Any words of wisdom/advice?

[Adjunction]

So I'm looking to pop my proverbial cherry and I was hoping for some wisdom and/or advice from folks.

Couple questions.
1 do I let them know im a first timer?
2 should I expect much in the way of Convo when I arrive?
3 when you arrange for an hour or more does all remaining time vanish after you pop or can you go multiple rounds?
4 when you see an ad with pics of more than one person, is it safe to assume they are sharing the same ad and therefore see hosting space?

Thanks for all/any input.

 

[kherg007]

So I'm looking to pop my proverbial cherry and I was hoping for some wisdom and/or advice from folks.

Couple questions.
1 do I let them know im a first timer?
2 should I expect much in the way of Convo when I arrive?
3 when you arrange for an hour or more does all remaining time vanish after you pop or can you go multiple rounds?
4 when you see an ad with pics of more than one person, is it safe to assume they are sharing the same ad and therefore see hosting space?

Thanks for all/any input.

-Yes, let them know.
-Pick a well reviewed experienced lady. Enjoy a few minutes of conversation, as she's likely bright too. Remember, have a minute or two of niceties, hit the shower after dropping the envelope, come out wearing the towel, talk to her a few more minutes, then onto business.
-If it says msog then you can have another go. However, if you pop 45 mins in don't expect another shot. And, you pay for her time. A well reviewed lady knows that and you can chat/cuddle (remember if you're having an exit shower leave time for that). A low-end LL lady may usher you out after a shot.
-I'd assume that they're sharing the unit. But I'd be concerned that it's a shady operation if multiple pics. I'd go with an agency or indy that advertises here. Spend a bit more and you'll be sure you won't get scammed. Particularly if it's your first go.

 

[Geee]

So I'm looking to pop my proverbial cherry and I was hoping for some wisdom and/or advice from folks.

Couple questions.
1 do I let them know im a first timer?
2 should I expect much in the way of Convo when I arrive?
3 when you arrange for an hour or more does all remaining time vanish after you pop or can you go multiple rounds?
4 when you see an ad with pics of more than one person, is it safe to assume they are sharing the same ad and therefore see hosting space?

Thanks for all/any input.

Yes ahead of time, depends on the escort ask ahead of time, depends on the escort some are scammy, some ads are agencies you'd have to be more specific about the ad.

 

[Goodoer]

My two cents? Don't lose your virginity with a SP. Keep plugging away and find a civilian. Even if it is a disaster first-time experience, it'll at least be real. You owe that to yourself. You have a long life to live.

Once that's out of the way, poon away with SPs to hone your technique.

 

[NoillyPrat87]

My two cents? Don't lose your virginity with a SP. Keep plugging away and find a civilian. Even if it is a disaster first-time experience, it'll at least be real. You owe that to yourself. You have a long life to live.

Once that's out of the way, poon away with SPs to hone your technique.

Oh my! I Fully agree with the above. You only have ONE first time, so find someone your age that you like and trust, be fully open about it and that will give you lifelong souvenirs you can always come back too. Sex is something you need to discover slowly, its not porn. Going "all in" with even a fully respectful SP will only twist you brain on the wrong side and fuck you up. HAve some confidence in yourself and be patient mate, cheers

 

[Mr.lover]

I disagree, just lose it with an SP pick someone who is nice and professional who will give you the full gfe experience. It helps boost your confidence and self esteem, improve your comfort and mood around women.
First time is over rated, especially if you have a bad one lol. Some SP will be proud that you selected them, I personally would take some time to research, get feedback, recommendations.
I personally have no recommendations, as I prefer Korean SPs and i have not tested the current rosters out there.

 

[Geee]

it'll at least be real

Real is seriously overrated, it's generally more expensive than an sp and not always possible for everyone. Due to lack of looks, lack of confidence, having the personality of a potato or any combination of those traits.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Oh my! I Fully agree with the above. You only have ONE first time, so find someone your age that you like and trust, be fully open about it and that will give you lifelong souvenirs you can always come back too. Sex is something you need to discover slowly, its not porn. Going "all in" with even a fully respectful SP will only twist you brain on the wrong side and fuck you up. HAve some confidence in yourself and be patient mate, cheers

Downside is that you might be waiting till you're 30 and then you will feel like an oily pratt. My first time wasn't exactly the stuff of wine and roses. More like three thrusts and an apology and excuse myself as fast as possible to get away and mull over the disappointment over a beer somewhere.
One of my biggest regrets is that I missed out on the hottest French blonde of my dreams, in Paris on the street when I was 17. She was a 10. I was standing there stunned as she kept accosting guys until she got one who left with her. I hadn't seen a hooker in real life till then. So it took me a while to clue in. Wish she had been my first.

 

[Darts]

There are young ladies who I would call "semi-pro". They are not 100% pro nor 100% civie. Maybe someone who is a semi-pro would be good for a first timer?

 

[Jenesis]

I’m going to say - whatever you decide to do regarding the hobby - do your research. Don’t let the little head do the talking. Find the ad, looks for reviews, do image searches, read the ad, read the website

The more research you do on the lady, the better chance you have of having a good time.

 

[ottawa_cuck]

1 do I let them know im a first timer?
2 should I expect much in the way of Convo when I arrive?
3 when you arrange for an hour or more does all remaining time vanish after you pop or can you go multiple rounds?
4 when you see an ad with pics of more than one person, is it safe to assume they are sharing the same ad and therefore see hosting space?

1. no
2. no
3. yes
4. no

 

[NoillyPrat87]

Downside is that you might be waiting till you're 30 and then you will feel like an oily pratt. My first time wasn't exactly the stuff of wine and roses. More like three thrusts and an apology and excuse myself as fast as possible to get away and mull over the disappointment over a beer somewhere.
One of my biggest regrets is that I missed out on the hottest French blonde of my dreams, in Paris on the street when I was 17. She was a 10. I was standing there stunned as she kept accosting guys until she got one who left with her. I hadn't seen a hooker in real life till then. So it took me a while to clue in. Wish she had been my first.

Sounds to me that you really embrace the cult of victimization which characterizes the Mugabeism movement there... Uhm Robert?

 

[bangbro77]

i did it years ago I don’t regret it probably helped get the monkey off my back.
Just pick a reputable provider .

 

[Sonic Temple]

So I'm looking to pop my proverbial cherry and I was hoping for some wisdom and/or advice from folks.

Couple questions.
1 do I let them know im a first timer?
2 should I expect much in the way of Convo when I arrive?
3 when you arrange for an hour or more does all remaining time vanish after you pop or can you go multiple rounds?
4 when you see an ad with pics of more than one person, is it safe to assume they are sharing the same ad and therefore see hosting space?

Thanks for all/any input.

The question you should be asking is who would we recommend so you are not corrupted by this industry and actually love it for what it is. The right SP will answer all those questions for you and leave a lasting impression for you to have a healthy (def. of healthy is subjective ) impression. Based on who I have seen and would recommend - its simple and no particular order:

@SultrySofia (she was my first and blame her for a wonderful healthy venture in this amazing culture).
@Amari

to get you going.

 

[onomatopoeia]

So I'm looking to pop my proverbial cherry and I was hoping for some wisdom and/or advice from folks.

Couple questions.
1 do I let them know im a first timer?
2 should I expect much in the way of Convo when I arrive?
3 when you arrange for an hour or more does all remaining time vanish after you pop or can you go multiple rounds?
4 when you see an ad with pics of more than one person, is it safe to assume they are sharing the same ad and therefore see hosting space?

Thanks for all/any input.

How old are you?

If you're under 18, you shouldn't be posting on this board yet. If you're over 30, you should have filled this bucket list item by now. The answer to this question is crucial to giving you appropriate advice.

 

[Dirkpit]

Seems to me that some assumptions are being made. Op stated he is “Popping the proverbial cherry.” This could mean it’s his first time with a SP. May or may not be his first sexual relationship. This does not indicate any age bracket. More info may be needed. Best advice was doing your research, checking reviews. Try to be a nice person. Every encounter is YMMV. That’s part of the fun.

 

[Ref]

I thought there was an unwritten rule that escorts would de-flower a virgin for free.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Sounds to me that you really embrace the cult of victimization which characterizes the Mugabeism movement there... Uhm Robert?

LOL! you are probably right. At some point though it is advisable to ask yourself the age old question. Do I wait for Miss Right who in my experience will keep you waiting till either you have lost interest or your dick rots off....or take the plunge into the hobby which comes with no regrets. Depends how much time you want to waste.
Lady at work who was really attractive and knew I wanted to fuck her, and would cock tease with leisurely enjoyment finally asked me out for a coffee date after 6 years. I accepted because I was floored by the surprise. It was nice. The conversation flowed pleasantly for several hours and I told her if she would like to do it again I would be happy to, but if she didn't, that was fine. She didn't. One thing she did mention was that she thought she had gained weight and gotten a little less attractive and that she liked the way she looked six years before. I silently agreed, but didn't say anything, other than "you look fine".
Long winded point being. After six years, who gives a fuck? She should have pulled the trigger when I gave a damn.

 

[IM469]

1 do I let them know Im a first timer?

You are more likely to have a worse experience if you say it is your first time.

My suggestion if it is your first time:

1. Rub one out before you go.
2. Flowers and or candy are not necessary.
3. Turn off your phone (if you forget - just tell mom you will call her back)
4. No pictures
5. Do a little preliminary research on female anatomy before you go.
5. You are on the clock - casual talk as you undress - then you can talk about the latest Marvel movie as you dress.
6. If you are fast to finish and feel awkward - just say you have never been with someone so amazing as her.

Good Luck !

 

[NoillyPrat87]

LOL! you are probably right. At some point though it is advisable to ask yourself the age old question. Do I wait for Miss Right who in my experience will keep you waiting till either you have lost interest or your dick rots off....or take the plunge into the hobby which comes with no regrets. Depends how much time you want to waste.
Lady at work who was really attractive and knew I wanted to fuck her, and would cock tease with leisurely enjoyment finally asked me out for a coffee date after 6 years. I accepted because I was floored by the surprise. It was nice. The conversation flowed pleasantly for several hours and I told her if she would like to do it again I would be happy to, but if she didn't, that was fine. She didn't. One thing she did mention was that she thought she had gained weight and gotten a little less attractive and that she liked the way she looked six years before. I silently agreed, but didn't say anything, other than "you look fine".
Long winded point being. After six years, who gives a fuck? She should have pulled the trigger when I gave a damn.

I understand your point though, cheers