Backlash after psychologist claims men lonely due to high dating standards

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Eventually women will get rid of “their list” and realize that dating men off their list is a happy opportunity

Also, no one asked these guys if they are happy without women?
 
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angrymime666

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yes women are becoming increasingly selective, which is their prerogative.

however its mens prerogative whether they wish to meet their standards. men behave and show their emotions differently them women. I have found that women want men who emote like women, which is the farthest thing men should do.
 

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yes women are becoming increasingly selective, which is their prerogative.

however its mens prerogative whether they wish to meet their standards. men behave and show their emotions differently them women. I have found that women want men who emote like women, which is the farthest thing men should do.
Women have alway been extremely selective. Same as how men have always wanted to fuck any woman we find even moderately attractive.
Evolution. That’s why it’s a numbers game for men.
Approach as many as you can, plan as many seeds as you can, take what you can get. Also does not hurt to stay fit, have a decent paying career (hopefully that you like), and don’t be intimidated to talk to women or a creep.
She rejects you, move on. Efficiency.
 

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Women have alway been extremely selective. Same as how men have always wanted to fuck any woman we find even moderately attractive.
Evolution. That’s why it’s a numbers game for men.
Approach as many as you can, plan as many seeds as you can, take what you can get. Also does not hurt to stay fit, have a decent paying career (hopefully that you like), and don’t be intimidated to talk to women or a creep.
She rejects you, move on. Efficiency.
most definitely, if as a man that is what you want to do. selection has changed over the decades. where a mans main way of selection has not changed and womens list has grown from a man being a provider to so much more.

if we are talking just sex then it totally a numbers game. if its a relationship, then its a battle.

honestly the juice is not worth the squeeze in a western country. aside of having children, men do not need women. its our hard wired nature that continues our thirst. Im not into men(ladyboys for sure) but the gays seem to have over come their hardwired nature.
 

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I'm 58 years old, never married. I wouldn't say I am lonely. Have enough hobbies and friends to stay occupied.
I've never married or had kids because I don't want to be married or have kids. Really don't see the point of being in a relationship or having my own family.
 
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Eventually women will get rid of “their list” and realize that dating men off their list is a happy opportunity

Also, no one asked these guys if they are happy without women?
You either missed the point or didn’t read the article at all.
 

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Who TF cares about all these so-called 'backlashes'?

You say ANTYHING , SOMEONE won't like it. If they post their opinion, is that a BACKLASH?

A symptom of the rampant 'drama queenism' that is permeating the media these days.
 

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Who TF cares about all these so-called 'backlashes'?

You say ANTYHING , SOMEONE won't like it. If they post their opinion, is that a BACKLASH?

A symptom of the rampant 'drama queenism' that is permeating the media these days.
Agreed. Everyone is offended at everything. Sometimes I think that the only way reality will return is when the bombs begin falling again.....
 

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Well, don't expect that to change. Quite a few women are getting rich off those lonely bastards using OnlyFans and other such sites. It's sad that normal, healthy relationships are becoming rarer, through a combination of factors (not just higher standards by modern women). But the only thing that's going to reverse that trend is a massive cultural overhaul brought on likely through societal collapse. Because the truth is, in modern first-world society, a man's biological imperative to protect and provide, and a woman's biological imperative to nurture and cultivate, are not the major factors they were previously. The pursuit of happiness has changed to be more materialistic IMO. Rather than that American dream of a house, a family, a pet, and a career, it's ten houses, constant jettsetting, several gucci bags and an Instagram following.
 

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Well, don't expect that to change. Quite a few women are getting rich off those lonely bastards using OnlyFans and other such sites. It's sad that normal, healthy relationships are becoming rarer, through a combination of factors (not just higher standards by modern women). But the only thing that's going to reverse that trend is a massive cultural overhaul brought on likely through societal collapse. Because the truth is, in modern first-world society, a man's biological imperative to protect and provide, and a woman's biological imperative to nurture and cultivate, are not the major factors they were previously. The pursuit of happiness has changed to be more materialistic IMO. Rather than that American dream of a house, a family, a pet, and a career, it's ten houses, constant jettsetting, several gucci bags and an Instagram following.
I have to admit, this reply was very well put together! Applauds.....
 

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La la land
I'm 58 years old, never married. I wouldn't say I am lonely. Have enough hobbies and friends to stay occupied.
I've never married or had kids because I don't want to be married or have kids. Really don't see the point of being in a relationship or having my own family.
So in all your life you never had a girlfriend or living companions with you?
I want to see if I beat you in any form. I have reject initiation or approaches since high school. SP was on my mind for 10 year goal but it became a lifetime.
 

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So in all your life you never had a girlfriend or living companions with you?
I want to see if I beat you in any form. I have reject initiation or approaches since high school. SP was on my mind for 10 year goal but it became a lifetime.
Haven't had a GF since I was in my mid-late 30's. Never lived with any GF's. Always had my own place and no roommates/live in GF.
I realized after my last GF that I real don't care if I have 1 or not.
 

angrymime666

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So in all your life you never had a girlfriend or living companions with you?
I want to see if I beat you in any form. I have reject initiation or approaches since high school. SP was on my mind for 10 year goal but it became a lifetime.
I know that you never asked me specifically, but I have never been married and never have had any kids. I have lived with several women and had several long term relationships. most of which were a huge hassle considering they always wanted to live their life according to their rules. their choices always collided and affected my life in a negative way. they were unable to plan ahead, be financially intelligent and successful; as well as, other issues.

once I stopped living with women I was able to execute more of my goals and had much less negative impacts. this could translate with having women having male partners.

the point is that having a relationship comes with issues if your partner is not on your level and not willing to follow your lead.
 
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