Does a Gentleman Kiss & Tell?

[jammz01]

I'm 65 years old, wife of 40 years passed away suddenly 6 months ago. I'm missing female companionship, not just sex but a bit of a cuddle too. Not looking for another relationship, it's too soon, but I'm thinking the escort route might be for me, maybe not immediately, but down the road a couple of months. So here I am, now a Terbite, learning a lot about the hobby from this community and researching the ladies.

The escort reviews are incredibly helpful in knowing what to expect and the escorts benefit from the publicity (you really don't see many bad reviews here). I would think the escorts also appreciate it when the word gets out about their personal limitations (no Greek, CIM etc.) so that clients are not all asking for or expecting something not on the menu.

So..... after that long preamble, we come to the dilemma. Some of these reviews are incredibly detailed in terms of what actually happened. I was a bit surprised at first, thinking a gentleman doesn't go about telling the world about what his date did or did not do. When my time comes for a review, I think I'll be inclined to "great conversation, put me at ease, very satisfying sexual experience, few restrictions on the menu". But then, that wouldn't be seen as particularly helpful to other hobbiests. I'm rambling, but what do others think. Does a gentleman kiss and tell or is all fair when it is essentially a business transaction?

 

[geraldwhite]

I would guess that 95% of clients don't post reviews at all. You might notice its the same 15-20 guys doing reviews and commenting. You will see the occasional new member suddenly post a review but I'm skeptical of those reviews. Also I would say that 20% of all bookings don't involve sex and are for companionship purposes only. Enjoy the hobby and do whatever you feel comfortable with.

 

[OldDreamer]

I'm 65 years old, wife of 40 years passed away suddenly 6 months ago. I'm missing female companionship, not just sex but a bit of a cuddle too. Not looking for another relationship, it's too soon, but I'm thinking the escort route might be for me, maybe not immediately, but down the road a couple of months. So here I am, now a Terbite, learning a lot about the hobby from this community and researching the ladies.

The escort reviews are incredibly helpful in knowing what to expect and the escorts benefit from the publicity (you really don't see many bad reviews here). I would think the escorts also appreciate it when the word gets out about their personal limitations (no Greek, CIM etc.) so that clients are not all asking for or expecting something not on the menu.

So..... after that long preamble, we come to the dilemma. Some of these reviews are incredibly detailed in terms of what actually happened. I was a bit surprised at first, thinking a gentleman doesn't go about telling the world about what his date did or did not do. When my time comes for a review, I think I'll be inclined to "great conversation, put me at ease, very satisfying sexual experience, few restrictions on the menu". But then, that wouldn't be seen as particularly helpful to other hobbiests. I'm rambling, but what do others think. Does a gentleman kiss and tell or is all fair when it is essentially a business transaction?

Glad you are trying to make the best of your situation. I have been hobbying for quite a while and have almost never posted.
Often, at least in my case, upon repeats, SPs will broach the subject of reviews and what they are comfortable with.
Enjoy and be safe.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I'm 65 years old, wife of 40 years passed away suddenly 6 months ago. I'm missing female companionship, not just sex but a bit of a cuddle too. Not looking for another relationship, it's too soon, but I'm thinking the escort route might be for me, maybe not immediately, but down the road a couple of months. So here I am, now a Terbite, learning a lot about the hobby from this community and researching the ladies.

The escort reviews are incredibly helpful in knowing what to expect and the escorts benefit from the publicity (you really don't see many bad reviews here). I would think the escorts also appreciate it when the word gets out about their personal limitations (no Greek, CIM etc.) so that clients are not all asking for or expecting something not on the menu.

So..... after that long preamble, we come to the dilemma. Some of these reviews are incredibly detailed in terms of what actually happened. I was a bit surprised at first, thinking a gentleman doesn't go about telling the world about what his date did or did not do. When my time comes for a review, I think I'll be inclined to "great conversation, put me at ease, very satisfying sexual experience, few restrictions on the menu". But then, that wouldn't be seen as particularly helpful to other hobbiests. I'm rambling, but what do others think. Does a gentleman kiss and tell or is all fair when it is essentially a business transaction?

Clue is in the name of this forum. Toronto Escort Review Board. As in describing the services rendered by sp's. Kind of the whole fucking point. If that offends your discretional ethics you are probably in the wrong place.

 

[johnd5050]

Choose a well reviewed SP of your liking, independent, outcall, incall there is a variety available. If you have any questions just ask and fellow members will help you.
You dont have to kiss and tell since all the top tier SP's have excellent reviews.

 

[Pleasure Hound]

Why not tell? It's fun!

 

[MaxBlumenthal]

So..... after that long preamble, we come to the dilemma. Some of these reviews are incredibly detailed in terms of what actually happened. I was a bit surprised at first, thinking a gentleman doesn't go about telling the world about what his date did or did not do. When my time comes for a review, I think I'll be inclined to "great conversation, put me at ease, very satisfying sexual experience, few restrictions on the menu". But then, that wouldn't be seen as particularly helpful to other hobbiests. I'm rambling, but what do others think. Does a gentleman kiss and tell or is all fair when it is essentially a business transaction?

She is not your date

 

[jammz01]

Thanks guys for your feedback. All good points.

 

[Gsh]

In my opinion, the "details" aren't useful. They're titillating, and some people enjoy reading/writing about them, but that's different from useful.

The most important info are things like:
- Is this person real?
- Does her pictures/website/media match reality?
- Was booking/screening easy and as expected?
- Did you get robbed/stabbed/left in a ditch?
- Did your experience match reasonable expectations?
- Anything unusual/unexpected happen? Not all surprises are good surprises.

I'd rather see this stuff than poorly-written erotica.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Mate - sorry for your loss - may you find peace and may you always remember. SP's will def. help you and I personally I always ask if they are are comfortable with a review - if they are - you control the narrative. I like to give as much detail as I can because for me I like to read other reviews in detail as well - helps me make a better decision of what my likes and dislikes are and also helps what the SP's likes during a session etc. Happy hobbying mate and stay safe.

 

[Claudia Love]

I'm 65 years old, wife of 40 years passed away suddenly 6 months ago. I'm missing female companionship, not just sex but a bit of a cuddle too. Not looking for another relationship, it's too soon, but I'm thinking the escort route might be for me, maybe not immediately, but down the road a couple of months. So here I am, now a Terbite, learning a lot about the hobby from this community and researching the ladies.

The escort reviews are incredibly helpful in knowing what to expect and the escorts benefit from the publicity (you really don't see many bad reviews here). I would think the escorts also appreciate it when the word gets out about their personal limitations (no Greek, CIM etc.) so that clients are not all asking for or expecting something not on the menu.

So..... after that long preamble, we come to the dilemma. Some of these reviews are incredibly detailed in terms of what actually happened. I was a bit surprised at first, thinking a gentleman doesn't go about telling the world about what his date did or did not do. When my time comes for a review, I think I'll be inclined to "great conversation, put me at ease, very satisfying sexual experience, few restrictions on the menu". But then, that wouldn't be seen as particularly helpful to other hobbiests. I'm rambling, but what do others think. Does a gentleman kiss and tell or is all fair when it is essentially a business transaction?

some escorts have a No review Policy so don't worry abut it just have fun and I think the only time someone should get a review is if they've been scammed robbed or the pimp shows up

 

[Jenesis]

Thanks guys for your feedback. All good points.

Here is the thing, the more detail you put, the less PMs you get. You will get PMs asking what her pussy looks like. What her asshole looks like, how big of a dick can she take.

That is after details are posted. No details and you get all the PMs asking for details like does she do GREEK, CIM, BBBJ. So it is at least better to put as much as you feel comfortable with to help yourself later.

 

[Just Looking For A Latina]

Hey @jammez01, sorry for your loss. Being together for 40 years is wonderful and nice to see.

If you are looking for a cuddle, enjoy being touched again, there are a number of nice women you can book. Depending on your budget I think you could have a very enjoyable time. There are some things to consider.

- what is your budget. How long are you going to book.
- what age are you looking for; similar to your own, will be a little challenging, half your age, very reasonable.
- what are the chances you will fall hard for a lady, this is a bad idea but it does happen.
- do you want to see a lady regularly, twice a month, or see a variety. Variety helps not falling for one.
- are you looking for an independent or agency lady and incall or outcall.

As stated earlier, most TERB members do not review. If you read the reviews most cannot stay on topic either. Review or do not review, it is up to you, as is the amount of detail. What you proposed is perfect and I think several members would appreciate that type of review. Some members explicitly say that they are not going to go into sexual / acronym details which is great.

Once you work through the information, booking is relatively easy.

Hope booking with a lady meets your needs.

 

[geraldwhite]

Best advice I can give is to start with an agency girl age 25-32 with the type of figure and profile that interests you. Read her reviews. Make sure she works alone in a condo or hotel room. You don't want to be thrown off knowing there is another guy 20 feet away banging another sp. Book a hour. Then you have time to relax a little. Avoid leolist and indy sps for now. All TDL, HPL, TGF sps work alone I believe. Let the agency know it's your first time. They will accommodate you. Have fun!

 

[rhuarc29]

I would never in a million years share intimate details about my girlfriend's and my sex life to anyone, including friends. That's a betrayal of trust for our relationship.

When it comes to escorts, it's different: it's a business. Just as they shouldn't be expected to give you "free time" off the clock, it's completely fair for you to post a review of their services so that other may judge their willingness to engage them themselves. How detailed you are is up to you, just keep her safety in mind. Don't give away identifying details (like a description of a tattoo that she blurs out in her photos).

Some ladies have a "No Review" policy, which I personally find asinine. Can you imagine if your doctor (or any other service you procure) told you a condition of your seeing them was that you couldn't post a review online about your experience? Seems pretty shady, right? If I engage a lady with such a policy, I will acquiesce to that request, but only because doing otherwise, after knowingly engaging her services under that condition, would be in bad faith.

I believe the argument for the "No Review" policy is that it poses a safety risk. We all know this industry is YMMV, so if she offers some service to some clients, who then detail said services in a review, then those who do not receive those services in a session may get upset. That makes them bad clients, of course, who should know better. That's one argument, though I'd also argue that going into a session completely oblivious to what quality of service you're going to get can lead to some upset clients as well.

 

[kherg007]

It is a dilemma. And a review posted here is the opposite to what one would do in civilian life. It took a bit for me to get over that inhibition.
I started doing them because I felt guilty how other's reviews helped me have pretty much great experiences. Thus felt it was time to give back. Tried to show some class in doing them, and trying to remember when writing that the lady being reviewed is a person too with feelings and hopes and goals etc.