Sw respect and health

[Tohigh2fly]

Don't know where to post this but
I been seeing alot of post on Twitter and other sites of people disrespecting ottawa sw in alot of different ways

One thing I think that is the biggest disrespect is if you are sick or feel sick or not well don't go see the sw you booked where you can get her sick and others after show some respect

Also this shit of people always asking for bbbj and so on and other services people be respectful it's up to the sw but think not just of your own pleasure but your safety the sw safety and the others that she or he might see

The sw are already doing risky work as is seeing different clients so show them respect in all ways health hygiene and be safe and respectful

Also people covid is gone plus there the flu season on top and other viruses
And so let's be mindful of each other

So don't be selfish

 

[Sinfulmarv]

People do a lot of complaining on Twitter.

I agree that people should avoid compromising the health of others if sick.

I disagree that clients should not inquire about specific services. There are some providers that do not want to discuss or negotiate services for various reasons. The most common reason is control. They want to curtail client input because it is inconvenient for them. That is their prerogative.

In my view, if someone is going to spend money on a service, they have the right to make inquiries. Providers can always refuse to answer, ignore or block people.

As for services like "BBBJ," both sex workers and clients make personal decisions on this. Some people have greater tolerance for risk than others.

 

[Steve1974]

Echoing what Sinful said above. I'm sure there's the odd, or many assholes who agree upfront to restrictions, then try to coax the provider once there in person, i don't doubt it, but you aren't going to convince those people to stop being asshats.

But like Sinful mentioned, there's other providers that aren't very upfront about restrictions or even services. Not sure if theres a ton of different tweets about this topic but i specifically saw Daisy posting about this complaining that its now a norm and she's constantly being asked. But this SP noteably on here from the reviews, or lack there of:

Refuses to list services in text, email, or anything until you are there in person.
Requests people not to review her at all in any fashion, and seemingly people mostly abide by that


So if they are basically making you flip a coin or misleading about their services or restrictions, I'm confused what they expect when people ask for things that are pretty common. It sounds to me like she's just upset there is something she doesn't like doing that's offered by other competitors. Not saying its not risky to meet strangers, but in context to the fact that they chose, or at least are consenually agreeing to do this profession is on them. They would likely benefit from being upfront like alot of others are about exactly what they are offering or more importantly not offering.

 

[Tohigh2fly]

I'm not just talking that I personally think that most unprotected services are a risk just think if a sw does it with you means she does with everyone there no special treatment even if she says it there a reason why she is busy then for that reason and to behonest I don't think people go get check as often as they should to be on the safe side

Put yes it is client and sw choice I'm just stating be mindful of your health there health and the health of the ones you have at home as well

 

[Nesbot]

I'm not just talking that I personally think that most unprotected services are a risk just think if a sw does it with you means she does with everyone there no special treatment even if she says it there a reason why she is busy then for that reason and to behonest I don't think people go get check as often as they should to be on the safe side

Put yes it is client and sw choice I'm just stating be mindful of your health there health and the health of the ones you have at home as well

People know the risks and they make their own choices. We’re all adults here.

 

[Capital Amatuer]

While I don't discount the public service announcement, as Nesbot says, we're all adults here.
Education (thinking with the big head) and being alert (reading situations) is key to staying away from trouble, unless that's what you're looking for.

 

[TigerFlex5]

People know the risks and they make their own choices. We’re all adults here.

Exactly...

 

[KTDoy]

I'm not just talking that I personally think that most unprotected services are a risk just think if a sw does it with you means she does with everyone there no special treatment even if she says it there a reason why she is busy then for that reason and to behonest I don't think people go get check as often as they should to be on the safe side

Put yes it is client and sw choice I'm just stating be mindful of your health there health and the health of the ones you have at home as well

I hear you , we all just need more comma sense

 

[Gurney]

I don't understand your complains. Every one here, sp and op are adult(I hope...) so everyone can't take whatever risk they want. It is their choice.

And by the way, you can catch any kind of shit just by kissing so what ? You want peoples in that kind of business wearing a plastic bag on their head ????

About questions, if an SP or MA do not list what she/he allow/provide/comfortable with, don't know what the fuck she/he is doing in the "service" business .
Any type of business is expecting question and have to provide answers. You still can ask questions at Best Buy right ???

If you know up front, you will or won't make an appointment and every one do not waste their time...

 

[slobbyist]

If the ladies states clearly about their services and restrictions in their ad, website or thru their replies then the clients that are looking for bbbj or any specific sex acts will not contact them.

Communication work both ways.

 

[B00blover]

If the ladies states clearly about their services and restrictions in their ad, website or thru their replies then the clients that are looking for bbbj or any specific sex acts will not contact them.

Communication work both ways.

That part. I don't waste the time of ladies who state safe services only when I'm looking for bbbj. Or girls that state no greek when I'm looking for greek. I suspect howver that some ladies don't openly state their restrictions sometimes because they know it will turn some customers off. They would rather lie or dodge the question in text then bait and switch you on services. Kind of sounds like the OP is a provider of that sort lol.

 

[MaverickPunter]

Some SPs don't want services discussed because not all clients meet their desired levels of hygiene, comfort, chemistry, etc. As a client YMMV.

Putting up reviews listing x, y, and z services were provided sometimes creates customers looking for and expecting those services when the provider doesn't feel comfortable offering them. Can lead to awkwardness, hurt feelings and maybe some anger directed at the ladies. We don't want that.

Best to let the ladies discuss services, rates, restrictions etc. They deliver the services so let them set boundaries and proceed based on familiarity, comfort level, chemistry etc.

My two cents

 

[Gurney]

Some SPs don't want services discussed because not all clients meet their desired levels of hygiene, comfort, chemistry, etc. As a client YMMV.

Putting up reviews listing x, y, and z services were provided sometimes creates customers looking for and expecting those services when the provider doesn't feel comfortable offering them. Can lead to awkwardness, hurt feelings and maybe some anger directed at the ladies. We don't want that.

Best to let the ladies discuss services, rates, restrictions etc. They deliver the services so let them set boundaries and proceed based on familiarity, comfort level, chemistry etc.

My two cents

I understand and agree with two of your points, hygiene and comfort. But in that type of work, it is always a risk whatever.
PS: I do not understand guys that goes see a lady with hygiene issues and/or are drunk or something....

On the chemistry, I kinda disagree. If I make an appointment to have an haircut or leggit massage, I'm expecting the same level of service
whatever is the "chemistry" between us. I still pay for what was advertised.

If the SP/MA do not want to do, as an example here, BBBJ to guys she is not comfortable with or no chemistry, just do not
say you offer them. Then she will get guys that are not expecting it and guys will see her not expecting it. Everyone is happy.

Then after a visit or two or more she is ok with it then she can offer in person.

 

[NotADcotor]

One thing I think that is the biggest disrespect is if you are sick or feel sick or not well don't go see the sw you booked where you can get her sick and others after show some respect

And lose a deposit? If I was a deposit guy, I think I would be inclined to show up with anything short of Schistosomiasis.

 

[Nocturnal101]

Don't know where to post this but
I been seeing alot of post on Twitter and other sites of people disrespecting ottawa sw in alot of different ways

One thing I think that is the biggest disrespect is if you are sick or feel sick or not well don't go see the sw you booked where you can get her sick and others after show some respect

Also this shit of people always asking for bbbj and so on and other services people be respectful it's up to the sw but think not just of your own pleasure but your safety the sw safety and the others that she or he might see

The sw are already doing risky work as is seeing different clients so show them respect in all ways health hygiene and be safe and respectful

Also people covid is gone plus there the flu season on top and other viruses
And so let's be mindful of each other

So don't be selfish

Good review.