True, here comes divorce, lawyers, depleted bank accounts and the list goes on. Sad ending for both parties.
Effects of hobbying
- Thread starter Ray_wf
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You get more excited on your payday than you should lol
Some, maybe many, no doubt fall into one of these two categories.
I fully intend to fall into a third category when all is said and done: Someone who looks back on the money I spent on many dozens of ladies as an investment in physical and mental health, and most importantly, happiness, which can be so elusive, especially for those of us hurting from a failed marriage.
I leave my heart in the car before each session, so there is absolutely no chance of any misguided illusion of romance. I take with me only a full-fledged erection.
it helps being a few years from retirement and being in good financial shape due to three decades of saving and investing. That is the main reason I advise the young ones to get out of the game or exercise self-control to avoid disaster.
I wouldn't call it hobbying. Its an addiction IMO. Although it helped me overcome my fears surrounding sex since I grew in a very conservative household. Long term wise I don't see how sustainable this is, financially and mentally. I cannot see myself doing this forever. It's not for me.
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12 years ago I saw this SP several times then invited her to come to my place for the same service but she could keep the whole money for herself instead of splitting it with the agency.
so she came a few times.
then she told me there’s 1 of her client that always came to see her through the agency but he wouldn’t have sex with her but wanted to help her get out of that business and offered her to live with him and he would support her.. which she eventually did!
he bought her a new car and she moved in with him!
fast forward 10 years later I messaged her and went for a coffee with her like old friends and they actually have 2 kids now and are still married….
i guess she beat the odds
so she came a few times.
then she told me there’s 1 of her client that always came to see her through the agency but he wouldn’t have sex with her but wanted to help her get out of that business and offered her to live with him and he would support her.. which she eventually did!
he bought her a new car and she moved in with him!
fast forward 10 years later I messaged her and went for a coffee with her like old friends and they actually have 2 kids now and are still married….
i guess she beat the odds
imagine you spend those $250/300 and treat a girl for diner! you'll get laid all night long and not just 1 hour.Damn this really hits home. I'm 30 and I've never had a serious GF before. I thought this hobby would help me with my confidence around women but I realized a while back that it didn't do shit and now I'm too dependent on SPs. Hell having sex with SPs has gotten boring to me now because there's no genuine attraction from the women.
Unfortunately, the envy grows every year that you're alone. I see not only friends but strangers out and about, seemingly happy, and long for the days when I was married and feeling the same. But I also accept the blame for not putting in a concerted effort to find someone and believing, right or wrong, that it would just end in shambles like my previous relationship.
Sounds good in theory. But many can't get to the first stage of asking the girl out, or even conversing with her, so seeing an SP is an easy alternative to being crushed by rejection.
Disappointing to hear. After a nice night out and good meal, you'd hope she'd at least accept CIM for dessert.
I would say this would be considered a life decision to chose a different path. Many providers are hard working and are supporting their families.
How many of your friends or work associates also have been through bitter divorces and battles over children? For every 1 couple that I know still in their first marriage I know 5-10 at least who are divorced, been divorced and maybe dating again. Worse yet is the couples you think are happy for years only to find out they were fake to the world and totally unhappy, trapped and then finally go through an expensive divorce. Won't even bring up how unfair family law is in Canada towards men on top of that.
Emotional Stability isn't about hobbying that the feeling you are going home alone. There is an underlining personal issue which would need to be resolved. Depression can be the barrier to form a relationship and stop feeling alone.
That’s why I feel it’s also important to have a good social life around other activities outside of mongering and work
You will eventually get bored of sport fucking. And then crave relationship pussy.... Relationship pussy is higher in quality, and a totally different kind of energy. But be careful not to confuse fantasy with civilian life.
True...true. The post I quoted he wrote about all the happy married friends with no mention of any divorced friends. Adding my 2 cents about so many divorced people both men and women who wish they never married and now in their 30s.
Marriage is a monster that preys on your instinct for companionship and the want of a little version of yourself running around. It is a deception. The odds highly favour you will divorce thus negating the companionship and limiting access to your wonderful mini you. Don’t think with your brain. Your smaller head will guide you down the path of fulfillment and enlightenment. I know it’s a negative opinion on marriage. But it’s also a positive one on your soul. So go bang some hotties and be happy!
I know I wouldn’t. If you need substantial try a Doberman Pinscher. Best companion you’ll ever have and it won’t take a shot at your personal wealth or toy with you on visitation day. Not to mention ripping your fucking heart out. It won’t do that either. As a matter of fact it will provide you with unconditional love and companionship. It can even have puppies for you and you’ll be a proud grandpa! Some might say only humans can be friends and my post is unrealistic? Nope not in my experience. Best friend I’ve ever had.
