Well as I said in my post, I was curious as to what I had found and read .. if there was any truth to it.. so I was asking the men.. the clients.. if this is true or not.
Yes I am a bbw or what is considered a bbw.. not all of us show our weight in our face.
I'm not an active escort at this point and by no means do I mean to bring out any kind of negativity but a review board is a board where we 'should' feel comfortable in discussing these things.
There's no 'if'.. you can check the 'way back machine'.. I moved Fred from star blvd to this domain name, installed the vbulletin software to run the board and I moderated it under the handle Night Watch. I was also the chair of the hobbyist committee - those that have been on terb long enough know who I am.
And I no longer have a partnership in Hands from Heaven, my best friend, Paul owns Hands from Heaven by himself now. I know exactly which girls are working there because I also built Hands from Heaven Website twenty years ago and I am still the only one who maintains and manages the Hands from Heaven Site.
Again, I was asking the opinion of the clients, men or women
Yes, you did all this. You are a veteran. Which means you should have known how this thread would have effected some of the women here. A place you say you helped create.
You know darn well the rules about women posting pics of themselves in the lounge. This has never been allowed. It is a slap in the face to providers that pay to be here and still can’t post pics of themselves in the lounge. You would have been the one removing them in this thread back in the day.
Also - how does anyone here know that you or other “retired” escorts are actually “retired”. You did say at this point, opening it up for change. You know the game that some women sometimes play here. Post a thread in the lounge and gain tones of PM requests. We all know your PM box would have been full by now on the old software that allowed like 20 PMs only and you can’t deny that you have gotten PMs about coming out of the “retirement” from your return to the board.
So yes - while you can post and ask and discuss, you also have to know because you are such a vet, that this would not have gone well. You already know this is a hot topic, which is why you picked it. You knew there would be negative reactions to you stirring the pot and opening this up to be a bash-fest on bigger ladies. You are a smart women. You knew how this thread would go. I know you knew.
Your title was not asking a question for discussion either, and you post came across as a blanket statement. If it were true, me and other big girls would not have business. Hence why I laughed, and said it is not true. Not all men like BBWs, but all men don’t dislike them either. Your statements say that there is no place here for women like me. Now my self-esteem can handle blanket statements like that, but others can’t so people like me, like
@Amanda Labelle - we will speak out on their behalf and to be honest - again you would have done the same back in day so I don’t know why you are going back and forth on this with Amanda. To me, since I truly believe you knew exactly what you were doing, you should just say you don’t give a shit about our reactions and feelings and you are here to solely have a good time with the guys. Girls be damned. You will undermine them at every turn you can. At least then we will know not to bother replying and just continue to report the behaviour that goes against the rules. Like I did when I reported your pics in this thread for removal.
This board is full of review board culture. Which you already know. So It will always be like social media. Thin, young, etc will get most of the attention, get most of the likes and comments but in the real world, in reality, the truth is so much different. Guys don’t review big girls because they don’t want to get put down. Just like guys don’t review bi-sexual or tgirls, etc. because others will come in and make negative comments. Guy instead use the PM system. But all one has to do is see the amount of women who offer their services as a big girl and you see there is a huge market for it. Maybe not the insane big like 300/400+ lbs but for the average bigger woman, who has had kids, and has those feminine womanly curves. Your answers could have been found with a quick search on LL.
Anyways, welcome back. I hope your future threads don’t go off the rails like this. Please respect the advertisers here and don’t post pics, in the lounge. It is unfair to us advertisers and is simply not allowed and will continue to be reported.