Friend’s daughter on LL and OF

[Happyhomer]

I have a good buddy who is in a predicament. His 21 year old daughter is on OnlyFans and likely Leolist as an escort. He said a friend told him. I’m not sure what I would do if it was my daughter.

FYI, while she is good looking and in good shape, she definitely is not my type. I have never subscribed to OF and would never contact her. Not worth a friendship!

 

[Tashki]

His friend should have never told him. Ignorance is bliss.

 

[ISpeakSoftly]

I have a good buddy who is in a predicament. His 21 year old daughter is on OnlyFans and likely Leolist as an escort. He said a friend told him. I’m not sure what I would do if it was my daughter.

FYI, while she is good looking and in good shape, she definitely is not my type. I have never subscribed to OF and would never contact her. Not worth a friendship!

Don’t jump to conclusions. Being on OF doesn’t automatically mean she is on LL. Now that the father knows he can intervene before she gets too deep in the SW world. It’s not uncommon for girls in their early twenties to be sexually adventurous. Most will wise up before their notch count hits double digits. Heartache is a good deterrent for sexual promiscuity.

Problem is when unscrupulous individuals drag them deeper into a world sex and drugs. There’s a lot of sharks out their preying on impressionable girls. I think some agencies actually advertise/recruit on OF and SB searching for new escorts. Tinder is rife with ads for escorts.

 

[Kaalia]

Why are you here to consume SW if you look down on it?

So long as she's being safe, why do you or anyone else care? It's her body, her choice. Would you honestly rather she work in fast food - or any retail job - where customers regularly abuse the staff and managers are often abusive as well? Why is that better than being her own boss and choosing who she has to deal with, with strong boundaries?

TL;DR Leave her alone. Tell her parent(s) to be supportive. Because if something DOES go wrong, she should feel safe talking to her parent(s), instead of having to hide it out of shame.

 

[ISpeakSoftly]

Why are you here to consume SW if you look down on it?

So long as she's being safe, why do you or anyone else care? It's her body, her choice. Would you honestly rather she work in fast food - or any retail job - where customers regularly abuse the staff and managers are often abusive as well? Why is that better than being her own boss and choosing who she has to deal with, with strong boundaries?

TL;DR Leave her alone. Tell her parent(s) to be supportive. Because if something DOES go wrong, she should feel safe talking to her parent(s), instead of having to hide it out of shame.

I‘m giving advice to a father. Yes, SW is a choice for some but others may be better suited for other lifestyles. Completely stupid advice to tell a father to look the other way.

Remember it is his kid and it is his right to intervene. Not all of us have/had fathers that are willing and able to act like a real father.

 

[ISpeakSoftly]

Why are you here to consume SW if you look down on it?

So long as she's being safe, why do you or anyone else care? It's her body, her choice. Would you honestly rather she work in fast food - or any retail job - where customers regularly abuse the staff and managers are often abusive as well? Why is that better than being her own boss and choosing who she has to deal with, with strong boundaries?

TL;DR Leave her alone. Tell her parent(s) to be supportive. Because if something DOES go wrong, she should feel safe talking to her parent(s), instead of having to hide it out of shame.

And seriously you are comparing the effects of SW to the effects of fast food industry work? Read what one of your peers wrote about the effects of being a hooker: https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/effects-of-being-a-hooker.800146/

 

[Tashki]

Remember it is his kid and it is his right to intervene.

What right? She’s a grown ass woman.

 

[buttercup]

Why are you here to consume SW if you look down on it?

So long as she's being safe, why do you or anyone else care? It's her body, her choice. Would you honestly rather she work in fast food - or any retail job - where customers regularly abuse the staff and managers are often abusive as well? Why is that better than being her own boss and choosing who she has to deal with, with strong boundaries?

TL;DR Leave her alone. Tell her parent(s) to be supportive. Because if something DOES go wrong, she should feel safe talking to her parent(s), instead of having to hide it out of shame.

If parental love is not unconditional, it's not love at all. There was an episode of Line of Duty where a mentally-challenged youth, brought up by his granny, was accused of rape and murder. She told him, "Even if you've done what they say, I will always love you". I've regarded that as the most iconic statement of unconditional love. And your post, Kaalia, is right up there. There is nothing your kids can do that should or could disqualify them from your love and support.

 

[ISpeakSoftly]

What right? She’s a grown ass woman.

Unless the father is six feet under, it is his right to intervene. That’s what I am saying. And she has the right to not participate in the father’s intervention.

Don’t get your knickers in a knot.

 

[Kaalia]

If parental love is not unconditional, it's not love at all. There was an episode of Line of Duty where a mentally-challenged youth, brought up by his granny, was accused of rape and murder. She told him, "Even if you've done what they say, I will always love you". I've regarded that as the most iconic statement of unconditional love. And your post, Kaalia, is right up there. There is nothing your kids can do that should or could disqualify them from your love and support.

Where did I say anything about unconditional love?

 

[Kaalia]

I‘m giving advice to a father. Yes, SW is a choice for some but others may be better suited for other lifestyles. Completely stupid advice to tell a father to look the other way.

Remember it is his kid and it is his right to intervene. Not all of us have/had fathers that are willing and able to act like a real father.

You realise nearly all SW have fathers, right? So you're openly stating that nearly every advertiser on here should have to answer to their parent(s), despite being adults who can make their own choices about their own bodies. You have a really fucked up view of consent if you think my father is a bad father because he respects my bodily autonomy.

Just curious, do you think the same about all the women on tinder who are seeing different guys every week? Or is it just women to capitalise on what men think they deserve for free that you have these views?

 

[glamphotographer]

Links?

 

[Kaalia]

And seriously you are comparing the effects of SW to the effects of fast food industry work? Read what one of your peers wrote about the effects of being a hooker: https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/effects-of-being-a-hooker.800146/

Yep, I am comparing the act of consensual sex on my own schedule to being screamed at and having things thrown at me while my manager reminds me frequently that I have no say in my schedule and am obligated to continue to hold a smile while customers abuse me and I have to choose between taking a sick day and paying rent.

Also, that's one post that doesn't echo the lived experiences of all, or even most, workers. And honestly, between that post and the others I've seen from that person, she's hates her job and is likely a misandrist. So I'm not taking that post as a blanket that applies to everyone.

 

[Spunky1]

Links?

I'm willing to TOFTT and report back.

 

[princekwekua]

I have a good buddy who is in a predicament. His 21 year old daughter is on OnlyFans and likely Leolist as an escort. He said a friend told him. I’m not sure what I would do if it was my daughter.

With a friend like that ....

 

[Ghbff]

Why are you here to consume SW if you look down on it?

So long as she's being safe, why do you or anyone else care? It's her body, her choice. Would you honestly rather she work in fast food - or any retail job - where customers regularly abuse the staff and managers are often abusive as well? Why is that better than being her own boss and choosing who she has to deal with, with strong boundaries?

TL;DR Leave her alone. Tell her parent(s) to be supportive. Because if something DOES go wrong, she should feel safe talking to her parent(s), instead of having to hide it out of shame.

Being a hooker on Leolist at the moment isn’t what I’d define as “safe” or “being her own boss”

 

[princekwekua]

I have a good buddy who is in a predicament. His 21 year old daughter is on OnlyFans and likely Leolist as an escort. He said a friend told him. I’m not sure what I would do if it was my daughter.

FYI, while she is good looking and in good shape, she definitely is not my type. I have never subscribed to OF and would never contact her. Not worth a friendship!

I know an ex stripper who made minimum $500 a shift tax free. Plus she sold explicit pictures and videos (this was before OF). I still have mine lol. Owned two fully paid condos. Got her real estate license. Quit dancing at 30 and is a fully fledged millionaire. Travels all the time to exotic locations. Not bad for a high school graduate. Your friend's daughter could be on a more lucrative and more satisfying career path

 

[kherg007]

If she's of the age of consent it's her business. Sometimes as parents we have to realise at some point we have to respect their autonomy. I can hope and wish, but she has to accept the responsibility and consequences and ups and downs.

 

[dirtyharry555]

You should book her and bang her to confirm that she's utilizing safe sex practices. That's what a real friend would do.

 

[ISpeakSoftly]

You realise nearly all SW have fathers, right? So you're openly stating that nearly every advertiser on here should have to answer to their parent(s), despite being adults who can make their own choices about their own bodies. You have a really fucked up view of consent if you think my father is a bad father because he respects my bodily autonomy.

Just curious, do you think the same about all the women on tinder who are seeing different guys every week? Or is it just women to capitalise on what men think they deserve for free that you have these views?

I’m assuming you didn’t do well in high school? You’re managed to jump to some wild conclusions about what I wrote. For example, never did I say a hooker has to answer to her father or mother. Your responses are just too wild to address. You are entertaining to read - I’ll give you that. I am sure others enjoy your creativity on and off this forum.

Sex work is a choice; but not everybody has to make that choice alone. There are other forms of work that are also rewarding that aren’t abusive.