feel bad after wasting money on chaturbate

stinkynuts

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Spent $25 tipping on chaturbate, and purchase $100 in tokens. Feel kind of stupid, since you can watch for free. Just enjoyed the process of giving and seeing their reaction, made it feel more personal and interactive.

Sure beats the strip club, where you pay $30 for a mediocre lap dance. The last time I tipped $5, the girl thanked me sarcastically. Today I tipped $1 in tokens (the girl only gets half of that), and the girl was so appreciative.

Anyone else hooked on camgirl sites? Which one do you visit and how much do you spend?
 
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1:First of all lap dance is still 20 bucks in most places
2: At least with a lap dance you get to touch the girls. Also as you said, you can get video for free.
3: Tipping after a lap dance, giving money on chaturbate, jesus the simp is strong in you
4: They don't appreciate you as a person, they appreciate your money and your simpdom.
 
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Spent $25 tipping on chaturbate, and purchase $100 in tokens. Feel kind of stupid, since you can watch for free. Just enjoyed the process of giving and seeing their reaction, made it feel more personal and interactive.

Sure beats the strip club, where you pay $30 for a mediocre lap dance. The last time I tipped $5, the girl thanked me sarcastically. Today I tipped $1 in tokens (the girl only gets half of that), and the girl was so appreciative.

Anyone else hooked on camgirl sites? Which one do you visit and how much do you spend?
I am glad I am not alone LOL.

About a year ago I started playing around on Chaturbate. I have spent way too much money buying and giving tokens to these cam models. But I have gotten to know and form friendships with many of them.

That's the beauty of Chaturbate.. you can chat with beautiful women from around the world; find out where they are from and what's life like for them.

I have four "special" ones (all from Colombia) that I visit regularly. They've all given me their whatsapp/snapchat and we speak outside the site often. We exchange photos, do video calls and have gotten to know each other on a personal level. One sends me a good night text every night. I know it's a business relationship for them, but there is also friendship that has formed.

Have I spend too much money on chaturbate? 1000% yes. I wish I could go back in time and never even found the web site in the first place. But I enjoy interacting with these models. At this point I feel like I am supporting friends who need money. It's like a sugar daddy relationship.
 
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I am glad I am not alone LOL.

About a year ago I started playing around on Chaturbate. I have spent way too much money buying and giving tokens to these cam models. But I have gotten to know and form friendships with many of them.

That's the beauty of Chaturbate.. you can chat with beautiful women from around the world; find out where they are from and what's life like for them.

I have four "special" ones (all from Colombia) that I visit regularly. They've all given me their whatsapp/snapchat and we speak outside the site often. We exchange photos, do video calls and have gotten to know each other on a personal level. One sends me a good night text every night. I know it's a business relationship for them, but there is also friendship that has formed.

Have I spend too much money on chaturbate? 1000% yes. I wish I could go back in time and never even found the web site in the first place. But I enjoy interacting with these models. At this point I feel like I am supporting friends who need money. It's like a sugar daddy relationship.
I find the ones from Colombia to be so down to earth and genuine. The ones from Eastern Europe are money hungry. They won't even acknolwedge you if you're grey (have no tokens).
I'm guessing you spent thousands. Perhaps giving money directly would be better, since Chaturbate takes half. I think 30% would be fair. 50% seems too much.
 

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I dont waste my money on sex unless its something I have not experienced. online is a waste of money. dating is a waste of money. hookers, depending on which country are a waste of money.

hell even a sex doll is a waste of money when I see the good work my hand does, and the free porn out there.

I get it guys, the thirst is real.

Im so glad my forties hit and my thirst toned down to a much more manageable level.
 
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I am glad I am not alone LOL.

About a year ago I started playing around on Chaturbate. I have spent way too much money buying and giving tokens to these cam models. But I have gotten to know and form friendships with many of them.

That's the beauty of Chaturbate.. you can chat with beautiful women from around the world; find out where they are from and what's life like for them.

I have four "special" ones (all from Colombia) that I visit regularly. They've all given me their whatsapp/snapchat and we speak outside the site often. We exchange photos, do video calls and have gotten to know each other on a personal level. One sends me a good night text every night. I know it's a business relationship for them, but there is also friendship that has formed.

Have I spend too much money on chaturbate? 1000% yes. I wish I could go back in time and never even found the web site in the first place. But I enjoy interacting with these models. At this point I feel like I am supporting friends who need money. It's like a sugar daddy relationship.
Wouldn't it be more cost-effective and fun to take a trip to Colombia and grab a hotty in person?
 
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Wouldn't it be more cost-effective and fun to take a trip to Colombia and grab a hotty in person?
Trust me, it's not the same. The convenience, variety, and online experience is superior in many ways when actually getting laid isn't the main ojbective. A trip gets to be super exhausting especially after a certain age.
 
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Wouldn't it be more cost-effective and fun to take a trip to Colombia and grab a hotty in person?
Never been to Colombia but I went to Tijuana last May and had a great time. I was also in the Dominican Republic a few years ago.. climate and beach were amazing but the chicas only so-so.
 

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Trust me, it's not the same. The convenience, variety, and online experience is superior in many ways when actually getting laid isn't the main ojbective. A trip gets to be super exhausting especially after a certain age.
Colombians are very friendly in person. They are amazing to do all-nighters or even a few days. I have to be able to feel, taste, and bang to enjoy the lady so I may be an anti-online sex type of john. lol
 
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I used to think exactly like to, but we do watch porn, and I think that Online sex is better than porn Because you can interact.
If I can't slip in the tongue or at least the finger, I don't consider that interaction. I guess I'm old school.
 
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Spent $25 tipping on chaturbate, and purchase $100 in tokens. Feel kind of stupid, since you can watch for free. Just enjoyed the process of giving and seeing their reaction, made it feel more personal and interactive.
Yes, it's an intentional psychological trap that plays on a man's instinct to provide. You'll see some men on there tipping thousands of dollars at a time to elicit a reaction because a female's reaction to them providing releases endorphins. It becomes an expensive addiction for many. More money = bigger reaction = more endorphins. It's pretty destructive, to be honest.
 
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Yes, it's an intentional psychological trap that plays on a man's instinct to provide. You'll see some men on there tipping thousands of dollars at a time to elicit a reaction because a female's reaction to them providing releases endorphins. It becomes an expensive addiction for many. More money = bigger reaction = more endorphins. It's pretty destructive, to be honest.

It's an addiction much like drugs, alcohol, or gambling.

I get a high from making people happy by giving them money. The girls also get a high. Problem is that after a while, it takes more and more to achieve the same effect, resulting in an escalation. Over time, it really adds up. A couple bucks here or there every day for years can result in tens or even hundreds of thousands lost.

The smart hing to do is just be one of the lurkers who sit in the background and enjoy the show. Sure, it's not as fun as being the "hero" but it beats being broke.
 

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$25 is nothing...have probably spent a few(probably more) hundred on chaturbate since the beginning of the pandemic.

With spa's and agencies closed and lack of new hot girls in porn, Chaturbate was a gold mine of hot young girls. The way I looked at it is I was spending a couple hundred a week at spa's before , so spending $20 here and there is nothing in comparison. Sure the experience is nothing remotely close to going to see a real girl at spa but they were closed.

I'm more into the couple cams as i want to see the girl getting banged and there is some ridiculously hot russian/eastern euro/south american girls on there that could easily be top tier porn stars. It's always a bit of crap shoot, for every hot cam girl, there is a 100 that are not, so it's a bit of time waster weeding through all the duds, also sometimes a hot girl comes on for 1 week and then never to be seen again. Expect to be ripped off from time to time. It's kind of like the leolist of online porn

One thing I've noticed is that it's key to find them when they just start out, as they are more likely to the hardcore stuff for free because they want to get viewers and are still figuring out how to monetize the platform. After a few weeks on there most of them will only do the good stuff in private. Avoid tipping just for the sake of tipping I would only spend money on ticketshows and the odd privateshow. Pretty much every private/ticket show involved them getting banged in various positions and finishing with cim or facial.

few of my favorites:
 
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