Who’s responsibility is it to manage the time of the appointment?

[Jenesis]

So I was chatting with a couple escorts over dinner last night and this topic came up. We were divided.

Who is suppose to be responsible for the time management of an appointment.

For example, I have one client who would literally talk through an hours long appointment without any action. He is a chatty one and just gets caught up in conversation. I know this so I push the session along from talking to getting to the action. I have to tell him. “ ok shut Up and get naked” or there would be no action. His time would run out.

I believe it is my responsibility to figure out the type of session you want and then facilitate it. One of the ladies I was with felt that if he wastes his time talking, that is on him. The other was on the fence.

So I ask you guys? Who is responsible for the time management? Escort, client or both.

 

[squeezer]

In the end if he leaves without any action the odds are he will not come back so I believe it is in the escorts best interest to make sure some action gets in.

I personally keep track of the time and only allow max 10 minutes of talking at the beginning and then start kissing, feeling up etc.....

 

[Josephine Grey]

So I was chatting with a couple escorts over dinner last night and this topic came up. We were divided.

Who is suppose to be responsible for the time management of an appointment.

For example, I have one client who would literally talk through an hours long appointment without any action. He is a chatty one and just gets caught up in conversation. I know this so I push the session along from talking to getting to the action. I have to tell him. “ ok shut Up and get naked” or there would be no action. His time would run out.

I believe it is my responsibility to figure out the type of session you want and then facilitate it. One of the ladies I was with felt that if he wastes his time talking, that is on him. The other was on the fence.

So I ask you guys? Who is responsible for the time management? Escort, client or both.

It's on us to keep them on track but it depends what your business strategy is. Also how much risk you are willing to take.

You can do the "lawyer" tricks - you let him talk and then you present the bill. Risky

Or, you can do the psychothérapist trick - remind them that time flies by and that a. You cannot have them any longer or B. They will have to extend if they want more time to talk. Safer.

The lawyer is a lot more graceful than the psychotherapist but you generally know your clients. If you know you aren't gonna get paid better be a little brutal.

 

[jerbear15]

So I was chatting with a couple escorts over dinner last night and this topic came up. We were divided.

Who is suppose to be responsible for the time management of an appointment.

For example, I have one client who would literally talk through an hours long appointment without any action. He is a chatty one and just gets caught up in conversation. I know this so I push the session along from talking to getting to the action. I have to tell him. “ ok shut Up and get naked” or there would be no action. His time would run out.

I believe it is my responsibility to figure out the type of session you want and then facilitate it. One of the ladies I was with felt that if he wastes his time talking, that is on him. The other was on the fence.

So I ask you guys? Who is responsible for the time management? Escort, client or both.

I'd say it's both. It's our responsibility to let the SP know how you would like the session to go and hers to communicate.

 

[jerbear15]

You

It's on us to keep them on track but it depends what your business strategy is. Also how much risk you are willing to take.

You can do the "lawyer" tricks - you let him talk and then you present the bill. Risky

Or, you can do the psychothérapist trick - remind them that time flies by and that a. You cannot have them any longer or B. They will have to extend if they want more time to talk. Safer.

The lawyer is a lot more graceful than the psychotherapist but you generally know your clients. If you know you aren't gonna get paid better be a little brutal.

You would make a really hot lawyer!

 

[Josephine Grey]

You

You would make a really hot lawyer!

I am every women babe lawyer, psychoterapist, sex counselor, vacuum

 

[boomboom]

I'd say its both.
They are paying for time..... what happens during that time is between 2 consenting adults.
If its a regular, you know them& they know you.... likes dislikes guilty pleasures which buttons to push or kiss & which topics are not for discussion if you really know them. Sometimes a client needs to unload their mind, not the other load.

 

[jerbear15]

I'd say its both.
They are paying for time..... what happens during that time is between 2 consenting adults.
If its a regular, you know them& they know you.... likes dislikes guilty pleasures which buttons to push or kiss & which topics are not for discussion if you really know them. Sometimes a client needs to unload their mind, not the other load.

Escactly! They could want to play checkers!

 

[Jenesis]

It's on us to keep them on track but it depends what your business strategy is. Also how much risk you are willing to take.

You can do the "lawyer" tricks - you let him talk and then you present the bill. Risky

Or, you can do the psychothérapist trick - remind them that time flies by and that a. You cannot have them any longer or B. They will have to extend if they want more time to talk. Safer.

The lawyer is a lot more graceful than the psychotherapist but you generally know your clients. If you know you aren't gonna get paid better be a little brutal.

See that is my thinking. I’m looking for lastly relationships with clients. I want regulars so I’m not about to let them get lost in the session just chatting. I wouldn’t let them get lost on trying to please me either as was one example I was given last night as well.

We all know the name of this game and that is for the guy to have his release for the most part, so while I won’t rush that during a session, I will lead the session to the final outcome.

 

[jerbear15]

I am every women babe lawyer, psychoterapist, sex counselor, vacuum

Yeah but we both know I like outfits requests and you put thoughts on my head

 

[Josephine Grey]

I'd say its both.
They are paying for time..... what happens during that time is between 2 consenting adults.
If its a regular, you know them& they know you.... likes dislikes guilty pleasures which buttons to push or kiss & which topics are not for discussion if you really know them. Sometimes a client needs to unload their mind, not the other load.

Very true. A lot of man just need to talk. If that's the case they should tell you. They can get social rates.

 

[Jenesis]

Very true. A lot of man just need to talk. If that's the case they should tell you. They can get social rates.

I did that once. A guy booked an appointment. He was a regular and he was just unburdening weeks worth of built up frustrations. I would try to lead him to physical time with touching and petting but he was just not receiving. When we had 15 mins left, I finally spoke up and said something about the time. He asked to extended, so I extended the second hour at my strictly social rate, even though that was the hour the deed was done. Not something I would always do but he was a regular, what he was going through at the time was a lot and you just knew he needed to talk. To get it out. If he didn’t it would have also effected his performance, he wouldn’t have enjoyed the release as much. By it happening this way, he got out what he needed and then was able to release sexually as well and felt the relief of both.

 

[Josephine Grey]

See that is my thinking. I’m looking for lastly relationships with clients. I want regulars so I’m not about to let them get lost in the session just chatting. I wouldn’t let them get lost on trying to please me either as was one example I was given last night as well.

We all know the name of this game and that is for the guy to have his release for the most part, so while I won’t rush that during a session, I will lead the session to the final outcome.

It's beyond getting paid or the importance of the sexual act in a session to me. It's how they treat me that matters.

I have very talkative regulars and they book multiple hours from the beginning. It avoids me to be on my toes constantly and keep him on track and he can do what the hell he feels like for the lenght he feels like. Those appointment are stress free and always enjoyable.

Then You have the other guy...he knows he talks too much he always just take one hour and always go over. The whole appointment is too keep him on track and still everytime he manages to get more. To me this guy is exausting. It's not about the money, it's about him not respecting me.

 

[Sonic Temple]

Great thread @Jenesis , great topic of discussion. For me - I take full responsibility of managing my time. For me its about respect as well, meaning that I know the SP has others to see and if I can get my session in and leave on time where she has enough time to freshen up for her next appointment - than I'm good. Respect to my fellow Gents, and to the SP and her time.

 

[Jenesis]

It's beyond getting paid or the importance of the sexual act in a session to me.

I have very talkative regulars and they book multiple hours from the beginning. It avoids me to be on my toes constantly and keep him on track and he can do what the hell he feels like for the lenght he feels like. Those appointment are stress free and always enjoyable.

Then You have the other guy...he knows he talks too much he always just take one hour and always go over. The whole appointment is too keep him on track and still everytime he manages to get more. To me this guy is exausting. It's not about the money, it's about him not respecting me.

At the end I don't care who manage the time I care about how you make me feel.

Agreed. This is never an issue in multiple hour appointments and I love my regs that book those but this thread was more intended for the hour booker. I guess even the hh if you want to think about it. I didn’t really think outside of an hour though

I am not big on “managing time”. It’s not something I like to worry about at all. But I do think the onus is on us more to lead the direction of the session. More so the shorter the time booked. Some guys get nervous, chatty, don’t make the “first move”, and you have to read the room and sometimes push it along.

It’s why I love my dinner dates so much. There is no worry of any of that.

 

[Jenesis]

Great thread @Jenesis , great topic of discussion. For me - I take full responsibility of managing my time. For me its about respect as well, meaning that I know the SP has others to see and if I can get my session in and leave on time where she has enough time to freshen up for her next appointment - than I'm good. Respect to my fellow Gents, and to the SP and her time.

I think that is awesome and what all clients should do. 100%.

We were just talking more about what happens during your time. You arrive on time, leave on time, but don’t get to “finish the deed” because you were distracted with others things, which is usually talking. Or in the shower, or combo, or whatever.

The convo at dinner started because one of our party had a client that day that didn’t get time for any playtime because it was taken up by talking. The other and I didnt think that was fair for the poor guy and the defence was that it is on the client to manage his time and if he doesn’t move it from talking to the bed then that is on him.

 

[y2kmark]

In the end if he leaves without any action the odds are he will not come back so I believe it is in the escorts best interest to make sure some action gets in.

I personally keep track of the time and only allow max 10 minutes of talking at the beginning and then start kissing, feeling up etc.....

10 minutes? That's more patience than I ever see myself having...

 

[Lv Wmn]

I voted escort but it is somewhat shared, we have to be aware of the time we booked and not spend too much time chatting.

I know there are cases of guys just staying after they have "finished." THAT is an abuse of the time.

I never want to be a guy that stays too long.

I remember once looking at the clock in the room and nearly freaking out because time was up already and we were not at all done. I commented about the time only to be told the clock was fast and we still had an appropriate amount of time left.

 

[barnacler]

It's easy, just have a big ass clock totally visible.

 

[johnd5050]

I commented about the time only to be told the clock was fast and we still had an appropriate amount of time left

Old trick.
Out of the door if she did not like you, time is up pal