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Effects of hobbying

SammyS

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now question is - if you find that someone to settle down and quit the hobby. Do you tell them about this or take it to the grave

OMG... take it to the grave!!!
 

JethroBodine

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Purely physical acts based on the fact you paid her. Regardless of what you tell yourself she never really wanted any of it. It’s for the money. You are still not achieving anything other than a glorified form of masterbation.
Wait, does this mean when I'm fulfilling a fantasy by having mind-blowing sex with a beauty less than half my age, which further motivates me to maintain my good physical shape into my late 50s and has done wonders for my mental health, I'm still not achieving anything?
 

Daddy2021

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Wait, does this mean when I'm fulfilling a fantasy by having mind-blowing sex with a beauty less than half my age, which further motivates me to maintain my good physical shape into my late 50s and has done wonders for my mental health, I'm still not achieving anything?
Not based an her wanting you. No you haven’t. Now if you had met her and charmed her into bed with you based on your own merit and none of that based on financial gain for her then absolutely! Way to go pal!!! But the truth is you along with several men a day just paid fir a sexual experience to which you mean nothing other to her then money. She’s most likely rolling her eyes at you when you can’t see and counting down to the second you leave. If not for that fact of money it would not have happed.
 

Tashki

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Purely physical acts based on the fact you paid her. Regardless of what you tell yourself she never really wanted any of it. It’s for the money. You are still not achieving anything other than a glorified form of masterbation.
Sorry but your logic and reasoning makes no sense to me what so ever and probably to many other people.

With that logic I guess employees of companies would have to work for free to get a more productive outcome. Right?

Your premise of the argument was we’re not “actually fucking” then your next point was we’re having sex….

“fucking” and “having sex” mean the exact same thing so it looks like your argument is contradicting and it reads like you are trying to twist and turn the true definition of fucking to support your argument. It doesn’t matter the reasoning why someone decides to have to sex with somebody. fucking is still happening whether it’s paid or not.
 
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Tashki

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But the truth is you along with several men a day just paid fir a sexual experience to which you mean nothing other to her then money. She’s most likely rolling her eyes at you when you can’t see and counting down to the second you leave. If not for that fact of money it would not have happed.
Why would we care? 🤣 We’re just trying to get our nut.
 
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6ixmanofyear

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Hello there, as someone who's young and have quite an experience with hobbying, how do you this affects relationships later down the line? Any guys here who used to hobby but settled down after? I guess they wouldn't be lurking here. Just a thought. It's just so damn easy to see these wonderful girls

don’t do it, I was youngish (25) when I started, this shit has ruined me mentally, wait until your inevitable first divorce to fool around with sps.

I have put my real hobbies aside, because I can't afford everything, then you look back and see what kinda things you could've bought with all the money you wasted on sp's for an hour or two of fun, often times really bad experiences if you don't choose high quality sp's.

I got addicted to this hobby and look back and see all the cars, clothes and trips I could have bought.
Ultimately, I have missed out on real life experiences that I should have done at the age, because of the costs of this hobby.

my perspective on real life dating was changed for the worst. If a woman didn't want to sleep with my on the first date, I wouldn't pursue her anymore. When I did date women it was all about the sex, I dated women based on who fucked the best, and who was the horniest, not women who I had an emotional connection with. When all I wanted was a woman to experience life with.

I pursued career options that I wouldn't normally pursue, working Myself to death to get that next promotion, so I could see sp's more often (I have expensive taste in sp's). Life became all about money, stressing about how to make more and more money to see sp's more often, and not pursuing the careers I wanted to do.

it's a very addictive hobby, since you can have a woman sucking your dick in 30minutes without the headache of a girlfriend😂. The main difference is, the sp does not give two fucks about me, she just cares about how fat your wallet is. If you can't pay her, she's gone like the wind.

imo, if you're in your late 20's stick to strip clubs and bars. And if you have loads of money in your 20s and dress decently and have a bit of a personality, most women would get with you for free.
 

twoteeshots

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Hobbying makes you impatient for regular relationships. I posted a review earlier this year that I dated a woman for about 2 months. We had some intense groping and make out sessions but she said she wanted to take it slow... at our age (late 30s)!! I called an escort the next day and got my ass licked and blew a FAT load. I doubt that girl would've rimmed me in the near future or maybe ever. I hobby because I want to stick my dick in a warm mouth and pussy, not for affection and GFE. So as long as you know what you're hobbying for, do what you like! Just don't get attached to any of these pros.
 

Tashki

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don’t do it, I was youngish (25) when I started, this shit has ruined me mentally, wait until your inevitable first divorce to fool around with sps.

I have put my real hobbies aside, because I can't afford everything, then you look back and see what kinda things you could've bought with all the money you wasted on sp's for an hour or two of fun, often times really bad experiences if you don't choose high quality sp's.

I got addicted to this hobby and look back and see all the cars, clothes and trips I could have bought.
Ultimately, I have missed out on real life experiences that I should have done at the age, because of the costs of this hobby.

my perspective on real life dating was changed for the worst. If a woman didn't want to sleep with my on the first date, I wouldn't pursue her anymore. When I did date women it was all about the sex, I dated women based on who fucked the best, and who was the horniest, not women who I had an emotional connection with. When all I wanted was a woman to experience life with.

I pursued career options that I wouldn't normally pursue, working Myself to death to get that next promotion, so I could see sp's more often (I have expensive taste in sp's). Life became all about money, stressing about how to make more and more money to see sp's more often, and not pursuing the careers I wanted to do.

it's a very addictive hobby, since you can have a woman sucking your dick in 30minutes without the headache of a girlfriend😂. The main difference is, the sp does not give two fucks about me, she just cares about how fat your wallet is. If you can't pay her, she's gone like the wind.

imo, if you're in your late 20's stick to strip clubs and bars. And if you have loads of money in your 20s and dress decently and have a bit of a personality, most women would get with you for free.
Excellent perspective. I wonder if it’s the reverse for SPs where they only date men in their personal life if they have a fat wallet or if they abandon romantic relationships with men because they are addicted to the fast money coming in from escorting.
 
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Clean@jerk

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Not based an her wanting you. No you haven’t. Now if you had met her and charmed her into bed with you based on your own merit and none of that based on financial gain for her then absolutely! Way to go pal!!! But the truth is you along with several men a day just paid fir a sexual experience to which you mean nothing other to her then money. She’s most likely rolling her eyes at you when you can’t see and counting down to the second you leave. If not for that fact of money it would not have happed.

Why such negative views on what you do and the ladies you see?

Life is short enjoy yourself and treat the ladies right. never expect anything but have met some great ladies that have grown to having mutual respect I've even had ladies make me stay twice the booking time in the past also leave together. it's all in mindset if your are fun to be around, they might not mind seeing you.
Remember, the best things in life are what you have to work hard for that goes with relationships.

If you treat and see them as they are piece of flesh and hole they will treat you the same as an Atm

From a life episode, I got into this. And if I do get serious, I will stop.


I so hate the term Hobby what we do is not a hobby
 
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JethroBodine

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Not based an her wanting you. No you haven’t. Now if you had met her and charmed her into bed with you based on your own merit and none of that based on financial gain for her then absolutely! Way to go pal!!! But the truth is you along with several men a day just paid fir a sexual experience to which you mean nothing other to her then money. She’s most likely rolling her eyes at you when you can’t see and counting down to the second you leave. If not for that fact of money it would not have happed.
Wait, are you saying that if I ask Zara, Mindy, Angelina, Sienna, Ruby, Jillian, Quinn, Jewlz, Juno, Samantha, Sacha, Angel or Piper from HPL, Riya from DD, Azza from TDL or Diana from Mirage to marry me that they would decline?
 

Koreandater

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Nice commet ! Bout this question,

however I am single man never married I love seeing Asian only
my dream is hoping getting into relationships one of these SP of my dream/crush.
it there an way to do it or not !
I heard that once girl sell their soul and never looked back and keep working as escorts
any advice or comment bout my question say it here! Please don’t private message me !
thanks
 

Clean@jerk

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Why would you put yourself through that, not painting all Sps with the same brush, but the majority have severe underlying issues? Just like some guys have. Better to see them have fun, treat them well, and that's it. Suppose you fall for one, run away, dont see them again, work on bettering yourself, and choose to do real hobbies that involve an even mixture. You get to meet many ladies you are bound to click with one.
 

JethroBodine

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Nice commet ! Bout this question,

however I am single man never married I love seeing Asian only
my dream is hoping getting into relationships one of these SP of my dream/crush.
it there an way to do it or not !
I heard that once girl sell their soul and never looked back and keep working as escorts
any advice or comment bout my question say it here! Please don’t private message me !
thanks
No, no no, no, no! Don't even try to get into a relationship with any of these ladies. That's not what they're seeking from clients.

I would suggest an Asian dating app or site, assuming there is such a thing. If there isn't then try a regular dating app and filter for Asian ladies.
 

Bobbblitz004

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Nothing wrong with enjoying different flavors. Just be realistic about it. It’s a transaction, don’t take it home. Remember prostitution is the oldest profession. If your still on the young side go talk to some women! It’s not as scary as it seems I promise you.

-B
 

Damnthealiens

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We are hardwired to spread our genes. There is a reason we evolved to be able to produce seeds till the day we die. The social structure of Monogamy penalizes us in a way by making it very expensive to be able to do this. Hobby is a cheaper way to do what we were meant to without cheating emotionally. Don’t think of it as immoral. You were meant to do this.
 

terbcc098

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I’m pretty young. This hobby is great. Has helped save me so much time and effort. No more jumping through hoops for 4/10s for the hope of pussy. I’ve watched friends become incredibly depressed because they couldn’t get laid. Had to change their entire personality for these women. For a few hundred you can save some dignity and get what you’re really after. On top of that you don’t have to listen to the yapping and all that nonsense.

For the people saying download tinder. Don’t even make me laugh. You’re not getting matches unless you’re very attractive. That’s how the game is. A previous thread about similar things said “just go talk to her bro” lol.

Yes its fake but it feels pretty real. And remember this, everyone pays for pussy one way or another. We just pay for it outright.

Most of the responders here are divorced. So then doesn’t it follow that it’s even better to hobby and avoid actual relationships because it will go to shit anyways?

The hobby is great and god bless Canada.
 
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AdamH

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I've never completely tied relationships in with sex.

Don't get me wrong, I love sex with my SO, but I'd love her just the same even if the sex wasn't as great.

As such, I've never had any issues seeing SPs as seeing an SP (for me) is like going out for dinner. It's not that I don't love my SO's cooking, it's just that, sometimes it's nice to have a professional cook for me.
 

Daddy2021

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Why such negative views on what you do and the ladies you see?

Life is short enjoy yourself and treat the ladies right. never expect anything but have met some great ladies that have grown to having mutual respect I've even had ladies make me stay twice the booking time in the past also leave together. it's all in mindset if your are fun to be around, they might not mind seeing you.
Remember, the best things in life are what you have to work hard for that goes with relationships.

If you treat and see them as they are piece of flesh and hole they will treat you the same as an Atm

From a life episode, I got into this. And if I do get serious, I will stop.


I so hate the term Hobby what we do is not a hobby
Never said I didn’t treat them right or respectfully. I’m simply pointing out facts. It’s a paid sexual service. That’s it. And all of you are missing my point because you can’t get past your egos. I’m done trying to explain.
 
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