningless chats over dates when i can use my time elsehwhere

I look very young for my age , so over past encounters some of the sps have been telling me you are too good looking for this(at least 5) ,why are you not out there picking up girls. this may have beeen a compliment but it has a demoralizing effect on me
as now i am having following thoughts
1. does SPs think social rejects come to them ?
2. am i looked down upon when i see an SP ?
3. Should you be too old or ugly to seek SP ?

its been very demoralizing for the hobby as now every time i am thinking am i too good to do this. anyone else with similar experience or moral dilemma ?
 
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limbosuper said:
Hello
This is a no joke post , so please spare me from sarcasm if possible

a little bg on what got me into hobbying: then wife , ex now cheated , tried to work it out for almost 2 years , within a year i ws hobbying . plus i see this is convenient for a need based urgency , rather than spending time in meaningless chats over dates when i can use my time elsehwhere

I look very young for my age , so over past encounters some of the sps have been telling me you are too good looking for this(at least 5) ,why are you not out there picking up girls. this may have beeen a compliment but it has a demoralizing effect on me
as now i am having following thoughts
1. does SPs think social rejects come to them ?
2. am i looked down upon when i see an SP ?
3. Should you be too old or ugly to seek SP ?

its been very demoralizing for the hobby as now every time i am thinking am i too good to do this. anyone else with similar experience or moral dilemma ?
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1. They do not think social rejects come to them. They know it as they obviously see it.

2. No. To be honest SP do not care that much down the road about men's look (thank god!). It's just a bonus for them. What matters is $$. Like one SP told me once 'a dick is a dick' ;)

3. Too old I think so. So many SP told me at some point they are uncomfortable with 70 and up. Too ugly no not at all. See point 2 ;)

My 2 cents
 
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Alpha_n_Omega said:
Humble brag much lol
I agree on your reasoning of why to hobby
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did not mean to brag , but i dont understand why an SP has to make that comment . As a matter of fact i have tried out tinder and pickup and that was a far more riskier gamble than this as long as sexual health is concerned . Most of the time with a pickup or qf we dont discuss STD checks and proper protection and cleanliness for the fear of such a comment affecting the vibe of the evening . with an SP its pretty sure she take care of her STD Checks , shes pretty clean always (reliable indies , agencies) and there is a min quality of the experience .
 
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limbosuper said:
did not mean to brag , but i dont understand why an SP has to make that comment . As a matter of fact i have tried out tinder and pickup and that was a far more riskier gamble than this as long as sexual health is concerned . Most of the time with a pickup or qf we dont discuss STD checks and proper protection and cleanliness for the fear of such a comment affecting the vibe of the evening . with an SP its pretty sure she take care of her STD Checks , shes pretty clean always (reliable indies , agencies) and there is a min quality of the experience .
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If any of us guys were able to provide these types of services to women (as in, there was an actual market for it) we'd feel the same way. The more attractive the woman we're providing services to is, the more we'll enjoy it and give an honest effort. If 9 out of every 10 women that come to us is 70 or overweight or a little unhygienic or hairy or whatever else isn't generally attractive to them, or they're rude, grabby, or demanding, then we'd get a little jaded, too. But if a 35 year old hot woman with a killer body walks in, we'd probably also question what they're doing. I would!

In addition, I'm guessing that many providers bank on being more attractive than their clients, that's pretty much the business model. Pay for something you likely couldn't otherwise experience with a woman you likely couldn't land.
 
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What I like about SP is that you let yourself have sex with women that otherwise you would never do.

Seeing SP allowed me to have sex with girl of many ethnicity, of many different body type, from young thin spinner college type to absolute bimbo porn style.

Dating or with Tinder you limit yourself to the girl you get along with. Not with SP. At least not for me.

For a long time my favorite SP had an absolute stunner body with big natural D boobs. About 3 inches taller then me. Always dressed like a sexy princess. But by god did she annoyed me haha. Swear to god sometimes I would tell her 'ok now I am going to put my dick in your mouth as I can't stand your constant complaining about everything!!' She would say something like 'you ass hole' and she would furiously blow me to completion. ;)

I did many sexual fantasies that I would have never been able to in the real world. Whatever my look ;)
 
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thedude35 said:
If any of us guys were able to provide these types of services to women (as in, there was an actual market for it) we'd feel the same way. The more attractive the woman we're providing services to is, the more we'll enjoy it and give an honest effort. If 9 out of every 10 women that come to us is 70 or overweight or a little unhygienic or hairy or whatever else isn't generally attractive to them, or they're rude, grabby, or demanding, then we'd get a little jaded, too. But if a 35 year old hot woman with a killer body walks in, we'd probably also question what they're doing. I would!

In addition, I'm guessing that many providers bank on being more attractive than their clients, that's pretty much the business model. Pay for something you likely couldn't otherwise experience with a woman you likely couldn't land.
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I agree , ive been asked many times if i was a cop just because i am buff
 
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To be frank, I dont really care what a provider thinks of me. I mean I DO care that they know am safe, that I am a good guy, that they can trust me etc.,

But I dont care that they think I am old, or fat, or ugly or handsome or whatever else. I am what I am. I see providers for fun, not because I am a social reject.

Most providers in Toronto are also women you wouldn't take a 2nd look at on the street. The reason they are so attractive is because you are seeing them in a sexy setting.

If a provider looks down on a client as pathetic, then isn't it even more pathetic to suck the dick of the pathetic guy to earn some money? So no, I dont think most of them actually think that.
 
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limbosuper said:
Hello
This is a no joke post , so please spare me from sarcasm if possible

a little bg on what got me into hobbying: then wife , ex now cheated , tried to work it out for almost 2 years , within a year i ws hobbying . plus i see this is convenient for a need based urgency , rather than spending time in meaningless chats over dates when i can use my time elsehwhere

I look very young for my age , so over past encounters some of the sps have been telling me you are too good looking for this(at least 5) ,why are you not out there picking up girls. this may have beeen a compliment but it has a demoralizing effect on me
as now i am having following thoughts
1. does SPs think social rejects come to them ?
2. am i looked down upon when i see an SP ?
3. Should you be too old or ugly to seek SP ?

its been very demoralizing for the hobby as now every time i am thinking am i too good to do this. anyone else with similar experience or moral dilemma ?
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You think too much. The girl is just making a compliment. She knows no guy wants to think that he “has to pay for it” so she tells you you are hot enough to get it for free (form someone else of course, lol). You are not “too good” to do this, you are doing it and you have your reasons. There are plenty of good looking, fit, rich guys who hobby, who could attract other women, and they hobby for various reasons.
 
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massman said:
You think too much. The girl is just making a compliment. She knows no guy wants to think that he “has to pay for it” so she tells you you are hot enough to get it for free (form someone else of course, lol). You are not “too good” to do this, you are doing it and you have your reasons. There are plenty of good looking, fit, rich guys who hobby, who could attract other women, and they hobby for various reasons.
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Men pay one way or another anyway.
 
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limbosuper said:
Hello
This is a no joke post , so please spare me from sarcasm if possible

a little bg on what got me into hobbying: then wife , ex now cheated , tried to work it out for almost 2 years , within a year i ws hobbying . plus i see this is convenient for a need based urgency , rather than spending time in meaningless chats over dates when i can use my time elsehwhere

I look very young for my age , so over past encounters some of the sps have been telling me you are too good looking for this(at least 5) ,why are you not out there picking up girls. this may have beeen a compliment but it has a demoralizing effect on me
as now i am having following thoughts
1. does SPs think social rejects come to them ?
2. am i looked down upon when i see an SP ?
3. Should you be too old or ugly to seek SP ?

its been very demoralizing for the hobby as now every time i am thinking am i too good to do this. anyone else with similar experience or moral dilemma ?
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Man, Life is tough, what a curse
 
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