Hey all, just like me I'm sure most of you appreciate discretion as part of this hobby. Most if not all SP/MAs accept only cash as payment. Given ones living conditions, getting hold of cash discretely may not be very easy or possible. I'm hoping the community can share some tips and tricks about how to overcome this challenge.
Discrete Cash
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Drive to your bank's ATM, get money.
If someone else is watching the account. Do so over a course of time and maybe while doing it consider not cheating on your spouse.
Buy a few items in cash and take out more than you need. Pocket the extra.
Start an old school hobby that involves you having to leave the house to get supplies/talk shop with others about the hobby. Maybe one that requires you to browse a number of shops? Vinyl records are big right now, maybe that? You now have an excuse to go out for a couple of hours and to spend cash, tell her they give you a better deal if you pay with cash, no tax for cash, and you now have an excuse to need paper money.
What if you go somewhere like Walmart or the LCBO that allows cash back with your purchase?
I had a client years ago who would go buy gas, put most in his vehicle and some in a canister, then after accumulating enough he would sell it for cash to a friend.
I don’t need discretion as I am not in a relationship and if I was then I wouldn’t be paying someone for sex.
in your case either take the money out and just say you want cash on you or get separate bank accounts and don’t be an idiot and let your partner have access to your money.
Lol! Thèse days a guy can almost get a session for a canister if gas!
Yes, you can get $60 or so in cash, each time you go to LCBO, grocery store, etc. Larger amounts may appear suspicious.
Thanks everyone for the comments and suggestions! I'll give them a try. Open to any more if you have them as well.
If you are married and hobby at all, the sorts of cash you take out will be a bit...
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As the kids these days say. Unless of course you normal spending is much much higher than your hobby budget.
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If the only people who participated in the sex industry were single, there would be a lot less people participating.
It’s probably not realistic to go throwing around a high and mighty opinion considering this is still illegal for you whether you’re attached or not.
I keep some cash at home, I tell my SO that it is for paying things such as small jobs around the house or service people who like to be paid in cash so as not to pay taxes, lawnmower repairs, car detailing, etc., I use some of it, then tell my SO that I need to replenish it. When I go to the ATM, I take a little more and hide some away. Over time, she loses track of my little jobs around the house, and I keep a cash float that way.
From a woman’s point of view and I’m not a SW, if I want to be discrete, I may use the following reasons:
1. Will take out cash for Kijji purchases and browse kijii site once in a while and leave the cache.
2. If I go to boys nite out, perhaps men night out, I would pay my share by cash instead of giving the card to some dudes.
3. If I take taxi, I pay cash. Don’t mention Uber.
4. I pay all the tips in cash even if I pay the bill using card everywhere.
5. if I have young kids, I pay for neighborhood ice cream van or lemonade.
6. I like to donate few coins at the checkout counter, thus I sometimes pay using cash at Walmart and Loblaws.
7. If I go to rib festival or similar events, I pay using cash.
8. If I go to church or worship places, I donate something.
9. If I work outside of home or pick-up kids, I like to buy hotdogs and fries at the stand for lunch or snacks for kids.
10. If I work downtown, I sometimes give money to homeless.
11. To avoid impulse purchases, I pay cash at Costco and Lee Valley. You have to be careful about this especially Costco.
I won’t withdraw more than $200-$300 biweekly just to be in the safe side
1. Will take out cash for Kijji purchases and browse kijii site once in a while and leave the cache.
2. If I go to boys nite out, perhaps men night out, I would pay my share by cash instead of giving the card to some dudes.
3. If I take taxi, I pay cash. Don’t mention Uber.
4. I pay all the tips in cash even if I pay the bill using card everywhere.
5. if I have young kids, I pay for neighborhood ice cream van or lemonade.
6. I like to donate few coins at the checkout counter, thus I sometimes pay using cash at Walmart and Loblaws.
7. If I go to rib festival or similar events, I pay using cash.
8. If I go to church or worship places, I donate something.
9. If I work outside of home or pick-up kids, I like to buy hotdogs and fries at the stand for lunch or snacks for kids.
10. If I work downtown, I sometimes give money to homeless.
11. To avoid impulse purchases, I pay cash at Costco and Lee Valley. You have to be careful about this especially Costco.
I won’t withdraw more than $200-$300 biweekly just to be in the safe side
Who are we to judge someone else's moral compass? Some may consider even single men indulging with sex providers as immoral, just as some may consider married men indulging with sex providers as morally good.
The only one that really knows whether it's right or wrong is the one doing said actions. We are all responsible of our own moral compass.
Cheers!
After my own troubles, I no longer judge anyone's marriage. Super nice people can have an awful relationship. People who bicker incessantly may love each other deeply. Many blokes here love their wives even though the wife gave up on sex years ago and these wives may be happier w their hubbies messing with the occasional no strings attached type dalliances vs having affairs which might involve affection and public discovery/embarrassment etc.
And the husband is no longer attractive and vice versa to have an intimate relationship.
Nothing wrong with judging people by your standards, nothing wrong with having standards, also nothing wrong with ignoring other people who don't share your standards.
I mean, when I first heard of 4-20 I was doing research, turns out it was the birthday of this fellow Adolf Hitler. Very compelling eyes. Painter, sure, decorated war vet, that's good, involved in politics, could be OK but then hold on, he hated Jews, I mean really hated Jews, the more I learned the less I cared for this guy, so yeah I am going to judge him and his moral compass. To the point where I was wanting to find and kill Hitler till I found out he was already dead. I didn't even know he was sick.
---Adapted from a Norm MacDonald [RIP] bit
Also your last sentence implies there is no objective morality, and I am not referring to the moral laws of Lemmy, Chuck Norris and Morgan Freeman either. Basic logic and human decency tells us that what Paul Bernardo did is wrong, wrong as fuck.
I don't think you can trust on Discrete Cash. That guy did my mom in Reno just to watch me cry, then he announced it on TV live. Not discrete at all. For shame.
Yeah I changed it a bit
