Seems to be a lot of threads about the same people. Whether they are legit providers or not.
The brethren needs to know how to use the search feature
The brethren needs to know how to use the search feature
Redundancy
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I agree. There is way too much redundancy. It really starts to sound like an echo chamber on here at times for both inquiries and reviews.
TOFTT isn’t as accessible now due to the increase in rates and the increase in the amount of scammers or slackers there are advertising. Those who see non-reviewed ladies who keep coming back to town either aren’t part of the board or write reviews on them for whatever reason.
Sometimes the search feature doesn’t find anything because the SP has changed their alias, phone number, or the SP has a NRP (no review policy).
Because of all this, the same fantastic SPs continue to be reviewed and talked about which is great.The same bad SPs continue to taint the waters. But this means not enough potentially good providers get found leaving everything sounding a little same-y on here for large chunks of time.
TOFTT isn’t as accessible now due to the increase in rates and the increase in the amount of scammers or slackers there are advertising. Those who see non-reviewed ladies who keep coming back to town either aren’t part of the board or write reviews on them for whatever reason.
Sometimes the search feature doesn’t find anything because the SP has changed their alias, phone number, or the SP has a NRP (no review policy).
Because of all this, the same fantastic SPs continue to be reviewed and talked about which is great.The same bad SPs continue to taint the waters. But this means not enough potentially good providers get found leaving everything sounding a little same-y on here for large chunks of time.
Only the case in the Durham threads. This is probably due to a lack of people willing to contribute anything new/useful. Instead it’s turned into a gossip corner for hobbyists. The Toronto section is thriving unlike the Durham section. The Durham section is a close nit community & occasionally you’ll get 1 or 2 new reviews of SP in the area:
Considering the size of the area and population density, Durham is significantly smaller than Toronto. So the number of providers is also small. I think ,It is not the lack of people willing to contribute , but the lack of SPs to review.
That's not to mention the number of "new members" who are either shills or guys who want advice but won't TOFTT themselves. I know I haven't reviewed in awhile, but I also haven't hobbied in awhile, and when I do see someone, I always provide a review. I have been both burned and pleasantly surprised. This isn't a zero-risk hobby, and the newbies need to know that.
FYI , my account is new ,less than a week old. I am also not new here been posting here with my old account that I lost access to a long time ago. Caneagle's
Durham/Oshawa AZN Provider Reference List https://terb.cc/xenforo/threads/durham-oshawa-azn-provider-reference-list.788793/ .
Maybe there some that he did not mention or does not know.,but prettty much he sums it up. There is no more. . .. . . A TOFTT does not guarantee you the same experience as the poster, many factors to consider. Like you said this isn't a "zero-risk hobby",
There are absolutely no lack of new or unreviewed SPs to see and review. Just popping onto LL for 2 minutes and this is what I find.
These ads looks suspicious/bogus. All of them excludes me "NO BLACK GENTS". Except for one, which that is asking for a deposit. You have to be really dumb to send a deposit. So RebelinBed, absolutely tell me how am I or a brother suppose to review them.
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"No black gents".and the other one wants $ 300 for a table massage, xtra $100 for a HJ. for that price I'll get me an escort from an agency. No one will review these. Johndoeon since you are a newbie also why don't you try one of them.
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I obviously don't support discrimination, but I have had positive experiences with SPs who don't see Black men, which is unfortunate. The red flag for me is "Party Friendly". I'm fine with some 420, but anything heavier is a). something I won't use and b.) a strong indicator of unpredictability (the bad kind, not spontaneity).
LOL, that's fair brother. Well, I DID try to see Lilly (https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...xing_massage_in_pickering-7308207?source=list) this afternoon. Her incall rates are 120hh and 200h, booked a session only to get there and get ghosted, wasting 1hr of my day going to Pickering (Krosno Blvd area).
Very hard to explore these unreviewed ladies these days...
First of all, how was I supposed to know the colour of your skin when we’re both merely names on a screen?
Secondly, I wasn’t looking for any specific details in their ads, but I was simply looking for new or unreviewed ladies. As I said, I did a 2 minute scroll to simply show how many new or unreviewed ladies there in fact are for members to TOFTT with if they feel so inclined.
Finally, I also don’t support discrimination either and I’m sorry you’re unable to see potentially good SPs. I’m in a similar boat as cunnilinguist.
I know mine says "new member" but I've been around for awhile considering I started when I was 22 *no confidence in myself, took the easier route* am only 31 but I can say I forgot to post quite a bit and got burned just as much. Have been more active as of late and usually see girls that don't have verified ads. But I've also come to realize to ask for a verification photo doing something to prove it. Like hold the number 2 up or something similar. If they don't, I don't go. If they do I try them out. It's been an easier way for me to find out if they are real or not
First of all , How are you supposed to know that a newbie was keeping all these info to himself or Maybe he is just smart not to hookup with these obviously suspicious/bogus ads you presented.
Secondly , why are you expecting a newbie to spend his money on something that has no history of reliability. That is why people come to these forums to see the reviews and make a wise decision, not to do reconnaissance for you.
Finally , if you are bored with the current SPs in Durham. Why not go to another area,near by or get an agency. Spend some money on gas , do some fieldwork. Don't expect any new guys to do the search for you.
Like cunninglinguist said this isn't a "zero-risk hobby",
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I’m a noob at the hobby, and this is my first post. I’ve been lurking for a month and it’s not obvious how to search for useful information at the start. I cannot find anything sort of like “tips for beginners” thread that would be helpful. You need to do repeated searches to get a vague idea on how to use and find info on these forums , be safe and not get scammed. I’ve spent hours to find tiny nuggets of useful tips or info. I almost fell for the Krista MILF scam and other MILF scammers before I found the thread.
Also as a new hobbyist, I’m going to go with tried, trued and reviewed before TOFTT, just to get a handle on what to expect in a normal situation as opposed to something sketchy. Otherwise any review I will contribute will have lesser value, having no/little experience.
I’ve only seen one SP, she had older but good reviews, I paid a small deposit first based off those reviews and had a good experience despite my high anxiety at the time, being my first one and making the lifestyle choice.
I’d also like to thank everyone that does provide useful information and reviews on these forums, especially the Durham ones. I’ve found it valuable, and will contribute myself in the near future, once the training wheels come off.
Also as a new hobbyist, I’m going to go with tried, trued and reviewed before TOFTT, just to get a handle on what to expect in a normal situation as opposed to something sketchy. Otherwise any review I will contribute will have lesser value, having no/little experience.
I’ve only seen one SP, she had older but good reviews, I paid a small deposit first based off those reviews and had a good experience despite my high anxiety at the time, being my first one and making the lifestyle choice.
I’d also like to thank everyone that does provide useful information and reviews on these forums, especially the Durham ones. I’ve found it valuable, and will contribute myself in the near future, once the training wheels come off.
Basically it is just using your common sense.
1. If you actually did your search for tips in this forum, sending any advance deposit (EFT) to any SP is the dumbest thing to do. DO NOT pay any advance deposit to any SP, even the ones you know have good reviews or you have met before. They can always take the money and run.
2. SPs with redundant good reviews are the best bang for your bucks.
3. Avoid shady isolated locations and be aware of your surroundings when you enter the room. Their pimp/BF could be nearby to rob and beat you up or it could be a police setup.
4. Before you follow any advice from the members here. Check their postings/reviews for credibility.
5. When dealing with asian/ non native English speakers . Make sure you actually understand what they are saying. They will usually use their translation app on their phones.
6. Do not do drugs and sex in the same time with a SP, you are asking for trouble.
7. SPs that are mostly late is a sign of an assembly line set up.
8. Agencies are your best bet not to get scammed because they have a reputation to keep. They maybe a little bit pricey , but you can always make a complaint to the handler. They usually won't give a refund, but will give you another girl. After the encounter you can post your review in the agency's websites.
Valuable posts like the one above are bound to get lost in these threads. May I suggest making a separate thread titled TIPS FOR BEGINNERS IN DURHAM or something along that line that others with experience can also contribute to? If you don’t put in the effort to post, you’re contributing to the lack of information and advice right?
